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France squad are having too much fun with the Rayan Cherki meme 😭

This, btw, is partly why friendships exist. Friends are, typically people we have filtered for shared interests, and physical and temperamental similarity. This is why short people have short friends, tall people, tall friends, and idiots, idiot friends And thus, where we have gist or 'interesting' stories to share, the ideal audience are those we have chosen because of resonance; our friends. Not our wife or husband that we chose not for similarity, but for complementarity. But we now have all adopted a distorted conception of love by asking one person to satisfy needs that were once distributed across friends, family, community, mentors, and companions. Read the bible, for example, and you will see how people like David for example, had a bossom friend who he was very close to despite having wives and numerous side bitches. "the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul." 1 samuel 18:1 But we positively dehumanise our spouses by expecting them to be superman simply because of the existence of an emotion and the pronouncement of vows that ultimately mean nothing Then, when the relationship or marriage inevitably breaks down under the overload, we blame the individuals involved rather than evaluate the impossible standard to which we have subjected love itself. Tough, then for those who have allowed themselves to be ruled by this dysfunction

About 4 days ago, I watched a YT video that talked about how we came about the term 'colour temperature' and by extension, why warmer-coloured lights (2800 to 3000K) is more relaxing and comfortable, while cooler light (white-ish light) is more stimulating, and suited to work, play and activity, broadly speaking. Found it particular interesting as I've always prefered incandescent lighting indoors, especially at night because its more conducive to rest, signals sleep time and creates a more intimate ambience for when I have female guests That video gave scientific backing to my night time preference for warm light (the science always meets me in front, eh?) Now, maybe because of how excited I was about that discovery, I felt a strong urge to share it with my girl who had just walked into the living room as the video was ending - but caught myself mid-thought, self-reminded she would not share my enthusiasm because I know from experience, such things do not interest her. So rather than expend my exuberence on an audience that would not share my fascination, I relocated to my desk and rerouted that energy into a deeply rewarding epistemic exercise on the subject. Moral of the story: While we all have impulses to share stories, interests or random bits of knowledge with those we love, and expect them to share our interests, it is socially unintelligent to forget that they are separate individuals with minds of their own. They have different interests, different curiosities, different levels of intelligence, different mental landscapes and basically, different things that capture their attention. To expect that whatever interests us must interest them, or that whatever excites us must excite them, is a textbook case of self-absorption and a consequent inability to map their psychology. It evinces an inability to fully appreciate separateness and the 'other-ness' of others. Affection, love, marriage and whatever, does not undo individuality. So the reason he 'doesn't receive the information in the first place' may very well be that the subject matter does not interest him. But because he is your husband, rather than communicate that lack of interest, he pretends to listen so as not to hurt your feelings. Which then begs the question: how long will he continue to pretend? And at what point does it become unfair to expect that he shows interest in whatever story you have to share at whatever time - irrespective of his state of mind or individuality? Okay... I guess that's two questions but you get the point A better response, then (one which I use and have found to be remarkably effective) would be to (nonverbally) communicate his disinterest in such, as I like to call them, low level gists so that you gradually learn to stop bringing them to him Or at least, consider whether the subject matter is one that is likely to interest him before sharing. Rather than sharing simply because it interests you. So the problem is not inattention on his part. The problem is an inability on yours to recognise him as an independent center of exprerience, rather than an extension of yourself. The issue, in simple terms, is your solipsism

That's not life. Inflicting pain on others so you can "enjoy life" is pathetic. What's there to enjoy in life, when people around you, or people who've interacted with you end up in pain? Let's not celebrate toxic behaviour 🤲

@keptcomingback Baba don make up him mind say na peak fooling mode this year 😂😂💔

@Justdeywiime Lol, you dey lecture jay ke? Egbe

@Just_uzan I don die 🤣🤣

Once dem wan sext 😂 “the weather is cold, I wish you were here” “then we'll be cuddling with my hand massaging your soft breasts” “holding you tight while I kiss you passionately” 😭😭

@ogebuleN 😭😂😂💔

“i miss you” “i miss you too” na the national anthem for long distance relationships be that “i wish you were here” na the chorus.

Drug Sniffer dog doing it's intern on airports in Mexico

You might want to rethink your favourite for the World Cup. Most of them are playing shit. This World Cup will pull up a surprise.

You go watch Argentina match finish con think say dem no dey coordinated. No worry, make world cup start fess, una go see beast mode activated 😂😂

If your perception of relationship is what you're going to be getting and how much you would take, you should be embarrassed. I don't know how people are comfortable being in a relationship where all they do is take. Dont you feel ashamed? You clearly don't love your partner, but that is not even my concern. I'm worried you don't feel shame.

@keptcomingback Thank you sir 🙏

@Justdeywiime Just know, your bang her post is near.

Boy verify, your banger post dey close by.

@_STACKZINC 😏

my blessings are custom made, they won’t fit you

🙍🏻‍♀️: "What's your body count" If I wash my hands with gloves on, did I really wash my hands???

But na appetizer oo 😭

@Astra_szn Nna ehh 😂🤲

@keptcomingback Him and Yom, masters of the game.

@Justdeywiime The boy good kpa.

The template man 😂😂