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I just realised I haven’t formally announced that I’m a dog mom now, so yeah….. I’m a mother, my baby’s name are Seven, Pluto, Akilapa aka Sev boy aka OluwaSevboy. He’s a rescue, warms and heart and works my nerves every day but I wouldn’t have it any other way. 💕

Unlocked my DMs for this. No one can say i didn’t do anything for my people.

Calling all Nigerian international students who have recently graduated and entered the UK job market. 📣📣📣. Get in here real quick! #Japariansuk

Calling all Nigerian international students in the UK 📣📣📣. #Japariansuk

This woman sold me bedsheets once and hasn’t let me rest since then. Every five minutes “happy new month ma”. Happy new month to you too, how many times does someone need to buy bedsheets 😂

Manipulators can be any age, or gender. Sometimes we get caught up guiding against manipulation from men, we don’t realise the girls we call friends are doing the exact same thing.

I should probably fight more, see what it’s like.

Yoooo!!! Because why am i here

It’s funny when people think they have more power than they do. Whole time you’re looking at them like

Name names or keep it on the playground. Bringing Sunday energy into Monday.

Her masculinity is wounded, feeding into a chronic inability to honestly self reflect or take responsibility for her actions. Anyway, the teacher who taught her nonsense has left the school. She will have to write her final exams.

Nasty work. Cheeky little so and so. Energy vampire, relational trauma on legs is how i would describe her. I don't expect much from men, but when women exhibit this toxic, hyper-masculine, shapeshifting, transactional type of behaviour, it shakes me to my core.

Been thinking about how to address this for a minute. I didn't want to talk about it from a fuck this bitch angle cos like...she's a younger to me. Today however, i'm luteal af, got time, got energy, so yeah. Here goes.

Oh. I’m back!

Now i know more about myself, i know how to be more protective of my energy as a neurodivergent person. I will never let anyone walk into my house and insult me as a “joke” ever again. I should’ve known she was a weirdo when she offered to help me drag someone anonymously on here

I was the one defending her, when other girls were here calling her all sorts of names. I was there in the replies telling them to back tf off. I quickly learnt why her name was always in twitter passa. Never again.

Thank you for your service

I’m going to go stand in the rain.

That’s not the answer auntie. It’s not about what women share or don’t share it’s about men leaving women alone to live their full lives in safety. “You’re going to stop doing this or that” until you stop doing anything.