Fredrqk

One thing I’ve come to realize is that the difference between people who are making money and people who are not making money is not really hard work. At first, I thought it was access to information. But recently, I came to understand that it’s not just access to information, it’s execution. A lot of people have access to information, but they never really act on it. So if you’re trying to make money, you need to pay attention to things. Not just pay attention, you need to act on them. If you hear that someone is making money through a particular channel or doing something profitable, try to look into it. Even if it’s not what you do, take two or three minutes to find out what it’s about. When you do that, you might become interested and decide to get more information about that business, investment, or opportunity. That’s how you gradually expose yourself to things that can potentially change your financial situation. A lot of people think the problem is access to information, but that’s not always true. Many people have access to the same information. The difference is that some people act on it while others don’t. I know there have been many opportunities I’ve personally missed because I didn’t act on them. I had access to the same information as everyone else, but I didn’t execute. Meanwhile, other people acted on it and made money from it. For example, in 2020 and 2021, a lot of people heard about Shiba Inu before it exploded. People kept hearing “Shiba Inu, Shiba Inu, Shiba Inu,” but many never paid attention to it or took the time to understand what it was. It’s the same way I talk about Wikicat now. A lot of people are hearing about it, but most won’t really pay attention to it or look into it. Then maybe two or three years from now, people will say, “A lot of people made money from that.” But the reality is that they heard about it years earlier and didn’t act on the information. If you’re young, you need to pay attention to as many things as possible. You need to be curious. You need to look into opportunities, businesses, investments, and industries, even when you don’t immediately have the money to participate. It’s not always about saying, “I don’t have money.” Look into it first. Understand what it’s about. Right now, when I hear people talk about stocks and all that, even though it’s not what I do, I still try to look into that aspect. I know that maybe I don’t have spare capital now, but later, when I do, I can decide whether it’s something worth investing in. People talk about saving, yield platforms, and other investment opportunities. You look into them. You might not have the money at the moment, but when you eventually do, you already know where and how to channel your capital. And because you’re young, this is the best time to take calculated risks. You have more room to learn, make mistakes, and recover from them. You can be at the 'broke, knowledgeable man' stage today, but knowledge gives you a much better chance of creating wealth than being rich without understanding how wealth is created. As long as we strive to be better, better will come.

@Freddrqk This is absolutely true. Execution is key. Taking action is what separates success from failure. The reason you see us take action on crypto right now is because we know that without action, there will be no results. Young people should take this very seriously. They've got time.

Nothing pisses me off more than seeing men suffer from things they could easily avoid.

Leave entitled women for foolish simps who think they can buy a woman’s love and loyalty with money, or for rich men who just want to sleep with them and give them money. If you have to be any of these, you should be the man that just pays for sex, not the one that wants to pay for love.

And for some of you that will want to come and gaslight me and say “oh your sisters,” for your information, I have sisters and I have a very good sweet relationship with them, and I would go any length for them. They know these things. They know to never be entitled to a man’s money or want a man to take up their responsibilities because of a relationship. And again, if they choose not to listen, any man that settles for them is the problem and that is his own cup of tea. So when I talk to men, I talk to everybody. There are healthy ways to love. If you have to be in a relationship, it has to be balanced. You are better off being alone as a man who is trying to build than being with someone who has no significant value other than sex and physical appearance. And you know the crazy thing about the sex women give you and make you feel like they are giving you the world, they enjoy it more than you do. So you are obviously gaining nothing. Again, you have everything to lose, she has nothing to lose. If you have to love, let it be balanced. You accept the love you think you deserve. The reason why you think everybody only has sex to offer in a relationship and will take everything from you is because you think that is what you deserve. If you have to be committed to someone, make sure they have proven over time that they are worth it. There are still valuable women. It is either you find one or stay single. Leave entitled women for foolish simps who think they can buy a woman’s love and loyalty with money, or for rich men who just want to sleep with them and give them money. If you have to be any of these, you should be the man that just pays for sex, not the one that wants to pay for love.

