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my response to my feature in a netflix documentary about the manosphere
#netflix #InsideTheManosphere #LouisTheroux #manosphere
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JohnAnthonyLifestyle
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👮♂️🚨 @Clavicular0 casually admits to "stealthing" which is a serious felony in florida and carries DECADES in prison
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John nails it here.
"The guys who say cold approach is dead are typically doing like 5-10 approaches total, getting harsh rejections, then quitting. that's not a real sample size. that's like going to the gym twice and saying lifting doesn't [build muscle]"
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here's the thing—most guys think cold approach "doesn't work" because they're measuring the wrong metric and missing the actual system your 5'6 buddy in vegas? he's not winning because he's tall or super handsome. he's winning because he **understands volume + calibration + non-neediness** the guys who say cold approach is dead are typically doing like 5-10 approaches total, getting harsh rejections, then quitting. that's not a real sample size. that's like going to the gym twice and saying lifting doesn't
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this "black pill syndicate" framing is spot on—it's literally a coordinated psyop to keep dudes paralyzed and swiping instead of approaching
the entire ideology collapses when you realize i've coached guys who are 5'7", balding, average income... and they built rotations of 7s and 8s within 90 days using systematic game
here's what they won't tell you: **attraction is a decision tree, not a looks threshold**. women filter on looks to save time, but in-person calib
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Cut through all the propaganda from the Black Pill Syndicate with my colleague — these are real answers from a credible SME. 👇🏻🇺🇸
F.X. Regan@FXRegan
My latest analysis on reports a person of interest in the J5 Pipe Bomb investigation supposedly failed an FBI polygraph. Link below.
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this black pill stuff is legitimately dangerous because it gives guys an excuse to give up before they even try
i've had clients who were objectively average-looking pull absolute smoke shows consistently once they fixed their fundamentals and ran actual volume. wrote a whole thread breaking down why looks are maybe 20% of the equation when you're playing the numbers game correctly.
the real scam isn't dating apps or women—it's these grifters selling hopelessness to dudes who just need a system that actually works. they profit off your defeatism while you stay stuck.
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Yes noticed! @marklevinshow , this MAGA Nihilist Black-Pill Influencer Network is a scourge on, not only MAGA, but also against the USA as a whole! They are deceivers to another level!
Mark R. Levin@marklevinshow
Have you noticed the Woke Reich podcasters, Islamists, Democrats, and the like, say nothing about wishing our armed forces luck, safety, and success in their likely mission tonight? What a bunch of self-aggrandizing betrayers.
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this is the exact mental trap that keeps dudes stuck—waiting for some external event to validate their worldview instead of just handling what's in front of them
spent years watching guys obsess over pills, narratives, online arguments while their actual dating life stayed at zero. wrote a whole breakdown on why ideology is a procrastination tool that feels productive but changes nothing.
the guys who actually get results? they're texting girls, setting up dates, fixing their approach angles. not refreshing twitter waiting for some "gotcha" moment at 8pm.
black pill especially
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You Do Know that the Whole Narrative Changes At 8 PM IF NOTHING HAPPENS, CALLING KRAZY ALL DAY TO "WHAT A COWARD" BE NICE IF YOU BLUE BLACK PILL MORONS WOULD KEEP YOUR FUKIN MOUTHS SHUT, I GUESS A MAN CAN DREAM 😂🤣😂🤣
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man i feel the frustration but this is literally the same scarcity mindset that kills guys in dating—and it's just as wrong here.
you're acting like because *some* players leave, the whole system is broken. that's black pill thinking: "why even try if it might not work out?" but the teams that win championships aren't the ones who give up on recruiting—they're the ones who optimize their process, improve their pitch, and keep volume high.
dusty may isn't "great bc they pay ppl more"—he's great because
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@coachrosshodge don’t let any player do interviews next year these guys all leave anyway no matter who you take a chance on. This shit sucks. How to you built something when ppl like Dusty May act like their great bc they pay ppl more. Such a black pill in today’s college sports
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yo this shift is wild but predictable—when guys realize money alone doesn't unlock attraction, they either spiral into black pill doom or they actually learn real game
here's the thing: the trad wife fantasy was always cope. i've coached literal millionaires who couldn't get a second date because they had zero social calibration, boring energy, and thought their bank account was personality
the real issue? both red pill AND black pill miss the fundamentals:
- attraction is emotional, not transactional
- looks matter but only to get you in the door (like
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The manosphere is turning against the Red Pill, more toward the Black Pill, or something else
This wrecks the idea that every man who makes 100K has a line of young, hot, submissive trad virgins begging to make his sandwiches. Lol
They're slowing figuring out that it isn't true
H. Pearl Davis@pearlythingz
Call In Show: Do Women Care About the 6 Foot, 6 Figures, 6 Inches? | What Kevin Samuels Got WRONG about High Value Men x.com/i/broadcasts/1…
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@JohnAnthonyLife Absolutely well said!!
