❤Julie Spira

Last week I joined @ABCNewsLive to discuss a surprising trend: Job seekers are using dating apps to land career opportunities. Swiping for interviews instead of dates. Watch the full interview (embedded) + read my analysis: cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-apps-jo… #ABCNews #DatingApps #CareerTrends

Behind the scenes of a Digital Matchmaker® client photo shoot. Confidence isn’t accidental. It’s curated. DigitalMatchmaker.com

In my continuing series, Dating in an AI World, I sat down with Peter Daut at @KESQ TV to talk about what AI can and Can't do for love this Valentine's Day. #datinginanaiworld #ValentinesDay

Would you date an AI boyfriend or girlfriend? 77% of online daters say they would consider dating an AI chatbot. But, efficiency isn’t intimacy. Full article 👇 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/ai-boyfriends-… #AIDating #ArtificialIntimacy #datinginanaiworld

I’m seeing more people choose friends when dating feels uncertain.

Are you celebrating Valentine’s, Galentine’s, or Palentine’s this year? Searches for “Galentine’s” surged 780% last February, and more people are celebrating friendships alongside romance. #ValentinesWeek #ModernDating

Part 3 of my Dating in an AI World series: "Dating Safely in an AI World: When Connection Moves Faster Than Trust" Dating already moves fast, and AI is speeding it up even more. AI can help people connect, but it can also blur authenticity and hide red flags. Dating safely in an AI world requires new rules. Full article at:🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-safely-…

55% say they’ll be celebrating Valentine’s Week. 💌 Will you?

Did you know today is Chocolate Day? 📷 According to @wallethub, 13% of men and 11% of women say chocolate is one of the Valentine’s gifts they’d like to receive. Yet the same study found that a heart-shaped box of candy ranks among the least desirable gifts. So I’m curious — what’s your favorite? Dark, milk, or white chocolate?

Happy Valentine’s Week. The timing leading up to 2/14 creates real shifts in dating behavior. 📊 Dating activity jumps 30%+ in early February, and Valentine’s Day remains one of the most proposal-heavy dates of the year. More activity means more signals — and more room for misinterpretation. My new post will help guide your romantic journey this week. cyberdatingexpert.com/valentines-wee…

Valentine’s Day is almost here. Whether you’re single, dating, in a committed relationship, or married, this is the moment when expectations surface. Questions like: Who’s planning? What does it mean? Are we aligned? Here’s what to think about before Feb 14 👇 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/valentines-dat…

Counting the days until #superbowlLX. The Super Bowl and Valentine’s Day fall less than a week apart, and this timing shapes dating behavior every February. New on the blog: It's Game Time: Valentine's Day is the Super Bowl of Dating ⬇️ 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/valentines-day…

One week to Super Bowl Sunday. Valentine’s Day follows the next weekend. This timing quietly shapes dating expectations every February. New on the blog: It’s Game Time: Why the Super Bowl Is Like Valentine’s Day in Dating 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/valentines-day…

Flirty Friday reminder 💌 When interest is real, it moves forward — without mixed signals. From The Valentine’s Dating Playbook ValentinesDatingPlaybook.com

AI can help you start the conversation. But it can’t build connection for you. That still requires presence, curiosity, and emotional availability. From my ongoing series: Dating in an AI World.

Heading into the weekend, remember: green flags aren’t chemistry. They’re clarity. cyberdatingexpert.com/clarity-green-…

AI can accelerate dating. It can polish communication. It can reduce friction. What it can’t do is replace consistency, emotional availability, or mutual effort.

Dating apps are getting smarter. Relationships still require discernment. From spending 30+ years studying the intersection of love and technology, I explore where AI genuinely helps modern dating — and where human judgment still matters most. My new story: "Dating in an AI World: What Technology Can — and Can’t — Do for Love" 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/dating-in-an-a…

Cuffing Season’s Final Act isn’t about rushing romance — it’s about recognizing momentum, especially in online dating. New post: 🔗 cyberdatingexpert.com/one-month-to-v…

Some seasons whisper. Valentine’s season speaks clearly. 💗 From The Valentine’s Dating Playbook.