If you’re a man and you know you’re still in your building stage, and you haven’t reached a level of financial independence, and when I mean financial independence, I’m not talking about having cash, no matter how much it is. I mean if you’ve built structures that generate money consistently and you’re in that “I can never be poor” stage. And you’re in a relationship but the only thing you’re gaining from that relationship is sex or “my babe na fine babe,” but you’re doing everything for her, taking up almost all her responsibilities, and she is entitled to it and makes it feel like it’s your duty, I want to tell you today that you should summon the courage and leave her. I know you might have done so many things and you feel attached, but the pain you’ll feel now wouldn’t be compared to the pain you’ll feel if you continue, because one thing is certain, your days of tears are coming if you continue that relationship. Some of you see relationships as trophies, and you place so much value on sex that you would do heaven and earth for a woman and want to keep her just because of sex, as if she is not enjoying it too. Do you even know you can still get that sex without those huge commitments? See, women, especially non-virgins, give sex to men they truly desire without having to take up their responsibilities like you’re doing. If you know you are rich enough as a man to be taking care of another man’s child all in the name of relationships, then that is fine. I’ve never really had an issue with men doing things for women because men genuinely love to provide, but taking up someone’s responsibilities while they feel it is your duty in the name of relationships is the problem. And the problem I have with men that do this is that they think doing all these things will guarantee her love and loyalty, which is even the opposite. So if you’re in this position, summon that courage and leave today. The funny thing is she will do just fine without you, but by the time she is done using you, you might not recover easily. And you are a young, handsome man, God has blessed you. You will get women, better women, who genuinely love you without putting all their burdens on you. Go for women that make things easy for you while you are building, women that understand growth takes time, women that know you don’t have to take up their responsibilities, women who are not entitled, “thank you” women, not “as he should” women. You know why I always tell men specifically to guard their heart when it comes to relationships, it is because they are on the edge of losing more and it is harder to heal. This is for men who are genuine in relationships though, the ones that have good intentions. Because in relationships, whether you break up with her or she breaks up with you, there will be men in her DM already wanting to take her on a date. But for you, to even meet someone else, you will be the one to make the effort. To even take another woman on a date, maybe to heal, you will be the one to do the work. Women are mostly on the receiving end of love, no matter how you want to put it. There are healthy ways to love. Learn it. Any love that comes with self-erasure is not love. Go for women that genuinely desire you. Don’t lead with money. You will lose money, emotions, your body, and your energy. Summon that courage and leave now while the pain is still minimal. If not, your time to learn will come and it will be in the hardest way possible. If it is sex she is offering you and she wants you to be taking up her responsibilities, trust me, you will even get more sex from more beautiful women by staying out of that relationship. I pray God helps you as you take this decision today. Don’t worry about her. She will do just fine without you, and you will be a better human without her. She is filling the space of self-development in your life. Leave her today.

Either you increase your sacrifice or you reduce your desire.

Never.

I’m not fighting for gender equality. All I’m telling women is to believe more in themselves, to believe they can make it too without depending on men, to believe they can achieve everything a man can achieve if they work hard, and not to base their success on whether a man comes to rescue them. Have visions and dreams too. Make your own money so you don’t tolerate disrespect from a man just because you think you won’t be able to survive without him. I read a post where a girl said her boyfriend went broke, and she was being patient. She said she didn’t want to lower her standards or normalize the “bare minimum,” and she was praying for the guy so God would change his situation. She completely forgot that she could also pray for God to change her own situation. 😂 These are the same people who fight against patriarchy. Smh.

Most women who talk about not wanting patriarchy often still feel inferior themselves, because many women do not truly believe in themselves enough to be confident and take certain decisions. They do not even believe in their own ability to achieve success without involving men. Fighting patriarchy is like fighting a system God arranged Himself. And patriarchy has never been about making women powerless; it is just stating that women are expected to take more supportive roles.

There’s a difference between building somebody, building with somebody, or building together. The reason why some of you think your life will be in shambles if a relationship ends is because the dynamic of the relationship is not healthy in the first place. Though healthy dynamics won’t erase the hurt of heartbreak, but nothing is worth doing out of fear. If you have a healthy relationship, you would be able to walk away easily from a relationship that is no longer serving you without feeling overly attached. Any love that isn’t balanced isn’t worth having! Any love that comes with self-erasure isn’t love! Learn how to love, learn how to have good and healthy relationship dynamics. Save yourself from stress. Man or woman!

The only reason you’re scared is because you don’t have dreams and vision too, and you feel like if he didn’t make it, you automatically won’t make it too because you feel your own success and becoming solely depends on him. It’s different if he doesn’t have any goals, but like you said, “build.” These are things that happen when you tie the security of your future strongly to a partner instead of building your own life.

Since I’ve started earning, since I’ve started working and making money and understanding how hard it is to actually make money, calling my parents to ask for money is something I find very hard to do. Sometimes I even wonder how they were able to cater for us with the little they earned, how they were able to sustain provision for years without us lacking anything. I was able to come to this realization because I now work, I strive, I struggle, and I understand the sacrifices that come with making money, especially making good money! But you see people that do not work and don’t even have anything they do personally to make money will never understand how hard it is, and there’s no way you can explain it to them. That’s why they never value money. You’ll see somebody bill you, the billing is not even my problem, because anybody can choose to seek for help when in need, but the attitude that comes after you say you don’t have it. Like I don’t even get it! If e easy na him you sef no get am ???? You will come into my life and get pissed that I don’t lavish money or try to manage money. If I dey spend my money anyhow before you met me, you go meet anything for ground ? Ehn ?

I asked God for strength, and He gave me problems to overcome.

Do you know the reason why you want to leave that your broke boyfriend? It's because you have no dream and vision you're pursuing. You cannot understand that the dream he has will take time to be accomplished. You cannot understand something you don't have or even relate to having dreams. Because you don't have big goals you're actively pursuing, you cannot relate to the patience, sacrifice, and delayed rewards that often come with chasing a dream. So I get it!

I don’t like people that easily bend their rules just for cheap likes. People that care so much about being liked by people that they bend every principle they have just to fit in. You can never be my friend

Reason why most men are not wise is because they are perceived as being wise, and they just believe they are. Someone who knows he’s a fool has a greater tendency to be wise than someone who thinks he’s wise but is actually a fool.

A knowledgeable broke man.