Jason Fuesting
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Jason Fuesting
@FuestingJason
Husband, physicist, author, gamer, marksman, former Navy tech, owned by cats (who think this item should be first on the list)
































To those throwing around the term “unprofessional” like any of us give a damn anymore. They’ve confused professionalism with tone. Say something in a calm voice, with the right buzzwords, and you can explain away ANYTHING. Total failure. Bad policy. Broken outcomes. Doesn’t matter. As long as it sounds right, it passes. But speak plainly? Oof. Use humor. Be direct. Call something exactly what it is? Now you’re “unprofessional.” That’s the tell. And also f*ck you, no. Because what they actually mean is you didn’t use the approved language. I’ve watched people sit quietly while polished voices walked us through disasters. No pushback, outrage, nothing. Just nodding along like NPCs because it felt pRofEsSHuNaL. Then someone says one blunt sentence and suddenly the hall monitors show up. Quoting regs that don’t apply and clutching pearls over tone. Trying to police speech instead of fixing the damn problem. That’s not professionalism, it’s bullying. And they’re projecting. It’s people who got very comfortable controlling others through language, and now they’re losing that grip. So they lash out. They’ll tolerate failure if it’s delivered softly. But they can’t tolerate truth if it lands hard. That’s the difference innit? And more people are starting to see it. But whatever. Keep walking into my L shape ambushes online. Unlike IRL, I don’t have to do a barrel change with words.






