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One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is to be nice to your partner when you’re upset with them. It’s also one of the most important moments to be kind. Lovely words from @GottmanInst gottman.com/blog/how-to-be…

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@GottmanInst I generally really like the content y'all produce, but FWIW the *very frequent* hard sell in your emails is very, very offputting. I've come close to unsubscribing several times as a result. Probably will, eventually ☹️

@TrentGilliss including your sons is lovely! 🌱

Today’s offering from @GottmanInst: “You don’t need grand gestures to show your partner love. Frequent small gestures, such as hugging, holding hands, and regular acts of kindness will help to make your partner feel adored and appreciated, and build up positive interactions…”

Over our 30+ years together, my wife and I often share insights about building and growing our relationship. Today I started including our teenage sons in the thread with the hopes that they are prepared when they find love. I’m certain they are rueing the inclusion!

When you see criticism riding into your relationship, use a gentle start-up. A gentle start-up begins with “I feel,” leads into “I need,” and then respectfully asks to fulfill that need. bit.ly/33QozIs

Keeping your emotional bank account in the positive gives your relationship a base of goodwill. In their New York Times bestselling book, The Love Prescription, Drs. John and Julie Gottman show you how to start improving your relationship in seven days. bit.ly/2OmSjqX

Vagdevi Meunier, Psy.D, from @TCFRAustin answers 10 questions about resentment, sex drive & marriage for @thecandidly read her answers here: thecandidly.com/2019/10-shocki… #GottmanMethod #RelationshipScience

A great relationship starts before the very first date, and can include the serious as well as the fun. Feeling ready to get serious about dating? Our 5 Days of Dating Advice program helps prepare you for your dating journey - for free!bit.ly/3zmti3i

Successful relationships grow through small words, small gestures, and small acts. Explore 31 ways to practice #SmallThingsOften with this month's free #LoveNotes download: bit.ly/33QozIs

Our friends at @TheMightySite put together 10 tips for using dating apps, and while they're intended for those managing anxiety, these tips are helpful for anyone dipping their toes into digital dating. #Echobox=1656745474" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">themighty.com/topic/anxiety/…

@admirableheart Amazing! We're looking forward to it. 🙌

@GottmanInst I registered. 😊👍

Dating is as much about showing up for yourself as it is showing up for someone else. Join us October 27, as Stacy Hubbard, LMFT covers everything from online dating to building companionship and trust. All registrants will receive the recording: bit.ly/3gUAWJj

The Seven-Day Love Prescription is heading around the world with the help of @PenguinUKBooks! In the UK, the book publishes online October 27th and in print the 29th. In Australia, look for the book November 15th!

One of the most revolutionary findings of Dr. John Gottman's research was that relationship health can be scientifically measured and predicted. Assessment allows for adjustment. Give it a try with our free quiz: gottmanconnect.com/site/quiz?free

Trust is knowing that your partner has your back, and is there for you. Along with commitment, trust creates the weight-bearing walls of the Gottman's Sound Relationship House. Knowing that you can trust the people you are close to helps make everything else feel do-able.

How do you approach conflict in your relationship? Certified Gottman Therapist Kimberly Panganiban talked with @TheCandidly about the power of soft start-ups. thecandidly.com/2019/use-this-…

While grand gestures can make a big splash, long-lasting love is built on a thousand small things. It may be a cup of coffee delivered in the morning or a few minutes to be silly together. Get 31 ideas of small things to show your partner you care: bit.ly/3iW1aJo

When you're dating, finding the signs that you're with the right person can be challenging. Join Stacy Hubbard, LMFT and Certified Gottman Therapist later this month for a webinar about dating that isn't to be missed. Register today: bit.ly/3gUAWJj

Drs. Julie and John were so excited to chat on @AlanAlda's Clear + Vivid podcast, discussing their newest book, relationship research, and more. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/joh…

Neurodiversity: Strategies for Living a Life of Love is tomorrow, 10/18! Dr. Mike McNulty, PhD offers tip for partners to become more aware of neurodiversity in their relationships & its impact. All registered attendees receive a link to the recording: bit.ly/3gUAWJj