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This same principle applies to literally everything and the sooner you figure it out the better.

no millennial trope has broken more brains than "you don't owe anybody anything". an ignoble, selfish narcissism dressed up in therapy-speak about boundaries and self-care in order to give yourself a pass from treating other people with a basic level of care and respect

@Rhine2RioGrande Youd leave your church or greater because someone there liked you?

@t4tsweatlover @interdynamicmp9 @fleshsimulator Lol, lmao

@interdynamicmp9 @fleshsimulator Now use your schizophrenia medication

You'll post that you're upset about people posting your parents address and sending them death threats and trying to get everyone in your family fired and then an account called T4TSweatLover will show up and tell you that you need serious help

@_takeajoke Check your dms, didn’t want to write a whole thread here

serious talk but is it evil when u stop trying to help someone because they don't put effort in trying to help themselves. like I don't want to make it about myself but they don't seem to want to be better so you just kinda stop trying to help them cause its not gonna do anything

I propose that we attack Pakistan. Tonight

The problem with people like Carl is that they just don’t care that much about social disorder that affects other people. Their measurement is always themselves. It doesn’t personally affect them if people are shooting up on the subway or in a public park or if a homeless woman is walking around naked or if a psychotic person knocks over an old lady. But if you’re the old lady or if you have small children or if you just care about the state of your community then these things will matter to you. It’s important to understand that these people are spiritually leftist. They won’t come right and say that social disorder is a good thing, they might even register mild social disapproval, but they will dissemble on behalf of these sorts of degradations and try to make the case that you’re the problem if you find what’s happening truly objectionable.

The internet constantly tells women that men are terrible listeners because the second a woman starts venting about her day, the man immediately interrupts to offer a logical solution. We are taught to view this as him being dismissive, emotionally unintelligent, or invalidating our feelings. ​The strict, unpopular truth is that to a man, fixing the problem is his absolute highest, most desperate form of empathy. ​Women vent to connect; we want our partner to just sit in the dark with us and validate the emotion. But men are hardwired to view the woman they love being in distress as an active threat. When he immediately offers a spreadsheet, a strategy, or a solution to your problem, he isn't trying to silence you. His brain has recognized that something in the world is hurting his partner, and his immediate, visceral instinct is to assassinate the thing causing you pain. We constantly shame men for "not just listening," completely ignoring the fact that his attempt to fix your life is his most profound declaration of love.

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil Because that is what happens

@Kole264 @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil In response to this energy. x.com/i/status/20321…

That "omg u people cant do anything" tweet has done more for me than any therapist could

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil I’ve “gone after” no one. I don’t know why you’ve been so aggressive and hostile this entire time

@Kole264 @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil They already have Just not with every single you personally deem possible You are quite actively going after people that for all you know, can do things YOU really struggle with

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil Im not goin after anyone, i want them to have the agency to help themselves

@Kole264 @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil What sense does it make to say you are NOT being willfully honest, if in the next sentence you are gonna pivot to PHYSICAL impossibilties in reference to a MENTAL disorder? That is what people do, constantly. You just want an excuse to go after them.

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil I’m not being dishonest, i’m not asking anyone to perform actions that are physically impossible. I am saying that there is an expectation to continue trying to improve your conditions despite the difficulty or lack of success.

@Kole264 @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil There is "doing something for yourself", then there are things you will never be able to do because of immutable factors, this is a pretty basic life lesson your point needs to ignore. No one here said "never do anything"? Sorry, dishonesty is useless.

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil I would hope you have people in your life that are patient and sympathetic to your plights, because thats something we all deserve. However it is unreasonable to do absolutely nothing about whatever ails you because it’s hard, or that nothing has worked so far.

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil I believe one of them before me put it best in that “if something like halloween decorations causes you undue stress then you’re going to have a long hard life”. Conditions like *that* aren’t something anyone else can change for you. If you want that to stop, its up to you alone.

@hawkofkrypton @Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil Perhaps because its not up to everyone around you to do *anything*. You can either take charge of your life in spite of whatever conditions you deal with, or you can continue to whine and suffer in misery while everyone around you gets tired of hearing about it.

@Dexterdagenius @s3xybl3ss3d @evildanevil And think you care more about pointing fingers than saying or doing anything of value, life be like that

この壁掛け式ガイガーカウンター 東日本大震災で起きた福島原発事故の時に、慌てて作った物を再現したやつです 家にあった『写ルンです』と粗大ゴミで捨ててあったテレビから他の部品をスカベンジして作った記憶がある

@hajiseiwhore @chonkychihuahua Hey man u ever try the shaq gummies theyre pgood im ngl

@chonkychihuahua i skipped the gap year to retake college and get more credits, burnt the fuck out, and now im 20 working retail, living w my parents w no savings and surprised i havent put a bullet through me

Has anyone taken a gap year in their mid 20s & done well afterwards? if so, what did you spend the gap year doing? and did it get brought up by future employers?

@Gingerblast I think the problem here is “12 basilisks”

The defeated GM weeps through clenched teeth as he scrawls "20 more basilisks" into his campaign notebook

@KillerKlownBTC @goonerlicious @noobcodervibes You truly cant help it

what does an avg. mediocre student do in this country? every field is so competitive. preparing for years for a job that doesn’t even guarantee anything. how are they supposed to survive?