Ajoke🥰🥰🥰

@TheOnlyKemi I'm sending you plenty of love and hugs🖤

My younger sister, who is 26 years old, is getting married soon. I am 33 and I'm still single, not even a boyfriend. I didn't live a wayward life. I am beautiful, respectful and homely and she is the opposite - wild and crazy. I'm happy for her but it really hurts. 🥹

@TheOnlyKemi The same thing happened to me. Mine was even 11 days to the Civil wedding. Since that day till now, none of his family has reached out to me. It's been 5 months already, and I have no regret whatsoever

When I called off my wedding on a Thursday… just 2 days before the actual day, none of my supposed groom’s family members reached out to me. Not his mum. Not his siblings. Not even the groom himself. That silence told me everything I needed to know. 5 years later, I still have no regrets.

People don’t realize this, but having no water in your apartment is actually worse than having no light, fr.

Guys my shop is here, 😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️😭❤️❤️❤️❤️😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ please celebrate with me.

Dear God I can’t do this life alone, please help me 🙏

Can’t wait to go back to the way I used to be. I used to be so full of life, happy and all. Now I just feel like a shadow of myself. I can’t wait to get my spark back, fr.

“You handled it so well.” If only you knew. If only you knew how my hands trembled when no one was watching. How I stayed up late, staring at the ceiling, replaying every moment in my mind, wondering if I did the right thing. If only you knew about the doubts that whispered in my ear, telling me I wasn’t enough, that I wasn’t as strong as I pretended to be. I kept my smile in place, my voice steady, because that’s what you needed to see. But behind closed doors, when no one was around, I fell apart. The tears I held back all day would spill out, and I’d let myself feel everything I’d been holding in. If only you knew how much it took to keep going, to keep pretending that I was okay when all I wanted to do was hide.

@Ajoke__xx This is me right now. It's been over 5 months already, but I still ask myself if I made the right decision.

Sometimes I don’t even know what’s happening in my life. Life keeps teaching me lessons I never asked for, giving me experiences I never wished to have. Yes, they made me stronger but honestly, I never wanted to become this strong. I just wanted a simple, happy heart.

One thing I believe every woman should have is firmness. Be firm in your decisions. Be firm in your choices. Just be firm. Let your word be your bond. If you say you will do something, make every effort to follow through and do it well. Always carry that sense of resolve.

i miss who i was before i knew what grief means.

when you lose a parent, you feel exposed to the world (literally and figuratively) like your bare back is exposed to the scorching sun of this wicked world. Iykyk

@GuardianNigeria Please deregister from ADC before joining NDC this is the template 👇

To ba ku di e ki omo olorun jin si koto, monamona a sise imole. 💡

My biggest prayer point right now is clarity. I need clarity. I need to know what to do and how to do it.

Ibadan is a sane city, we just need more reasonable job opportunities.

Na me just Dey panic for nothing. God has never failed me before.

When I pass this phase I will buy a big cake for myself 🥹

5 Solo Dates Every Woman Should Try at Least Once every Year 1. Take yourself to the cinema alone. Buy popcorn. Pick the seat you actually want. Laugh, cry if you need to. No one talking to you. Just you and the movie. 2. Go to a cafe on a weekday. Order a drink and one small pastry. Sit by the window and keep your phone face down for a bit. Watch people going to work, students rushing, cars passing. 3. Book a nice but affordable hotel in your city. Pack a small overnight bag like you're travelling. Order room service or buy food on the way. Take a long shower, wear the robe, lie on the bed and do nothing if you want. Journal, watch a movie, sleep in clean sheets. 4. Take yourself on a Saturday breakfast. Wake up early, shower, wear something cute. Go somewhere that serves breakfast, sit there and order something nice. Enjoy your meal, take some selfies 5. Book a beauty appointment alone. Get your nails done, your brows, wash and style your hair. Don't rush home, look at yourself properly before you leave.

I found a beautiful verse in Isaiah 46:4. I have made you. I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you.