IBTCQueen

@honeyNonABG This is the treatment I get from my boyfriend. Even before we were officially together. It made me more attracted to him too. Brought out that desire to find ways to make his life better, easier, and more beautiful too. Men who do this are gems to be treasured.

A quick etiquette guide to things on dates men should do that women will always appreciate: - offering to pick her up or send her a car - always always opening the car door even if it’s a casual date - if it’s cold offer your coat - walk on the outside of the sidewalk - make the plan; don’t ask “what do you want to do?” - if it’s a dinner or nicer lunch always pull her chair out first - opening the doors to buildings - always walk her to her car - if you came in separate cars tell her “text me when you have arrived home safely” - if you want to see her again let her know before you leave - if you want another date let her know and make a plan within 24 hours of the date ending

@DroverSabr54018 🙏👏🙌 I’m so happy for you! The year of the unicorn men 🦄

@IBTCQueen Thank you!🙏 He’s the best ❤️

Best chapter in my life is meeting the man I have right now.

@ryancduff Same playbook: babies with issues, child who’s died, child in the hospital, they are disabled, they got a haircut and are older looking for validation, and the I’m single and … age. What should I do? It’s obnoxious.

@IBTCQueen @Michaelmarina7 Yup... they all do that because they don't expect anyone to notice. Most of them post pictures of "themselves" and one will be in a wheel chair or missing a limb.. the next person and story will be someone who looks totally different. So insane

I am struggling to find the right words. I woke up this morning thinking it would be another busy but normal day. Our six-month-old baby, Charlotte, had an appointment with an eye doctor to find out why her eyes were crossed. We scheduled this appointment two months ago and didn’t expect anything serious. I went to the appointment with all three of my daughters. After examining Charlotte’s eyes, the doctor noticed something unusual and sent us to Primary Children’s Hospital in Salt Lake City for an eye ultrasound to check more closely. I drove the half hour to the hospital, and Stuart left work early to meet me there. He arrived just as the ultrasound was happening. I held Charlotte close while facing away from the screen so the doctor could get clear images. Stuart was looking at the screen and suddenly said, “Whoa, that’s big.” In that moment, my heart sank. The doctors found a cancerous tumor behind her left eye and partly in her right eye. It is called retinoblastoma, and it is the reason her eyes will not straighten. I didn’t know how to react. So many thoughts, fears, and emotions rushed through me all at once. I am still trying to understand it. I am still in shock and unsure how to think or what to do. The doctors told us Charlotte needs an MRI to confirm the diagnosis and to see how much the cancer has spread, if it has spread at all. They talked about treatment options, including chemotherapy and surgery. They also explained that the specialist team for this condition is in Phoenix, and we need to get there as soon as possible to start treatment. Right now, everything feels overwhelming. I don’t yet understand what the future looks like for Charlotte, for Stuart, for our family, or for myself. But I do know the most important thing I can ask from anyone reading this is to please pray for us. Please send a sincere prayer to our Father in Heaven and ask Him to make everything okay, whatever that may look like. I believe prayer is real, prayer is powerful, and prayer will help carry our family through this. Please pray for baby Charlotte.

@ryancduff @Michaelmarina7 The page is a bunch of stolen pictures with sob stories. Looks like an AI profile picture. Nothing consistent.

@Michaelmarina7 Yeah, ok…

@ryancduff Men who can teach you things are top tier.

This will offend the prideful, but she right.

@TheEcho13 🥰

Cute!

@LisaFenDragon I love getting princess treatment from my new boyfriend. He is so romantic 🥰 when people pass by us they always make comments about how they can tell how much we love and care about each other.

I expected a negative response in the comments This is why you aren't treated the way you want to be treated by men Men aren't romantic toward you, and don't give you princess treatment, because you don't act feminine. And because you don't pay enough attention to how you look

Yesterday marks one month with this new boyfriend. He is the sweetest, kindest, and most loving man ever. He gave me these pins yesterday. He knows I love roses and crows/ravens. He ordered them when we first got together. He wanted something meaningful for our one month mark. 🥰

@LisaFenDragon I love it when my boyfriend teaches me things. The way his eyes light up as he is explaining things is so cute. 🥰 He also gives me princess 👸🏻 treatment.

Let a man teach you things. Even if you can figure it out yourself, just let him teach you! Also, admire his masculinity whenever you can Men find this very endearing. It brings out the positive masculine traits in them

@honeyNonABG I love that beaming smile on your face!!! 😍😁

Insanely blessed to be surrounded by love 💕

@honeyNonABG Happy birthday 🎉 🌹🕊️💝

Thank you for the Birthday Wishes 🫶

@Deepthough700 Exactly! Send them off with love.

@IBTCQueen I got ghosted and then he came back. Never again. Next avoidant I’m wishing them well and sending them to therapy to heal. Leave me alone please I can’t love you out of your issues and all.

Dating an avoidant be like

People on X talking about “when dating an avoidant…” I’m like DON’T!!! Unless the person you are with is activity building a secure relationship with you it is a waste of time. Unless you want to go to therapy.

Worst kind of people. -10000/10. Waste of time. Setup to fail. Heartbreak guaranteed. Net negative. Relationally incompetent. Selfish. Will make excuses left and right. You’ll get less than the bare minimum. Avoid the avoidant.

@Peterisrandom Never date an avoidant. It’s just a waste of time and heartbreak waiting to happen.

Dating an avoidant be like:

@SamPric09472476 Pretty 😍

New nails I’m in love with this color 🥰

@DroverSabr54018 That’s how it was for me too. Super frustrating. Like would give love, receive indifference. Say what I want and hear I should get the opposite because that’s what other women want. Made to feel invisible. Prayed for over a decade for a unicorn 🦄 captured him quickly.

@IBTCQueen It seems it’s all I ever get is disappointments. I need a lot of time 😅

I don’t move from man to man. I give 1 person a chance….if that doesn’t work, I isolate and try again in 6-12 months.

@TheEcho13 🌹🕊️💝 I love giving my boyfriend genuine compliments and seeing him smile. He also makes it so easy to love him. It’s reciprocal too. A man’s character is the greatest currency.

I smother my man in compliments and affection every morning. He leaves the house each day knowing he’s got a woman who’s radically obsessed with him. He makes it easy by how he shows up for us. Steady, kind, and consistent. It’s easy to pour into someone who is always finding ways to pour into you too. When a man gives peace and stability instead of problems and chaos, you don’t have to remind yourself to cherish him. He sets the tone by how he treats me, I just match the energy.