Jessie Dutton

This is Hannah, my little sis,just about to finish a marathon, 5 weeks later she died by #suicide. A year ago today I left 22 photos of her around Southampton with this message,@pjsissons found one, sparking conversations to spread..please let the hard stuff be #heardnothidden 💜

Here's the letter.... 💜 h2htribe.blog/2023/08/03/a-l…

#DID a thing: "A letter we wrote six years after our sister's #suicide" 💜🌈 h2htribe.blog

When people speak truth to power, they will usually be written off as emotionally reactive. #TraumaTherapistRants

😭😭😭 @thegriefcast don't leaveeee me! As gentle as @ladycariad tried to make that sounds my grief brain has gone 'IT'S AN ENDING. IT'S OVER' - Nooo. Thank GOD for the book (which is absolutely beautiful & making me weep & feel so held). Love to the griefsters out there today 💜

@JonjayNeedham1 Thank you so much for sharing/highlighting this..my sis & I also experienced complex trauma & abuse growing up -she developed anorexia & then took her own life at 22. I am currently trying to face up to the hard work of surviving & healing..so encouraging to hear your story. 💙

@pjsissons Oh Pat, thank you for remembering and for all your support, interest and encouragement at that time too. I just love having her face and smile still out there and talked about ☺️⭐ Very grateful x

@JessieDutton Finding the photo you'd left of Hannah in Southampton had a big effect on me and started an important conversation on the radio and telly Jessie - it was such a good idea. Hope you're doing OK x

Happy 28th Birthday to my beautiful sister,Hannah-who died by #suicide at 22. Today is the 1st year no one remembered/contacted me..it's been very lonely.I have no other family,so grieve alone &just wanted to tell the world she's not forgotten & deeply loved #grief @thegriefcast

Honestly can't believe the outpouring of love here.I hope this can be a reminder to anyone needing it-however lonely you feel,there's such a lot of goodness in people out there still. When so many are struggling right now,let this be testament to finding kindness anywhere we can.

To everyone liking, commenting and sharing my birthday post for Han - thank you so very much for helping me feel less alone. It fills my heart to know after several years she's being seen and thought of - I'm so proud of her always. Thank you all!!💙

Honestly can't believe the outpouring of love here.I hope this can be a reminder to anyone needing it-however lonely you feel,there's such a lot of goodness in people out there still. When so many are struggling right now,let this be testament to finding kindness anywhere we can.

@rhi_harris @thegriefcast @TCFcharityUK Same here - big time. Yes! That'd be lovely! Let me know when you're next around the Midlands, thank you so much xxx

@JessieDutton @thegriefcast @TCFcharityUK Yep absolutely felt like that with J as no dad. I’m from the West Mids originally and go back every few months, maybe we could meet for a coffee sometime?

@rhi_harris @thegriefcast Yeah, not talked about so much the older sibling responsibility bit.. sometimes you've almost co-parented them at times - I felt that with Han! Here's to Jamie too & yes - we need more grief retreats with @TCFcharityUK !! And meet ups would be nice xx

@JessieDutton @thegriefcast I’m so sorry about your mum too. I hope you’re able to find some joy. Hope to catch up with you some time? Xx

@rhi_harris @thegriefcast Yeah,I totally understand the protective/responsibility thing -my little sis by 3.5 years.. Han took her life 5 days after my Mum's funeral,I was 26 -lots of guilt & agony - it's a real journey the grief lark isn't it? But comforting we have people to walk it with - love to you x

@JessieDutton @thegriefcast Is Hannah your big or little sister? I’m older than Jamie by six years so was very protective of him!

@georgia_coan Love you xxxxx

My beautiful friend’s sister ❤️

@Kat_tweeetss @ProfLAppleby @thegriefcast Oh Kathryn - thank you for remembering her and letting me know. xxx

@JessieDutton @ProfLAppleby @thegriefcast Hannah was in some of classes for social science at uni. I didn’t know her to talk to but I knew who she was. I was so sorry to hear she has passed away and her story really touched me . She won’t be forgotten xx

@rhi_harris @thegriefcast Really Rhian .. 1994.. love to you 💙💛

@JessieDutton @thegriefcast I didn’t realise, Hannah was born the same year as my brother Jamie.

@TheLisaOHare @thegriefcast Thanks so much x

Mental health services commonly accuse pts of "playing games", but what they don't seem to appreciate is they force us to play the game they have set up. I don't like to lie, but today I was threatened into lying to services, bc the ONLY option was "tell us you are ok or these 1/

Thank you for helping me break this curse @amandapalmer @gracieandrachel @hollymiranda youtube.com/watch?v=S_WTkV…

I WILL NOT BE PURIFIED A patron-funded film by @hollymiranda, featuring @strand_sophie, music by @amandapalmer & @gracieandrachel. A warning/invitation: may resonate deeply with those who have dealt with debilitating illness and/or sexual assault. 🌱 m.youtube.com/watch?v=S_WTkV…