THiago🤟🏽🦖🦖

You and someone is having a verbal back and forth, you see that you’re losing and the next thing in your arsenal is to label him a rapist and child trafficker? From where to where? 😳

In Nigeria I didn't care about how much we had to spend to keep the household running. Generator fuel Groceries Feeding Dstv subscription Rent Electricity bills Monthly treats Everything I just de chest am. I made significantly more than my wife, even after all these expenses, I still had x4 of her income left for savings so I used to give her daily stipend for lunch. As soon as we arrived UK, I started thinking about adjustment. Finally she started working after 4 months, she started to contribute without being told. If you like marry opps, you go die young

E good as everybody dey talk their mind, so tomorrow, you’ll not say you don’t know. I am not an Odogwu. I am not a real man. I am not an intentional man. “But you have money na.” Ogbeni, drop your own part. I’ll not carry all the bills for any reason because where your money is, your heart will be there. Everyone fights for their investment. If you keep all your money to yourself, your heart can NEVER be in that home. If your money is in the home, you’ll be invested in the home. Moreover, how is our daughter supposed to understand a girl child is supposed to be financially responsible to her family if her mother is financially useless? Wait, are you raising your daughters to grow and be dependent on men to carry her bills? 😭

Some conversations are above your understanding, you can't be living in Isolo and want to talk about 50:50 with someone living in Leeds, you no go understand am. Just wait till dem approve student visa for your spouse and you be dependent.

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My last cent on this issue. If you’re not married and you’re dating a kind person (emphasis on the kind) hold he/she tight oo. Nothing dey street again oo. Ire oo✌️

I will never support the 50/50 ideology in marriage. The push for 50/50 bill splitting is one of the major reasons why divorce rates in the UK remain so high. This 50/50 mentality was largely pioneered by Nigerian men who traveled abroad and adopted it in the diaspora. In the UK, 50/50 arrangements account for less than 27 percent of marriages, and nearly all of them end in divorce, hostility, or deep resentment. Do you know that the dominant model in marriages across the US and UK still has the man as the primary provider? What if your wife is not working? You would still need to run the home. Your wife's money should serve as support, something you can always rely on in times of need. For example, if rent is due and you fall short, you can ask her for help. But insisting that she shares all bills equally is a complete no. If you must split bills equally with your wife, then you must also split chores equally. Otherwise, you are not building a marriage; you are creating a roommate arrangement with benefits. Marriage thrives on love, and complementary roles, not strict financial scorekeeping. Above all, love God.

If they’re not marrying electrician, they’ll be marrying plumber Is it a Nigerian plumber that you want to convince to go and start afresh abroad, what will he do there? Now this one said he can’t be a dependent Ask me what he studied in school Nurse and Nurse marriage abeg

Please I have a question. In a relationship where expenses are shared 50–50, what happens if one partner is temporarily unable to meet their share due to unforeseen circumstances, like job loss, illness, or childcare responsibilities? Does the unpaid portion become something they’re expected to repay later, or is it typically considered support and not treated as a debt?”

As na man turn no be slavery again abi 😄

You can't be looking for a Kind person when you're not even close to Kindness. People need to constantly do a self reflection of themselves before asking to be treated right.