Mackii🎗
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Mackii🎗
@IamMacjohn24
Poet/Writer|| Microbiologist|| Cozy Interiors|| Data Analyts💻 || Psalms 104:3|| @Arsenal💥
Nigeria Katılım Ağustos 2019
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I’m not perfect. I’ve made decisions that weren’t always favorable to me, but they were the best for me. And I can say for a fact, that none of the people in my life has been affected in any way, negatively.
All of my vices— I own them.
All of my flaws—I own them.
And I owe myself nothing but happiness, laughter, freedom and the pleasures of life.
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@TokyosBite Got yourself a new follower✌
You may not be a relationship expert but if it's cool I'd like to get your counsel on a vital issue via dm?
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Let’s just say, my love for someone is highly dependent on how much they love me and make me feel.
But first, there has to be an attraction which is mostly physical; the sound of their voice, their face, complexion, height, etc.
Secondly, their brains. I just want to see them, be under their skin and just enjoy silence with them while our breaths move in rhythm.
These two captures me before we move to how they handle situations around them and around me. Again, my love is highly dependent on how much they love me and make me feel.
Cos I can be attracted to them and still withdraw. But when it is genuine, I think I want to spend most of my time with them cos of how relaxed and excited I get. I want to listen to them speak, I want to be there for them and do the things they want and love. I want to be soft-spoken, and a day without positive energy from them can disrupt my heart’s rhythm.
When it gets to this point, I am finished. I become a finished woman—a point where I’ve been a few times until I had a broken heart to fix.
Black Girl Airneh 🧑🏾🍳@TokyosBite
Is it weird that I can’t answer this?
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A woman often comes into a man’s life to help him grow, heal, and break generational patterns. She carries insight, patience, and emotional wisdom.
Because of deep wounds within him, the man may fail to understand her, value her, or recognize the purpose she serves in his life.
When a woman heals her own wounds, she begins to understand her worth. Until then, she may unknowingly turn a man into her project—believing that her love, sacrifice, and effort can fix what is broken inside him.
Over time, she pours herself into nurturing his potential, hoping he will one day see what she sees. She stays through confusion, silence, and emotional distance, convincing herself that endurance is the same as love.
She often neglects her own needs while teaching him how to face his fears. In doing so, she slowly places his healing above her own well-being, mistaking self-abandonment for loyalty.
As the years pass, the imbalance grows heavier. She gives understanding where none is returned, empathy where none is learned, and patience where accountability is absent.
Without realizing it, she begins to dim her light. The vibrant essence that once defined her becomes quieter, buried beneath exhaustion and unmet expectations.
Eventually, awareness arrives, not as anger, but as clarity. She sees that love is not meant to be a battlefield, nor is it her responsibility to rescue someone who refuses to heal.
She learns that a man must choose growth for himself. No amount of devotion can replace self-awareness, and no woman can heal wounds a man avoids facing.
She reconnects with the parts she lost, the joy, confidence, and self-respect that once flowed effortlessly through her life.
Her worth no longer depends on how much she gives or how deeply she sacrifices. She understands that real love honors, nurtures, and reciprocates.
With this realization, she steps away from the role of savior and returns to being whole. She no longer fades to keep someone else comfortable.
She breaks her own generational pattern, proving that love should never cost a woman her essence, her voice, or her worth.
~ Abhikesh
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Most men have NO IDEA what truly turns a woman on:
1. It’s not your money.
2. It’s not your looks.
3. It’s your confidence under pressure.
4. It’s your calm energy when others panic.
5. It’s your leadership and decisiveness.
6. It’s your emotional control.
7. It’s your ambition and purpose.
8. It’s the way you make her feel safe yet excited.
9. It’s your masculine mystery.
10. It’s when she realizes you want her but don’t need her.
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