Kyle

@supertronic3 Optimizing my energy and minimizing stimulants helped me get into that parasympathetic state to be the fun relaxed source of distraction for girls

Try not to have a serious face For some men, this is a challenge. Particularly, successful businessmen, men in finance, men in medicine...because our success takes a lot of stress. But yeah, you have to build comfort with women before they will be attracted to you. Women need to feel safe with you.

If you're too nervous to cold approach do the micro step strategy Start with hello See the smiles you get back and use that as feedback girls arent these scary creatures to avoid Then work up to asking how her day is going Then work to banter and suggesting to hang out later Keep doing each step until you feel a bit more comfortable and then push out of that comfort zone to the next

It's better to start the relationship with all your cards laid out than to hold stuff back If you want variety and multiple women - let her know and see if she's down If you want certain things done in the bedroom - let her know now ETC ETC I've seen so many situations of guys either never asking to do the things they want Or waiting way too late when both parties have already invested a lot And it never results in anything good Before you sink all your time into that relationship Communicate what you want Otherwise how are you supposed to get it ? And if she's not down when youre well into the relationship Now you're in no man's land Worst place to be

Be EXTREMELY suspicious of folks giving dating advice IMO it is the hardest skill to master The amount of time that must be spent meeting various different women learning how to connect and seduce with each archetype The constant failures and endless nights out Troubleshooting EVERY step of the entire process.... Almost no one has the willpower to put in the amount of hours required to get very good at it Most men have 1) work 2) hobbies 3) social lives There isn't physically enough time for them to master it For me I knew from a very young age that having a rock star dating life was the most important thing to me So everything I did in my life was centered around figuring out the mystery of male female dynamics I have worked at it like a full time job since college So i can report to you It is beyond grueling The blood sweat and tears and suffering required Truly an insane mountain to climb With everything I went thru I can confidently tell you that there are WAYYYY too many people posing as experts Given everything it took to get to where I am now

When a girl texts you asking about your day or how you're doing Either 1) Respond with something fun and flirty "it's been busy and productive. Would be better with you here distracting me tho" 2) respond with something that's a display of high value activity like lifting weights, working on a business, or some cool hobby "Just been slammed working on my business. Hbu?" That way it keeps the conversation full of good vibes and reminds her that you're a cool guy with things going on in his life Definitely do not respond with anything like what most guys would do : "oh just chillen" That is almost a guaranteed no response

What exactly do I mean when I say screening? As a high value man who has a lot going on in life you dont have time to waste on energy draining women We aren't looking for "easy" girls necessarily Altho there's nothing wrong with that... Guys seem to think "modern women" are all giving up the goods and I promise you that's not the case lol Even the sluttiest of slutty girls reject and are disgusted by most guys Anyways... What were are looking for when screening specifically is this Girls who are open and receptive to a fun, flirty, and cooperative dynamic So the girl's we are screening OUT of our pipeline are the jaded/angry/born again virgin types These are the girls who are cynical about dating from poor past experiences And now create an adversarial frame that makes it nearly impossible to seduce her I know this may seem like common sense But you'd be surprised at how slick these jaded types can be Look for signs of rigidity and her trying to lay down the law early in the interaction Those are the more subtle clues And instead pursue the ones who have playful go with the flow energy Youll be a lot happier

Screening is the highest ROI skill in dating The reason pick up artists never talked about this Is because they are trying to overcompensate from heartbreak in the past So they have to try to make things work with any and every girl But trust me when I say this is the greatest path to frustration The arrogance to think that one can do some dancing monkey act and wave a magic wand And convince a girl to do something different than what her internal frames and dating preferences want Sure sometimes it can be that she's just putting on a front But it certainly isnt a high probability move to try to pursue a woman who has made it clear she's after something else Screen for girls who are giving you real chemistry and compliance And run your charm on them

Stop trying to hide interest and run covert game I had a huge problem with this Always trying to act too cool for school and uninterested ...and then wonder why girls dropped off so fast They're not as cocky as the internet makes them out to be If you dont act interested they will take it at face value and move on Express interest in a non needy way Be unashamed about your desires and your lust She knows you have them so hiding only makes you seem weak or disinterested

