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May you manifest a healthy relationship with someone who naturally brings out your childlike playfulness, makes you laugh, and loves you a little extra on the days you don't feel loveable.

I think what people misunderstand about boundaries is that the point of placing them isn't to punish people, demand they change their behaviour, or convince them to value you more. They're an act of self-love and respecting your personal space—regardless of how others react.

What was the last movie you rated 5 stars on Letterboxd?

The reaI fIex is training your boundaries to be stronger than your soft heart. Be kind, but take no shit.

À bout de souffle (Jean-Luc Godard, 1960)

To avoid disappointment, take people exactly as they are instead of idealizing about what you wish they would be.

Intimacy isn't just about sex. It's having heart-to-hearts, sharing childhood memories, thoughts, fears, dreams & hopes for the future. It’s uncontrollable laughter, direct eye contact, and feeling each other without touching. It's feeling each other's soul, not just their body.

They don’t make movies like this anymore.

Having an emotionally intelligent partner is TOP TIER. You're able to express yourself freely and openly. They dont insult you, they don't give you the silent treatment, they dont become aggressive/manipulative. They listen, they respond—they patiently hold a safe space for you.

Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you start to distance yourself from people who continuously create drama, drain your energy, and damage your mental health.

Unfortunately, not everyone is going to be bold enough to tell you they no longer vibe with you. Sometimes you just have to read the energy, subtract yourself from the equation, and never disturb them again.

Being toxic is not cute. Check yourself and grow up. Learn how to love and communicate properly.

You deserve a calm love with somebody who hears you, sees you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and loves you. Someone who is consistent, communicates clearly, and creates a safe space to heal, grow, and bloom together. A love you will never have to heal from.

Be the reason peopIe stiII believe in gentle hearts, genuine intentions, and gorgeous souIs.

What's your top 3 movies from 1995?