Goof
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有条我认为是能达到三赢的路子你老考虑下:
由你父母出面,在国内物色一位姑娘,她首先必须是:想润但自身无条件,为润并获得绿卡这个目标,自愿支付下面将说到的 B 条代价的,单身女子。
之后(也就是你俩父母及你俩各种交流沟通谈判均满意后);你回国与她领证、办签证,带她回新西兰共同生活造人。
后继无非是:A.你俩共同生活合得来,感情日深,相夫教子带娃们一家其乐融融。那当然是完美结局(届时请支付鄙大厨小礼一份
如果 B. 你俩共同生活合不来、感情日浅、始乱终弃,那么这事就成了本质上的子宫换绿卡,她可在生了娃之后你俩商定的时间弃家离婚(绿卡你负责,娃必须归你,有否补偿、如何探访娃之类的婚前协议写清楚公证
在这之后你有选择余地:娃给你父母在中国抚养、接父母来新西兰帮你带娃、还是自己当单身奶爸(建议你老先别还在处男之身时就急着下判断,把有娃有老婆等同于失去自由,过来人表示当你遇上缘中女人并有娃后,心境和取舍会大变的
讲完。
靑空@tianlan
我爸最近说,要是我实在不想成家,他可以出钱给我找个代孕,生下来小孩放国内给他们带。 思考了一下,觉得这样太不负责任了。但自己带吧,好日子就没了,并且处男当爹也未免有些离谱……
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It has been reported that police have recently visited Renee-Rose Schwenke about a so-called 'offensive' social media post she posted. Not threatening, not inciting violence, just that it allegedly offended someone.
If this report is true, this is '1984 thought-police' level overreach. It should seriously frighten every New Zealander who believes in freedom of speech.
This is not about whether this particular post was offensive or not. There will always be personal responsibility and consequences for people voicing their opinions that are viewed by some as tasteless or gormless or offensive - but those consequences should not be by way of a police visit.
No one has the right to not be offended, nor do they have the right to be protected from having hurt feelings. In fact it is precisely the right to be able to offend which is the foundation of freedom of speech in our country.
This has happened overseas with more regularity where social media posts, opinions, views, expressions, and even jokes are now deemed offensive by some authoritarian power and have been met with threats from police, arrests, or even convictions in court.
We never thought we would see this happen here and it has a chilling effect on where we are going as a country.
As Oliver Wendall Homles Jr said, freedom of speech also comes with responsibility of speech - you cannot falsely yell 'fire' in a crowded theatre without there rightly being a consequence. We already have laws around 'responsibility of speech' ranging from defamation to incitement of violence, and that is important - but people's freedom to have their own free opinion is something which should be aggressively defended.
We don't all have to agree with each other's opinions, but we should all fight for each other's right to have them. This is the essential foundation of our free democracy.
If we start to accept this kind of overreach by police to curtail individual freedom of speech, our democracy will fall into the type of totalitarian oblivion that will destroy our country.
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