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Katherine Macdonald
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Katherine Macdonald
@KateMacAuthor
Teacher, author, mum. Queen of fairytales, writer of banter. Filthy little poet. Likes cats a little too much.
England, United Kingdom Katılım Ağustos 2019
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@PengPengsArt Every episode i watch makes me forget what the original characters are "supposed" to look like, because I don't think I've ever seen a group of such well casted individuals before. They embody the spirit of the characters so well!!
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@JRico847 @Biblicalman You MIGHT say "I'm going to tackle x today" or "what do you think about y?" Or "how far are you into project z?"
You support your partner, but saying you "help" them makes it seem like it's their responsibility, rather than a joint one.
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@JRico847 @Biblicalman Ask yourself the question instead, because asking her makes her the manager in the relationship rather than the partner. Think about the dynamic you have with your colleagues, employers and employees. You wouldn't say to your partner "what can I do to help today?" Would you? 1/2
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My wife stopped fighting with me in 2018.
I thought we'd finally figured it out.
No more arguments about the dishes. No more sighing when I forgot something. No more asking me to help with things I should've noticed myself.
Peace.
That's what I called it.
For two years I lived in that silence thinking we'd reached some kind of marital maturity.
Then one night—11 PM, night before Thanksgiving—I found her crying in the kitchen.
Making pie crust from scratch because my mother had made a comment the year before about store-bought being "fine, I guess."
I asked what was wrong.
She looked at me like I was a stranger.
"Nothing."
That's when I realized:
She hadn't stopped fighting because things were better.
She stopped fighting because she stopped believing I would ever change.
The silence wasn't peace.
It was resignation.
She'd built her entire life around my absence…while I was still in the house. Eating the food she cooked. Sleeping in the bed she made. Parenting the kids she was raising.
And I called it partnership because I brought home a paycheck.
Most men don't have a marriage problem.
They have an absence problem.
Their wives stopped asking because asking hurt too much.
So they carry it alone. The meals. The schedules. The mental load. The holidays.
And we sit on the couch checking our phones thinking "at least we're not fighting anymore."
Brother, fighting would be better.
Anger means she still believes you could change.
Silence means she made peace with the fact that you won't.
Tomorrow is Thanksgiving.
Your wife is going to wake up before you. Start cooking while you sleep. Manage the chaos while you watch the parade. Clean up while you digest.
Unless you don't let her.
I wrote the protocol for coming home to a marriage you've been absent from.
The 5 stages of wifely resignation.
Why "I'll do better" doesn't work anymore.
The 30-day silent rebuilding system.
The conversation she needs to hear.
It's called "When She Stopped Asking."
Link below if you want it.
But whether you buy it or not—wake up first tomorrow.
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@AnnieJay_RuOk @e_stavs It's authorkatherinemacdonald
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@KateMacAuthor @e_stavs Thank you so much! What is your Insta?
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25) I'm currently desperately searching for one to do Aidan and Morgan but I can't tell who's real on here 😭
#FantasyIndiesNovember

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@e_stavs @AnnieJay_RuOk You can check me out on Instagram, if you like. My premade, "your character here" are only £30! 🙂
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@e_stavs @AnnieJay_RuOk Thanks Erin! Can confirm, definitely real. Have existed on the internet for many years now, and for 36 years IRL come Saturday. Let me prove that I'm a person: mimblewimble. Could a bot say that??? No. Genuine person here.
And yes, my rates are very reasonable. 🙂
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@RaysSpellbook Oooh I really want to draw a human Zym, now!
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@RaylaMyBaeyla What i love about Callum and Rayla is that it's actually enemies to reluctant allies in a time of crisis to friends to found family to lovers to heartbroken exes to friends to lovers to MARRIED WITH A BABY and I think that's beautiful
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@Sokkasnation I imagine it would hurt more to give birth to a 3 month old child... 😅
(In all seriousness, I imagine the horns are soft at that age, like baby skulls are)
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yk damn well that must’ve HURTTT unless Rayla had to have a c section bc of the horns 😭
lia 🌺@chesirebees
wdym she came out straight out the womb WITH HORNS?????
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@SkyeKelrose The one where he's cupping the back of her head! 🥰
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#FantasyIndiesAugust day 12
My last read was a DNR so I won’t say what it was. It’s NOT my an author on here!
My next is The Soul in The Sword by @KateMacAuthor (I think I got the title right😅)

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@ebelee_ This is so gross.
I am terrible with dates. I cannot remember numbers for toffee, and numbers get muddled in my head. I joke "thank good my son was born on a date where I only have to remember 2 letters!"
I still don't forget birthdays because calendars exist.
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Propaganda I’m not falling for
Chisom Agbafor@ChisomAgbafor
A man can love you deeply and still forget your birthday.
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A quick shout out to one of my favorite fantasy authors of all time! The Throne of Pearls and Bones trilogy by @KateMacAuthor was fabulous. I'm still thinking about it days later. Love, love, LOVE!! I imagine I'll read it again, because Brianna and Aidan really stole my heart!

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