Unpopular opinion: not every lifestyle meetup needs 2 a.m. chaos. Daytime coffee, early drinks, pool hangs, and “home by 10” plans count too. Some couples flirt better when they are not exhausted. 🍍 Are you late-night energy or daylight lifestyle?
Got called a sexy #Milf yesterday
Just a reminder, I have no kids, I'm not a mother, I'm not a Milf
So, in that regard, I'm just someone you want to fuck, an #ilf if you will
Please and thank you 😂
What ACTUALLY Happens At Your First Hotel Takeover
The real experience… not the hype
One of the biggest fears we hear from couples is “What if it’s not what we expect?” or just simply "What is it really like?"
And honestly, that fear is completely normal. Most people’s expectations are shaped by social media, stories, and assumptions… not real experiences
And you've likely just spent your time off work and holiday savings to attend... you want to make sure you'll have a good time
Here’s the truth
Most first hotel takeovers feel far more like a vacation and social experience than people first think
- You arrive, check in, unpack, set up your room, and relax
- You meet other couples casually or through hosted mingle events
- You start to realise everyone is normal
During the day, the focus is connection
- Pool parties, mixers, icebreakers, workshops, and conversations
- Many couples spend their time simply building friendships, learning, and exploring at their own pace
Evenings bring more energy, but always choice
- Themed parties, music, dancing, social lounges, and optional play spaces
- Some guests participate. Some don’t
There is no pressure and no “right” way to experience your first event
What surprises most couples is how
💙 Normal
💙 Respectful
💙 Friendly
💙 Supportive
💙 And sexy
the environment feels
Your first takeover isn’t about doing everything
It’s about connection, communication, and confidence
And if you ever have questions or want guidance before your first event, reach out. We’re always here to help you feel prepared, safe, and excited
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📷 Photos feature our friends Rob and Linz from Anything But Vanilla. Go give them a follow @ABV_CNMLife#LibertineEvents#HotelTakeover#SwingersHotelTakeover#NewbieSwingers@FWAT_Podcast
Any swinger goals for 2026
We talked about ours recently on the Podcast
Wanna peep mine?
🔥 Be more bold
🔥 Approach the “unapproachable”
🔥 Visit swinger clubs & locations we’ve never been to (or haven’t been to in a while)
What are yours?
#wanderlustswingers
These absolute pine cones (best night party in Dublin) have pinched a load of our pics and are using them to promote their events on feeld. If you see them, please avoid ‘em as their business practice is dodgy AF! We’ve reported this to Feeld as you’d expect.