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@ashafriedpickle Also Lølø (might be listed and I just missed it, wasn’t keeping an eye out for her specifically)

@ashafriedpickle Ones I don’t see listed yet under the broader alt label: Diva Bleach & Senses

okay im sick of you all not listening to female fronted emo bands give me your favs and i’ll make a mega playlist. we’re using emo as a cover all label, don’t genre fight in my replies.

Like even if I don’t mention being DC, there’s no easy response to 10+ siblings or a photo with 6 of us, one of whom is almost 20 years younger than me. But I like my siblings and I want to show them too. Idk, I’m just bummed.

Being donor conceived is weird sometimes. My work’s off-topic channel is about today being National Siblings Day and everyone is sharing pictures and the number of their siblings. I’d like to share a photo from a sibling meetup but I know from experience it gets awkward.

I don’t fucking want to change my name but sometimes it feels like other people want me to in that they see it as one more reason they can just treat me as a woman when they’ve explicitly been told otherwise.

it’s always “you are clinically depressed” and never “wow, that’s an impressive number of wikipedia articles to read at 2 am”

Unfortunately you ARE going to have to defend that nasty icky degenerate porn you don't like if you don't want to live in a world with digital IDs, sorry!!! The time for arguing over what porn is "morally" good/bad is done. The govt is trying to surveill everyone. Get w the game!

the sex workers screamed DANGER for years and here we are.

It would be REALLY REALLY NICE if mainstream tech journalists stopped praising age verification technology as "child safety" and actually called out this really insidious and obviously data mining technique used by companies to steal more of our data!!!

At least my manager is on my side so I won’t be in trouble if things go south

A client complained that our relationship feels “transactional” and it took all my willpower not to point out that I’m her accountant, we’re transactional on multiple levels. Not to mention. That I go out of my way to make this lady feel welcome and appreciated. …it’s a Monday.

The fact that every single person who ever met my ex-husband has responded to news of my divorce with relief and congratulations really says a lot… like I appreciate it and it’s very validating but also yeah, damn, it was that bad, wasn’t it?

I finally got to see FOB live and Pete really cannot stand still, can he? (Also to nobody’s surprise but mine, sitting in the ADA section was infinitely easier on my body than trying to stand in GA)

I had a realization that’s done wonders for my self esteem: whenever I see someone else with my body type on dating apps, I really hope they like me back. If it looks hot on them, maybe it looks hot on me too.

(She would be very unreceptive to my suggestion so I keep it to myself but it still makes me sad)

Hearing my mom talk about her (lack of) connection to womanhood breaks my heart sometimes. I wish she knew she could be nonbinary, and I wish she’d known when she was young. So much of her life has been dictated by others, including her gender. My heart hurts for her.

My mom’s a quilt collector (as was my grandma) so she literally has dozens, so I wasn’t aware that this one was special but now that I am, it’s special to me too.

I got a bunch of books I wanted for Christmas and I’m excited about them but my favorite gift is one I didn’t expect. My mom gave me one of my grandma’s favorite quilts and told me the backstory (she passed away almost 13 years ago). It still has a faint smell of her.

Unfortunately I inherited my WASPy boomer parents’ self-destructive “work ethic” and my poor manager is cajoling me to get me to use my excess PTO and I’m waffling 🫠 (This is not a brag, I should take my PTO, I just have Problems™)

@SOTSPodcast Senses. I only found them last month but atp I wouldn’t be surprised if they show up on my Spotify wrapped 😅

what's a band you discovered and fell in love with this year?