Kert Tandog
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Kert Tandog
@Kert89
Queer AuDHDer. Fleeting thoughts, memories, & interests* *Anthropology, queer studies, disability studies, environmental studies, Philippine studies


Starbucks at SM Pampanga mahiya naman kayo! You should apologize to the mom and child and make things right.






@CookyTitaCookie In terms of accommodations, I think lay people think that PWD needs are mere entitlement. The kid has autism. I can’t speak for all autistics, but my autism comes with sensory sensitivities too. And it’s hell to have those.



Autistics don’t cheat. We literally don’t see other people. In a relationship, you are it. The rest of the population turns into background NPCs. Someone could be walking butt baked in front of us and we’d be like, oh okay, cool, & go about memorizing your coffee order from 2017. I think it’s because we don’t fall in love in the traditional sense. We conduct a full internal audit, compatibility matrix, long term sustainability forecast & emotional risk assessment. And once you pass? That’s it. You are chosen. Completely locked in to a lifetime membership. That’s why people say fumbling an autistic woman or man is the biggest fumble of your life & they’re not exaggerating. You didn’t just lose someone who liked you. You lost someone who studied you, understood you, built a whole internal world around you, and decided (with extreme seriousness) that you were it. We have never been casual about love. If we picked you it was intensely & absurdly deliberate. Everyone else could die in a zombie apocalypse and we’d just… keep being obsessed with you.




drive.google.com/drive/folders/… essential + suggested readings to support the viewings. ongoing list will keep updating !