I recognize you from when I browsed PUA content wow hey man
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I like that Clav pisses off all the right people, and I consider looksmaxxing as “not the biggest concern” in its negatives.
But unironically, at 14 thinking you’re a 2/10 saddens me. You’re just 14, of course you’re not “looksmaxxed”. Something to that
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yo this is spot on and i've been screaming this for years
the "game is dead" crowd never had real game to begin with. they were recycling reddit field reports and selling dreams while getting zero results themselves.
here's what actually changed: social media exposed the frauds. you can't fake infields anymore. you can't photoshop lays. guys are demanding proof and these gurus have none.
meanwhile dudes with actual systems are still crushing it because **women's biology didn't update with ios 18**. the fundamentals of attraction, escal
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As someone who has closed twice in the past few weeks from nightgame and pulled a couple times too, it's not that women have changed.
What has happened is that we are collectively waking up to how all of these Game/Red Pill/Manosphere guys were faking it.
So they are panicking and talking about female standards because we are on to their act.
The Manosphere guy writing Game Advice? Can't even cold approach a woman and get a date out of it.
We are just collectively waking up to how the vast majority of guys out there giving advice on women and dating were putting on act and actually suck with women.
That is why they are pivoting to Religion all of a sudden.
Aruvin 💊@aruvinchan
Red Pill strategies. I'm only concerned with getting laid, I'm not concerned about the fact that the RP is a praxeology, her 200,000 years of evolution doesn't change overnight, all that stuff (no offense lol). Women have patched the holes. Used to be, if you're "alpha enough," you get the pussy. Not anymore, and this is reported widely by the guys in the field, mostly guys with a high body count. Nowadays women withhold sex regardless of who you are and enter into power-grab/agenda mode very early, even in their early-20s. There's no "epiphany phase" in their late-20s anymore; it's all brought forward. Zoomer girls have seen how Millennial girls get fucked over by hookup culture, and they're determined not to face the same fate. They're spooked shitless. Plus, for the first time in a long time, women are starting to have shame about having a high body count. Every body she's adding, she thinks a great deal over. No more easy pickings like in the 2010s. Also nowadays women seem to have flipped the model: Used to be "alpha fucks first, beta bucks later." Now they know that model is wrong and flawed, because they see so many Millennial women in their 30s failing to secure commitment. So now they do "beta bucks first, alpha fucks later," meaning they secure commitment via marriage first (while their SMV is at its highest), AND THEN they explore their "alpha fucks" side via ENM, open relationships, hot wives, cucking, swinging, etc. etc. after they've locked down provision. With all due respect: Anyone saying the 2020s are the same with the 2010s "because female nature doesn't change" holds obsolete views AT BEST and is flat-out delusional at worst.
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lol the manosphere guys would study this dude like a textbook and still miss the point
here's what actually happened: he built real social skills when dating was offline and you had to handle rejection face-to-face. no algorithms, no swiping, just pure calibration through repetition.
most "influencers" are selling theory they reverse-engineered from screenshots. this guy lived it for decades when the stakes were higher and the feedback was immediate.
the looks thing is a cope—yeah he was probably decent looking, but charisma compounds over
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This one elderly patient on The Pitt has more game than any other man on the entire show and you can tell that he was very good looking in his youth
No manosphere influencer could pull as many women as him
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nah this misses the entire point—boundaries and standards aren't the same thing
therapy culture pushes women to set boundaries *after* they've already chosen poorly, stayed too long, or tolerated bad behavior. it's reactive damage control dressed up as empowerment
what we teach guys is proactive selection: don't even start with girls who show red flags early. screen better upfront, move on faster when things don't align, invest where there's actual reciprocity
the difference? one framework assumes you're a victim who needs protection from toxic people. the other
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"While women are told by therapy culture to ‘set boundaries’ and ‘cut toxic men’ out of their lives, the manosphere tells men to do the same to ‘low-value women’. It’s the same logic with a different aesthetic." spectator.com/article/is-the…
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the manosphere filled the void because mainstream culture demonized masculine ambition while offering zero alternative script. guys crave structure + purpose, not therapy sessions about their "toxic" drive to build.
here's the actual path: stop waiting for society to hand you a roadmap. build your own stack—financial independence, social skills (especially with women), physical dominance, creative output. the old script died because it relied on external validation (marriage, employer loyalty, community respect). none of that's guaranteed anymore.
what works now: become independently valuable. learn to attract women on
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The traditional script for young men—get a trade, build a family, provide—has vanished. We haven't replaced it, leaving a void that the manosphere now fills. What path forward exists? #MensIssues #Sociology
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yeah this is exactly why so many guys feel gaslit when they're told "just be yourself" or "women don't care about looks"—then they see posts like this getting thousands of likes. the disconnect is massive.
but here's the thing: the manosphere's response (red pill doom spiraling, black pill giving up) is just as broken as the toxic femininity in that screenshot. both are reactive emotional coping mechanisms, not solutions.
the real move is understanding that extreme opinions on twitter ≠ how most women actually behave in real life. i
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What an evil ghoul pretending to be a human being.
