SpeakOut | Relationship & Mental Health

Childbirth is “divine” and not of “man”, a man can’t “force” you to give birth (it is your decision), if you think a man is not “deserving” of “comfort” because you are pregnant….then don’t get pregnant. A “comfortable” man will be in the right state of mind to help make the process less painful for you But for the “pain” and “discomfort” that comes with pregnancy…take it up with God

A woman on my flight yesterday switched seats with her husband because their toddler wouldn’t stop crying. The second she sat down alone, she closed her eyes for maybe 30 seconds. Just resting. Not sleeping. When the husband walked past with the kid later, he laughed and said loudly, “Must be nice to finally get a break from doing nothing.” A few people chuckled. She laughed too. But something about it felt off because for the entire flight she had been: holding the baby, packing snacks, cleaning spills, walking him down the aisle, missing her own meal trying to calm him down… while the husband watched a movie with headphones on. And honestly I think that’s why so many women are exhausted. Not because they’re doing everything alone. But because they’re doing everything while someone else calls it “nothing.”

@elioralux “A few people chuckled. She laughed too.” Only when you get a family will you understand…for now just keep “thinking” and speculating

@teejayviruz @Global_Folder Oh we no longer in “unrelated”??

@Jofforka @Global_Folder What're we saying, what is this one saying ??

Marriage is not for the weak

@VikyInsights A slap for a slap or two

As a woman, if a male colleague slaps your bum in the office, what would you do? —Slap him back? —Insult him? —Report him to HR/management? Your Honest opinion Only? 🌚👇

@nenealiemeke Valid topic but discussed by “pained” people..#Heal

So now that I’m married, my state of origin is now my husband’s own? Do you people see women as human beings?!!! Wtf is wrong with you people?!! Come and change it for me na 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@lilyally98 Wow ….how bad can it get with you??

Come and try this thing with a 28 year old woman. You people go for children that hasn’t gained control of their emotions yet.

@LovethVincent13 @Iamkrebkira Then I get to sleep with a 16years that 25 or I get hooked to a granny that looks 30..uhmmm??

@Iamkrebkira They first start with what tribe are??🤦🏾‍♀️ then proceed to ask “how old are you” Like bro if I wasn’t old enough I wouldn’t be talking to you

Asking a lady her age is very disrespectful.

@originalproflle Welcome to Nigeria…and I bet you, you won’t get a feedback from their Oga at the top

“The moment Nigerians united against civil defence officer after he was seen trying to grab motorist’s steering wheel while driving in Imo State….”

@teejayviruz @Global_Folder From who??

@Global_Folder Unrelated, but why do women hesitate when it's time to retalaite or defend themselves ?

It’s not obsession bro, it’s a RIGHT, marriage was constituted under the premise of religion and every religion agree to that singular fact “woman submit”. It is only an obsession when it is the making of a man(we can go into the argument of “religion was created by man”). If you can’t submit don’t marry. And let me tell you one painful truth…IF YOU MARRY A DOG, YOU EITHER SUBMIT TO THE DOG OR LEAVE THE DOG) most women don’t want to leave cos obviously their life revolves around it, and yet still don’t want to submit…..WHY HURT YOURELF BY YOURSELF!!’

How do i tell Nigeria men that submission in marriage depends on how you lead as a man. A lot of Nigerian men today are fighting harder for submission than they are fighting to build an actual home. And I genuinely don’t understand it. Ask many men what they want in a wife and before anything else before peace of mind, before partnership, before a woman who actually wants to build something with them you’ll hear “submission.” What’s this obsession with submission.

