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Man using a legal brothel in Duisburg, Germany, felt "degraded" by the experience 🤏🏼🎻

The moment a john catches feelings for a woman in the sex trade... he can't bear the fact she's meeting x other men like himself. He can't even tell his forum buddies who she is cause he knows they'd go straight to see her. How does the cognitive dissonance not explode his brain?

Another "#sextourist" in the same thread is deluding himself that a woman he paid to access many times in the past is longingly waiting for the industry to open so she can see him...

#Rapetourist in a thread of johns complaining about increased prices in Amsterdam's legal red light district hopes the economic fall-out of the pandemic will push more women into the industry, increase competition and thus give him more power and control 🤮

Complaining that last time he couldn't orgasm, British #rapetourist in Amsterdam is asking for recommendations of "young natural blondes with porn star tits" so it won't happen again...

Check this out @Savannah_FDS. He made it all the way into the Guardian love advice column.

The #GirlfriendExperience is so dangerous for women in prostitution. Some idiot johns mistake it for genuine affection, best case scenario when the illusion breaks she just "loses a customer", but men have stalked, assaulted, and killed women they "loved". theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2…

“I don't have a girlfriend, so I go to the whores. I have a chat with the ladies, many aren't forced, those beautiful Russian women just want to earn money quickly, then they go back. I'm very happy with the whores, I would rather go there than just rape a woman.” - Dutch john

"I have never heard negative words [from the women], only positive feedback: that I am a fine suitor. Yes, it gives me confidence to hear that, it soothes me." - Dutch john who has never heard of the concept of 'marketing'

"I was in a [brothel]. After we got to the room, I got a strong impression that she wasn't doing this voluntarily. Nevertheless, I just did it with her. In retrospect I thought that was morally reprehensible of me; I was helping perpetuate [...] forced prostitution." - Dutch john

"Session was extremely rushed. One couldnt play with her breasts or nipples cause she had them pierced---a real "fuck you" to the client. Overpriced and limited abilities. She was not worth the 130€. I will never repeat. [She] should find another profession.” - sex tourist in 🇳🇱

Two women and a man in Germany arranged to meet various men in parking lots promising #prostitution. After having received the money they pepper-sprayed the johns and ran. Three men were thus attacked before unfortunately, the trio was caught by police.

If #sexworkiswork the woman here does not need trauma therapy but training to "professionalize" herself and deliver better "customer service". We all have to do our job even if we don't want to, so she just has to hustle better and bear the grind like everyone else. Right???

If #sexworkiswork then this an "unpleasant, but understandably dissatisfied customer". After all, she didn't hold up her end of the bargain during the "agreed consented to" blowjob he mentions. If #sexworkiswork a "customer" trying to get the most out of the "service" makes sense

If #sexworkiswork, then this is not rape but "bad customer service" and a woman "not fit for the job". That is definitely what the man in question here thinks which is why he keeps going though she shows clearly that she doesn't want sex. How does him paying her make it okay?

Here are statements from men utilizing legal German #prostitution. Are these 1) Understandably disgruntled customers who got bad service 2) Problematic customers but they say nothing about the trade generally 3) Entitled rapey creeps Poll follows next! dieunsichtbarenmaenner.wordpress.com/category/lack-…

"I also sometimes see an uninspired cashier at the supermarket who looks wilted." - a Dutch john justifying paying to access women in #prostitution who appear unwell or dissociated. What do we call men who have "sex" with women who clearly visibly do not want to be having it?

I spent time on Germany's biggest #prostitution advertising website. Here's a tour through the site and exemplary profiles and what the patterns we observe might tell us about the #sexbuyers who make up the demand for the #sexindustry: youtu.be/LJ1uwLiRSiI

Thank you for the shoutout! 😊

Sex work hobbyists looking to take advantage of economically vulnerable women who have lost their jobs. This shit can NEVER be empowering.

@LeftHonJen I'm searching for quotes by disabled johns and a lot of them sure sound rapey to me. Can you imagine if the media reported on disabled johns and included this? But it doesn't fit the narrative of lonely downtrodden men who want a hug and cuddle...