Julie Shechtman
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Julie Shechtman
@JShechtmanMS
CFP®, Managing Director, Financial Advisor-Morgan Stanley For information, visit my website. NMLS#: 1290695 CA Insurance License: #0M92183
Glenview, Illinois Katılım Şubat 2016
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We're up early for one last sushi breakfast. Maybe a walk
I have a headache. It's probably the melatonin I took last night to help me sleep. But I’m determined to make the morning right
We arrive at the best spot in the old fish market. Hours went into finding this place but she doesn’t need to know that
Over a piece of tuna I ask: Do you even like me?
She smiles. "I'm still here, aren't I?"
// We walk in shops I otherwise would not
We stay out longer than I usually would
We sit to watch the city on a bench meant for two
We talk about the trip, what's back home, our past relationships
We search for ice cream and fake-fight about who should get the last bite
This is traveling together
// The train ride to Narita Airport seems shorter this time
She's at the window staring out. I am beside, typing these notes and thinking about how this whole thing got started
Posting my Tokyo Blind Date seemed like a fun excuse for me to go back to Japan
Maybe when you first heard about it you thought it was a gimmick or ridiculous
And I fully acknowledge that I am ridiculous
But I also got a look at something very real here. And stories that start ridiculous can end up very real and very deep
// There is no grand plan for an airport goodbye
We hug one last time as they call my flight for boarding
It is a good hug, a full body embrace that holds and lingers, and I know I will see her again
// Perhaps my story resonated with so many because we want the Internet to be a good place and we want people to find love
I mean, you don’t read my posts and say, “Yes I remember the time that I, too, solicited strangers on the Internet to go to Tokyo.”
Now I know a lot of people are hoping that this story ends with a proposal
Or that we both declare our love and I’m typing this in bed beside her right now
But I understand enough about relationships to know that a long weekend together is not enough for a lifelong commitment
And what this represents is a beginning
I first said that I just wanted to travel to Japan with someone cute
But I think I could not fully admit that I wanted to find a girlfriend
I could not admit that even to myself
I realize now that it is four years since my last serious relationship ended
I am getting older and wiser and yet I guess I have been alone for a very long time
This trip made me realize what I’ve been missing
Maybe I’m finally ready to share my life with someone again
// A beginning is a beautiful, wonderful thing
Whether that leads to Happily Ever After or it ends in an amazing blind date that I’ll remember for the rest of my life... I’ve at least learned that I’m ready to find that right person
If there is anything to take away from this experience it's this:
Please live a good story
Do it for the plot. I’m telling you it is worth it
And find someone to do it with you, because it is way more fun when you’re not alone
If you’re a person who is alone or afraid to step out into the world to find your person, know that for the last four years, that has been me
On this trip I’ve learned how foolish I was to wait for so long
So take my advice and learn from my example. Don’t think that you can’t seek someone special in the world and maybe find your person
There are people out there who are waiting for their beginnings with you, too
Seeking a beautiful beginning is what we should all be looking for
Because eventually beginnings lead to Happily Ever Afters

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