Nsima@lorverboyy
I genuinely had zero expectations for this post. Didn't think much of it. So watching it cross 200k views with this kind of engagement has honestly left me confused. But the comments man!especially the hilariously negative ones have shown me something I can't unsee.
Let's be honest, part of why this post traveled is timing. The Chike and Frank Edoho saga is still fresh. Ugo's own sef dey there. So my little wedding post became a convenient canvas for everybody to project their fears, traumas and agendas onto. And project they did.
The positive responses massively outweighed the negative and I'm grateful for every one of them. But I'm still bothered by how a tiny percentage of unfortunate marriages has become the blueprint for how this app talks about ALL marriages.
Okay so because Ugo wife dey knack person and Chike dey pipe Frank wife, therefore every single person walking down the aisle is doomed? Make it make sense.
This app has become a breeding ground for headless chickens who can't think for themselves. Big accounts running daily agendas against marriage and love and it's not just one side oh. Feminists are running their war. Bitter men are running their own. And somewhere in the crossfire, regular people who just want to love and be loved are being mocked for it.
Men are now being vilified for falling in love. Imagine people commenting "you'll regret it" under a newlywed couple's post. If you love your woman publicly, you're a simp. If you're intentional, you're "doing too much." If you post her, you're "showing them your hand." When did loving your partner become a personality flaw?