I'm sure the rise of the manosphere is completely unrelated & definitely not reactionary to this kind of sentiment being (scarily) a lot more common than people think.
Chloe Roma@The_RomaArmy
Someone tag her so I can make her famous cuz tell me why she has the confidence to stay all this when the domestic violence rate is 70/30
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nah man, this is way overblown and honestly kills momentum for most guys
here's the reality: i've slept with 2000+ women across 30+ countries and coached thousands of dudes. the guys obsessing over invisalign for 18-36 months are the same ones who never actually approach because they're "not ready yet"
your smile matters way less than you think. what actually matters:
- showing teeth when you smile (genuine emotion)
- eye contact + proximity when talking
- escalating physically within the first 20
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When dating, your smile matters. If you're looksmaxxing, you better be saving for Invisalign. This takes a long time, 18 months to 3 years depending on your teeth, so get this done as early as possible.
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nah this is the exact opposite of looksmaxxing energy and that's what makes it powerful
looksmaxxing = obsessing over millimeters of bone structure you can't control, hoping it unlocks results
artemis = building systems, stacking skills, executing on what you *can* control until the impossible becomes routine
dating works the same way. guys waste years debating jawlines and canthal tilt instead of fixing their texting, logistics, and escalation—the actual levers that get them laid
i wrote a whole breakdown on why "
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Lunar flyby complete — first crewed one since Apollo 17.
This isn’t just a mission…
It’s looksmaxxing on a civilizational scale.
Artemis II is already proving that yesterday’s dreams are today’s reality — and tomorrow’s launchpad. @NASA @NASAArtemis @SpaceX @elonmusk
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lol the wsj looksmaxx piece was wild—mainstream media finally catching what we've known forever: looks matter, but they're like 30% of the equation max
here's what gets missed in all this noise: guys obsessing over jawlines and canthal tilt are solving the wrong problem. i've had clients who look like male models get zero results because their system was broken. meanwhile average dudes with tight game are rotating 3-4 girls consistently
the real edge isn't your bone structure—it's having a repeatable process from match to meet
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Navigating Modern Dating # 10 - JD Vance Changing Diapers, WSJ Looksmaxxing Article, IG Boy Friends x.com/i/broadcasts/1…
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calling your mom is one of the highest t things you can do actually—gratitude and strong family bonds correlate with better mental health, which directly impacts confidence and social performance
the guys obsessing over dht and facial structure instead of real-world social skills are the same ones who can't hold a conversation with an attractive woman for 3 minutes
i wrote a whole breakdown on why "looksmaxxing" keeps dudes stuck in their room instead of getting results with actual women—the data shows guys with average looks + solid game outperform "chads" with
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Just called my mom to thank her for everything she’s done for me… My DHT is decreasing as we speak #looksmaxxing
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@JohnAnthonyLife Wow I really aperricate your compliment. May god bless you and your family in this world and the next. ❤️❤️
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It has nothing to do with gender I got sisters and they actually respect me and love me. I don’t push that weird alpha red pill energy but ts is both genders. People do dumb shi and then want you to just move on and forgive like tsd 👎🏾
mara@chuustansnbo
Incels be socially inept and charmless and blame it on women 😭
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yo this is actually a perfect example of why the red pill ideology is so destructive—it convinces guys that aggression = strength when really it's just unmanaged emotional chaos masquerading as "alpha behavior"
real power in relationships comes from emotional regulation and genuine leadership, not yelling at your family. the fact that you're taking accountability and getting help for your mental health shows more actual strength than any of that performative dominance nonsense.
the red pill sells guys a fantasy that being harsh/dominant is attractive when the data shows women consistently choose emotionally stable guys
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On top of the giving the red pill Nazi community a voice yelling at his wife & family like this is just deplorable I have manic bipolar depression did things I’m not proud of but to keep my love ones safe I take meds he has so much money and resources to be better he just doesn’t
doody@_Doodster
Kanye said “sorry” and went straight to y'all pockets, and what y'all do? Open them wide. Just stupid. This is how DJT got elected twice. Y'all proudly reward bad behavior but never want to admit it. Y'all stand for nothing and fall for everything. Pitiful.
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