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Topics here: Patriarchy, masculinity, femininity
Katılım Aralık 2022
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A man’s duty is to lead his wife.
To make rational, long-term decisions.
To set the moral, spiritual & political standards.
To teach her what matters to you and what you need.
To give her a clear role, tasks and responsibilities.
To establish rules for her behavior, appearance, speech & social life.
To protect her, including from her own weaknesses and reckless desires.
To enforce consequences when needed.
But it’s also important that you set an example of reliability, responsibility, motivation, diligence, and discipline. Act like a man and make sure she shows you the respect and obedience she’s obligated to give—with conviction and of her own free will.
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Anyone who tolerates his wife’s bad and disrespectful behavior will not reap anything better or find peace; no, she will behave even worse. The key to peace lies in not accepting her bad behavior in the slightest, but rather correcting her immediately and showing her the boundaries. Women do not understand the long-term damage their behavior causes, nor can they control it on their own without a man's strict guidance; they need to feel immediate consequences in order to understand it and be able to stop it.
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@Jen80092294 A man must first make decisions for the good of his marriage and family. To do that, he needs to understand how they truly function and what’s best for them. Understanding a woman’s way of thinking is secondary. Family well-being comes first.
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I do appreciate your posts but as I read it, this verse came to mind:
l Peter 3:7 “Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”
"According to knowledge" means gaining insight into a wife’s emotional, spiritual, and physical needs
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@Ggsvwa5gg Not only must she learn that obedience is more important than her own feelings, but she must also learn to adopt her husband's views, values, and wishes.
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Just because you disagree with your husband, it’s not an excuse to disobey them.
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A wife must obey her husband’s orders, even if she neither understands nor likes them. She must carry them out without hesitation, without expressing her opinion or objecting. This is based on trust, but also on her acceptance of her duties and her subordinate position.
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@Jen80092294 If something isn't clear to her, she should, of course, ask him how he wants it done. After all, she is supposed to carry out his wishes, not act on her own and perhaps misinterpret his words. She needs clarity.
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@Lead_Protect How is a woman to carry out an order she doesn't understand? 🤔
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@usuallypregnant The husband bears responsibility for the marriage and for the desired development of his wife. He may and indeed must—forbid anything that is harmful.
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@Lead_Protect So what do you think is the most comfortable position to breastfeed a newborn?
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@polaris6262 I've learned a lot. That's why I'm advocating for the old, much better version.
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@Lead_Protect Still stuck in the 19th century? Try stepping out in today’s world. You might learn a few things.
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Where I live there is a problem with parents allowing their very young girls (11-14) to go out wearing next to nothing, thongs on display in tiny skirts, shorts with buttons hanging out & the zip/ buttons folded to reveal their lower stomach area right down to the pubic bone, and their chests barely covered. These are often single mother households but I've seen fathers walking with their daughters dressed this way too, with seemingly no concern their daughters are being dangled like meat on a hook for predators & degenerates. These girls received the message that their worth is their physical appearance and their sexuality & hag nothing installed in them to counter it.
As such I believe for our society to heal that our girls need not only teaching, guidance and boundaries but a renewal of the JOY that comes from a man, ideally the father, building up their understanding, self worth and self love from a young age.
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