@Uchechukwu_Jeny Why are you pained…it’s a clear fact that you were once 18+, what happened to the guy you dated them, why didn’t or couldn’t you keep him….you all just talking out of the pain of being left behind

This here is the reason they always go after younger girls, because they are vulnerable, still learning to be in control of their emotions and are easy to manipulate. You can’t try this nonsense with a 25yr old girl

@Uchechukwu_Jeny @mo66el This one pain you sha ooo…..what happened to the person you dated in your 18+ days

@mo66el No be tactics, date within your age bracket and leave children alone

@DesmondOElliot Cho Cho Cho ….you go talk tire…..when it comes back to bite you, you are running to the media

For Immediate Release May 20, 2026. Hon. Desmond Elliott Did Not Step Down From APC Primary Race in Surulere Constituency 1 Our attention has been drawn to misleading reports and deliberate misrepresentations suggesting that Hon. Desmond Elliott stepped down from the contest for the All Progressives Congress (APC) Lagos State House of Assembly Primary Election in Surulere Constituency 1. We wish to categorically state that Hon. Desmond Elliott did not withdraw or step down from the race. For the avoidance of doubt, what Hon. Desmond Elliott communicated in the video posted on his official X (formerly Twitter) handle, @DesmondOElliot, was his deep concern over the deliberate exclusion and intimidation of his supporters, many of whom were denied access to the designated voting venues, particularly in Ward F2 and Ward F3. These unfortunate developments created an atmosphere of tension and raised legitimate fears of a possible breakdown of law and order. In light of these troubling circumstances, Hon. Desmond Elliott, acting responsibly and in the interest of peace, urged his agents and supporters to withdraw from the immediate voting environment to prevent escalation and to avoid any form of violence or chaos. His decision was one of statesmanship and restraint—not a concession, withdrawal, or surrender of his candidacy. It is therefore misleading and inaccurate for anyone to interpret or portray his remarks as stepping down from the race. Hon. Desmond Elliott remains committed to democratic principles, the rule of law, and the mandate freely given to him by the overwhelming majority of his supporters across Surulere Constituency 1. We call on party members, stakeholders, and the general public to disregard false narratives and remain focused on the need for transparency, fairness, and justice in the electoral process. At this critical moment, it is imperative that the integrity of the primary election process be upheld and that every legitimate supporter and delegate is allowed to participate freely, without intimidation or obstruction. Signed Concerned Supporters and Stakeholders Surulere Constituency 1 Lagos State

@Nsukka_okpa Just open mouth waaa to spill rubbish….una Dey think at all??

If We remove Ballon D’or, Bukayo Saka is actually better than Lionel Messi. I’m talking skills, technique, shot power, speed and passing ability. Don’t get me wrong Messi is a great player, but he didn’t singlehandedly lead a club to a title in over 20 years ❤️😂 #COYG ❤️

@susylicious2023 Women will always be women….

Her boyfriend broke up with her… simply because she called Frank Edoho’s wife a “Woman Leader.” 😳 One innocent comment, one shattered relationship. In this era of celebrity drama, even a harmless title can cost you everything. Moral of the story: Choose your words wisely, especially when it comes to people’s exes.

@ChinonyelumH And na still your gender (way fine pass you by far) go still raise the pikin for him…..women don’t know that their problem is other women

As a man,cheating on me in marriage is setting yourself up to be a single father. I no be the type wey dey fight for children’s custody. I go leave them for you so you can train them well. When they grow up they will look for their mother.

@cherry_bigger @Officialchike **can

It’s funny that you don’t realize that frank can’t host an orgy with 5 mad gorgeously “women” and repeat same for 10years then come back to still marry an 18year old “woman” She didn’t “chiked” frank, she only show that she can be “chiked” and trust me, no rightfully thinking man will want to house a “chiked” lady

See you soon... #CallOfMyLife

Oh no I think you getting it wrong, men are not hurt, they have just learnt, frank can go for a 10year break no restrictions and still come back to marry a 20year old girl, but I don’t think that’s the case for the lady, no man in his right senses will want to keep a whore at home…a whore is always for the street…..#LearnToUseYourBrain

See the way men are in pain because Chike slept with a married woman but most of you cheats on your wife and justify it with"Men are polygamous in Nature". It didn't happen to you people directly but you are so pained on Frank's behalf. Now imagine the pain of the women you all cheat on

@d_Advocate1 Fear Dey catch this one!!!

After 2027, you should permanently stay away from national politics. You are one of the most dangerous politicians I have ever seen — a deceptive figure who shamelessly weaponised religion and ethnicity for political gain ahead of a general election. May we never witness your kind again.