Gary Cardone@GaryCardone
The Rules of Gossip:
Hang out with a gossip, you are a gossip,
Listen to gossip, you are a gossip.
Repeat what a gossip says, you are a gossip,
Tolerate a gossip without calling them out, you are a gossip's assistant,
Say nothing when you hear gossip, you are contibuting to gossip and its contagion.
Gossip requires active participation and passive interaction from others who define themselves as; 'not my business- type mindsets, you too are part of the gossip problem.
Gossips are like a leper-race; they attract and ban-together parasitically, like a cancer of destructive, caustic, spoiled brats, whose main intention is to belittle and degrade others enabling them to not feel so insecure, so inferior about themselves. These are badly damaged entities and a threat to any group or person if allowed to much rope.
Their communication style gives them away as they cannot help themselves; they operate with language and conversation designed to degrade, to initiate 'doubt' and diminish the works and value of another though half-truths, innuendo, and out-right lies. Easy to spot.
These people, find few if any they can celebrate, as they are so insecure, they cannot tolerate others' winning or gaining attention. Just ask one of them; tell me someone who is awesome, (can they compliment another person with the same passion and tenacity they use when gossiping?).
They are broken people with a finite viewpoint of life; there can only be one winner; if I or you win, they must lose, this is their calculus, their 1st principle survival-construct; ''there is not enough to go around for everyone and they are all that matters."
How to Deal with Gossip Queens, Critics, Karen;
At the first glimmer of gossip you assertively interrupt and establish your guidelines for yourself and your environment; you do not listen to, interact with or tolerate gossip about another without the relevant parties in attendance.
f needed; repeat the above as many times as necessary.
These are weak, insecure, spoiled brats who deliver little to no value to others or any group as they simply do not have the tools to allow others to thrive due to their horrific parenting.
