Dante
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Update: my boyfriend somehow saw the post I made yesterday and immediately knew it was about him 😭 now he’s really upset because he feels like I embarrassed him and our relationship online. I tried explaining that I wasn’t mocking him at all, I was actually admiring how disciplined and respectful he is, but he said some things should stay private.
Now he’s talking about ending the relationship and won’t even listen to me properly anymore 😭 I’ve apologized so many times because hurting him was never my intention. I honestly feel so terrible because outside of this, he has been such a good man to me and I don’t want to lose him over one stupid post.
I’ve been crying all day and I genuinely don’t know what else to do at this point.
Diamond 💎@x_victeem
My best friend has been helping me with that part 😭 because my boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 months now and he’s very serious about waiting till marriage. No sex, no ‘almost’, nothing 😭 at first I thought it would be easy but omg my sex drive did not agree at all. Thankfully the relationship itself is healthy, peaceful and he treats me so well, so I genuinely think a relationship can work without sex depending on the people involved.
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@Juxtmarvel @Princeflexzy0 Dem switch am now…e turn “not always true” so you do acknowledge the fact that an entire gender cannot and should not be classified under one category
Yet… you’re doing it…now tell me does that indicate signs of intelligence?
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@CameramanAustin @Juxtmarvel @oghenekevebaby Imagine having a business problem and all ur spouse can say is “it is well” 😂
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I don’t know the type of men you’ve met, but I absolutely want a partner that I can learn from, go to for advice, solve problems with, communicate and discuss with (not argue with)
You don’t have to be argumentative just because you’re smart
And are you saying you can’t be feminine and intelligent?
Also… what do you mean by “doing too much”?
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If she’s too argumentative or too masculine or doing too much it’s that because it’s true and is not a factor of her level of intelligence…
Dumb women can also be argumentative, masculine and do too much…
Intelligence is not an excuse for bad character…
I’m seen geniuses who are extremely wicked people…
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@CameramanAustin @oghenekevebaby Funny how men always say this until they meet a woman who’s actually smarter than them and suddenly she’s “too argumentative”, “too masculine” or “doing too much”
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@CameramanAustin @Juxtmarvel @oghenekevebaby Imagine I start like 5 businesses who wan Dey help me manage am… 😂
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@Juxtmarvel @oghenekevebaby You must have lots of men in your DM then, cause this is a dvmb… why would I want someone who isn’t as intelligent as me, what exactly are we supposed to be talking about?
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@0moyeh @ThaBoyYom Exactly…let’s look at some of the most successful and intelligent women in the country…I stand to be corrected but I think all of them are married with kids.
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If men truly h8ted intelligent women, female doctors, lawyers and professors wouldn’t be getting married daily.
The real issue is that many women confuse arrogance and combative behavior with intelligence.
Naza🎀@Juxtmarvel
i feel men are more tolerant of an intellectually inferior partner than women. if a man is intelligent, he goes for pretty dumb girls bc he can't stand a girl being equal or smarter than him. men just love feeling superior.
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Back 2019, i remember this guy approached my roommate several times and asked her out,
But she kept shifting the date, so he came direct and asked her to be his girlfriend.
My roommate told him to give her time to think..
Two weeks later, my roommate saw him with another girl..
She called him that night and the guy told her he has moved on..
While my roommate was about to express her disappointment,
This guy cut off the call and blocked her asap..
I didn't know when I bursted laugh..
But, Honestly that was brutal and harsh..
What happened to consistency and patience??
He was impatient na..
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Man cr!es out after helping and planning to marry a lady who was three months pregnant for a man who abandøned her, only for her to later run away with his money and other belongings after giving birth.
According to him, he met the young lady when she was three months pregnant. She allegedly told him that the man responsible for the pregnancy denied responsibility, and she had considered terminåt!ng it. He said he pleaded with her and convinced her to keep the baby.
He explained that despite working as a block mould worker, he kept checking on her after work and made sure she had food and basic care throughout the pregnancy. Later, she informed him that her sister was struggling and asked if she could stay with them, which he agreed to.
When the pregnancy reached eight months, he reportedly travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with family members to inform her parents of his intention to marry her. He said the parents accepted and gave him a bride price list.
At nine months pregnant, she gave birth, and he allegedly paid the hospital bills. He also said he opened a POS business for her to support her financially.
However, he claimed problems started when she told him someone had sc@mm£d her of ₦140,000. He also alleged that a phone he bought for her was later claimed to have been stølen, only for him to later discover she had allegedly given it to the man who impregnated her.
He further stated that he bought her another phone, but after returning days later, he discovered she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. When he eventually contacted her, she told him she never truly loved him and had only been pretending.
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@dameexa You no go like start another +234 girl empowerment project?
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Dante retweetledi


Of course your name is just as important
Let me give you a case scenario
When Herbert wigwe died we all saw on this social media when his family wanted to cut his children off…
Those are his children ooo
Imagine if it was a wife that didn’t bear his surname…
They will cut her off like potato peel
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@ItsOnlyIfe @OgodoSandra When we are legally married?
And most of our properties even if I had to change name wouldn’t be Mr and Mrs surname not will be clearly his name and my name!!
Well I get your point
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A woman in my church refused to change to her husband’s surname for 2 years after marriage
The man kept begging her to process a new international passport with his name, but she refused and insisted she wanted to continue using her father’s name.
Eventually, the man got tired and stopped talking about it.
Now fast forward to recently…
An international opportunity came up at the man’s workplace and he was allowed to travel with his wife
That was when Madam suddenly started begging to do the surname change and process a new passport quickly
The man's response now is:
“I don’t care again. I won’t include you in my application.”
Now the woman has been crying and telling Pastor to help her beg him.
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@OgodoSandra @etsuwa_ She has laid the bed let her lie on it…I don’t understand how somebody will pay ur bride price and to change name will be a problem for you
Even Otedola wey get globally recognized name self changed it not to talk of these local ones.
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It’s less about the name and more about the message…if your husband doesn’t care about it…that’s fine and if he’s one that cares about it then that’s fine too…
Selfishness shouldn’t exist in marriage…
If push comes to shove tomorrow tho how do you defend your marriage
God forbid the man dies do you realize that if he has greedy family members they can easily cut you out of every benefit.
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@HerbertJane06 @OgodoSandra Ehn so why does she want to now change it because of abroad trip, all of a sudden her papa name is useless now abi, that's what's she's trying to say na...
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@HerbertJane06 @OgodoSandra If it wasn’t important why is she asking for it now that opportunity to japa don show
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@OgodoSandra I feel like he just wants to punish her sha.
I really don’t know why a change of name is so important to some men.
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