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Engineering love at first match. 1 in 10 today. Dating apps: 1 in 10,000.

NYC Katılım Nisan 2022
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Keeper@KeeperAI·
Finding someone to marry is harder than ever. We used to marry for practical reasons and grow into love. Now we hold out for a soulmate. That’s good! Marriages today are much happier. But soulmates are extraordinarily rare, and too many people are struggling to find theirs.
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Wes Myers (itl)@realwesmyers·
Top 10% and bottom 25% tend to be hardest. At the bottom, "ugly" often reduces to fat, which points to a stack of fixable things left unfixed. At the top, you get people who never had to develop much character. In either case, looks are mostly a tell for the real problem.
Larry Fink Jr@larryfink_jr

@jakozloski Do you have a harder time matching ugly people vs attractive? Apologies for the politically incorrect words but you know what I mean

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
95% of Bumble's users never paid them a dollar. The 5% who paid generated about $28 a month. The math problem the dating industry has spent fifteen years trying to solve is how to extract more revenue from those users. The obvious solution is to reliably match them to someone they'll fall in love with and charge for the value delivered. This has never been tried.
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
If you signed up for Keeper, thank you! We’ve got a huge backlog of demand — more than our system can handle right now. We don’t make a match unless we’re extremely confident in it, and that takes time. We’re working on increasing throughput to get to you soon!
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Keeper@KeeperAI·
Not necessarily. The point is that the bias of the rater is taken into account in both directions. So if a typically harsh rater rates a photo well, that will get up-adjusted, and if a typically permissive rater rates a photo poorly, that will get down-adjusted. Both are intended to get the score closer to the latent true global consensus. So in your case, you might have had a harsher than normal set of raters across the board. I'm happy to look up your test though just to confirm everything looks right - I sent you a DM.
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FlowMan@FlowMan92·
@KeeperAI @jakozloski Thanks. The point on "harsh raters" is a bit counterintuitive as effectively this might mean that a photo in question got less "yes" from not so "harsh raters" or even got "no" from them which basically is sign of low quality and probably should be penalized
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Keeper@KeeperAI·
You don't need a new jawline. One of your photos is losing you matches. Find out which one:
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Keeper@KeeperAI·
It can be surprising how competitive the swiping apps are. Getting a decent amount of yeses is often enough to put you in the 70th+ percentile, although that doesn't necessarily guarantee success. It's also worth noting that the tendencies of the raters is factored in. So if the people who rated your photo 'Yes' are typically very harsh raters, that will result in your score being higher.
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FlowMan@FlowMan92·
@KeeperAI @jakozloski I let it test one photo and the rating is actually great (as I think a person on photo is like 5-6/10), but there are lots of "no" and "somewhat", which make me wonder how come the rating can be 8.4/10. And then also, this photo actually did not help get matches on dating apps.
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Jake Kozloski
Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
Men’s top don’t-want in a spouse is “overweight” by a 2.5x margin over the next item. Women’s top don’t-want is “rude” by a 1.5x margin. Men’s rejection filter is dominantly physical. Women’s is dominantly character. Both sexes’ top wants are identical though: kind and funny. (Keeper data on millions of stated preference clauses.)
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
Male age preferences for a wife track his own age across the lifespan, not a fixed younger target. Under 32, his ideal range extends a couple years above his own age. Past 32, the ideal shifts to his own age or younger. His acceptable range widens further younger as he ages. Even at 45, women in their mid-20s remain in his acceptable range. The “all men want a 20-year-old” claim may be true for casual preferences but it’s not what most men look for in a wife. (Keeper data)
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski

Hard truth from 123,696 women's age preferences on Keeper. To be in a 23-year-old's median ideal range, you want to be under 28. A 27-year-old's median ideal range, under 35. A 30-year-old's, under 38. Past those ages you're an outlier in her range, not her ideal. The "find a younger wife" plan has a deadline for most people.

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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
Hard truth from 123,696 women's age preferences on Keeper. To be in a 23-year-old's median ideal range, you want to be under 28. A 27-year-old's median ideal range, under 35. A 30-year-old's, under 38. Past those ages you're an outlier in her range, not her ideal. The "find a younger wife" plan has a deadline for most people.
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Wes Myers (itl)
Wes Myers (itl)@realwesmyers·
People can get very upset when you tell them the world is not as bad as they think.
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
There's a popular claim in online dating discourse that women only want the top 10-15% of men. The data says this is false. 87% of 40-year-olds in 2000 had married. They did their dating in the 80s and 90s, after the cultural revolution but before swipe apps. If 85% of women only wanted the top 15% of men, that marriage rate would be mathematically impossible. The pattern is a dating app artifact, not female nature.
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
Pulled internal Keeper data on hundreds of thousands of active women. The median minimum acceptable height was 5'7". 92% will accept a man under 6'0". Only 8% require 6'0"+. The "all women want 6'2"+" claim does not survive the data.
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
n=366k, Keeper data for women's height preferences: Won't go below: ~5'7" Ideal floor: ~5'11" Ideal ceiling: ~6'5" Max acceptable: 'as tall as the slider lets me click' — 217,857 women pegged 7'0" There is no upper bound on tall.
Jake Kozloski@jakozloski

@FarmerTheta Not quite, here's the data

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Keeper@KeeperAI·
Hey Janie, apologies about that. We're still growing and don't have matches for 100% of our users yet. The whole point of Keeper is that we don't waste your time with hundreds of mediocre matches like the dating apps. We wait until we find that one perfect one. We're working as hard as we can to get to the point where we have that perfect match for everyone. Until then, I appreciate your patience! I don't know if you've logged in in recent years, but we now have a portal that shows you your matchmaking status and what we need from you to move the ball forward. I'd encourage checking that out. And you're always welcome to reach out to us for a deeper update.
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Janie Ho • NYC 🍒
Janie Ho • NYC 🍒@janieho16·
@KeeperAI I signed up for keeper years and I can't believe what happened next. Nothing. Lol. Not one thing happened. I messaged them to see if they got my info and they said yes
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Keeper@KeeperAI·
Finding someone to marry is harder than ever. We used to marry for practical reasons and grow into love. Now we hold out for a soulmate. That’s good! Marriages today are much happier. But soulmates are extraordinarily rare, and too many people are struggling to find theirs.
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Jake Kozloski@jakozloski·
Happy couples are all alike; every unhappy single is unhappy in his own way.
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