If you have a more of a handle on texting... You can implement some sensual, fun, flirty texting to screen for cool, open minded, fun girls Your online pics can do a lot of the screening there too But if you combine sexy pics + fun flirty texting You'll have the girl in fun playful mood And the chemistry will be out of this world once the date happens My friends and clients notice that the girls are a lot more bubbly, feminine and receptive to their flirting and touch That doesn't mean you CANT have that happen if you do logistics only But there is a clear improvement in the chemistry if you can flirt and vibe a bit from an online dating lead For cold approach logistics only every time The chemistry gets established from the initial in person interaction from the approach

If you're struggling with texting Stop trying to be so witty and creative Error on the side of being boring guy Because if you're boring it's less active to wreck the interaction if she likes your look Than if you go to the other extreme where she will just see you as a clown Just make sure you're not the boring endless clueless texting guy Get straight to the meetup and schedule the logistics

@supertronic3 Yep this is why I put my life’s work into building a Dating life that is seamless and very efficient

@KyleMastery Man, it is so hard to code-switch from being a successful businessman to being good/connecting with women on dates To me, relationships feel like work, while work (making money) feels like pleasure

The reason you're frustrated with dating as a high achieving, high value man All your blood, sweat, and tears building your career You were told would yield you submissive, beautiful women without any extra work This couldn't be further from the truth Dating is still an entirely different skillset to learn Yes your value helps in that process But it won't carry the day by itself

Dont overthink your interactions with women Literally just be a cool, normal guy who makes moves Yes it's a bit of an oversimplification But so many guys are confused You can't go wrong following this high level strategy

You want girls who are subtly sensual not overtly sexual Every time I've encountered the latter It's either way too mechanical or they just ended up being a tease The best interactions occur when things flow naturally No agendas either way

@aruvinchan @AcctPogo @Sir_cassanova1 I’ll tell you what though when you do run into these types of women it is absolutely wonderful Volume volume volume😁

@AcctPogo @Sir_cassanova1 Exactly, small enough to be negligible. Definitely not something you should go in expecting.

You can't expect genuine desire from a 8, 9, or 10. Genuine desire, by definition, only exists if she's dating up LOOKS-WISE. (Your money is no good here, because "genuine" and "money" don't belong in the same sentence.) At that level of looks (8 and above), there's nobody who's above her -- at best, you're just lateral or equal to her. Which means that these hotties are dead-inside and already resigned to just selling themselves to the highest bidder. They're NOT capable of having genuine desire for anyone, they don't care who the fuck you are. You can be Elon Musk, Mark Zuckerberg, Timothee Chalamet, Cristiano Ronaldo, Tom Brady, Kaka, etc. It doesn't matter who the fuck you are. All of them are in business; none of them are in it for the love of the game. It's not a coincidence that genuine desire only exists among the 4-7s. And that necessitates that you're still at least 1-2 points above her on the looks scale. If you're her looksmatch, or worse below her looksmatch, you're simping for sure. And she will tolerate you at best and resent you at worst. If you're still arguing with me that "genuine desire" is gay and optional, I'll leave you with a couple of screenshots from my last newsletter on genuine desire:

If a girl approaches you Man it is ON ON Switch to logistics planning and set something up to get together with her immediately You will have a short window to do this

When a girl is back at your place for the first time she will likely be nervous Focus your efforts on comfort building Cant get in a sensual mood when nervous Help her get to that comfortable state and she will cuddle up to you

Its ok to be irritated with shortcomings in dating But use it as fuel to get better Don't cross into hate Trust me I'm speaking from experience I never got to hate but I definitely got very frustrated and then one day it all clicked What the hell was the point of this if it's bringing me pain? We're supposed to be doing this because we enjoy it So yes always look to improve and become a better man and a better seducer But make sure you simultaneously ensure that you're having fun Enjoy the process That's where the fun lies

Running volume solves some of the biggest pain points in dating Your neediness drops to near 0 and you have the highest chance of meeting your ideal women You can never have too many leads in the funnel Not dehumanizing the process but just speaking on the reality Most of the time you and the girl aren't going to fully vibe The more you meet though the greater chance of finding that unicorn So ABMW Always be meeting women 😎

Avoid neediness at ALL COST It's one of the most unattractive traits you can have It will repel people in your social, business, and dating life Be the bringer of value, warmth, and good feelings Abundance mindset > You will be rewarded greatly for it