Liberactor
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Liberactor
@Liberaddiction
There’s a more joyful and fulfilled life on the other side of Porn addiction. I am on a journey to help as many people as I can cross over there.
Nigeria Katılım Nisan 2024
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@MilanKore But whats the reason you think is why she didn't answer the door?
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Last year during Salah, my Muslim neighbour brought me jollof rice and wine. I appreciated it and thanked her warmly.
Fast forward to Christmas, I decided to return the kindness. I cooked rice, bought wine and juice, then went to her house.
I could hear her and her kids inside, so I knocked… no answer. The door even had a small hole where you could peep and see who was outside. I went back to my apartment.
After about 15 minutes, I went again and knocked. Still no answer. I waited another 15 minutes, knocked again, and still nobody opened the door even though I could hear voices inside.
That moment really stayed with me.
Now another Salah is here.. and honestly, I don't know how to react if she brings food again.
What would you do if you were in my situation?
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Do you mind me telling you this?
Two people loving each other equally is a myth.
And if you enjoy seeing lovers melt or become soft for you, be the nonchalant one in the relationship.
If you are not nonchalant, you better develop a tolerance for it, because you are not escaping nonchalance in relationships or marriage. A relationship can never sustain two equally “chalant” people. It is either you or your partner who will be the nonchalant one.
And the irony is that one of the drivers, and sustainers, of attraction is nonchalance, and the tolerance for it.
Because, as I like to think, in a relationship between two people who are attracted to and desire each other, there exists a quiet obligation to keep the thirst alive, not fully satisfied. To preserve that attraction.
Satisfaction precedes undervaluation.
And nonchalance is one of the means through which that obligation is fulfilled.
Also, Between two people in love, there exists a mutual sense of needing each other. And they do. But the “needing,” and the capacity to meet that need, exist variably in each partner. Therefore, one person will inevitably need more, while the other meets that need less.
What works then is, your nonchalant partner be not maliciously so, but just unable to match your own "chalance" - and that you possess a fair tolerance for a fair degree of nonchalance.
“Fair,” as no matter what, a certain degree of nonchalance keeps attraction alive, thus necessary. The thirst must remain alive, not fully satisfied. And nonchalance - or unequal “chalance” - helps ensure that.
ZAMANI@Zamanii_0
Look at what this woman’s boyfriend used to reply to her long “please forgive me” epistle 😭😂
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@globalconfy Spending time with God's is a must. It must be seen and treated as a DEVOTION.
The psalmist said it is he who 'dwells', not he who comes and goes.
Dwelling means you set out a time for study and prayer and stay consistent with it.
Breakthrough will meet you there.
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One mistake I used to make when I was struggling with sexual addiction was this:
I’d pray to God and cry my heart out after relapsing, but that would probably be the last time I prayed or read the Bible before I fell again.
I took the “drop it all at Jesus’ feet” advice too passively.
I was not willing to devote time to prayer and studying the Word.
I was not willing to stop watching R18 movies.
I was not willing to block off the triggers.
Deep down, I still felt confident in my own strength.
I felt like I was above addiction.
Little did I know I was playing directly into its hands.
For a long time, I wondered where I was going wrong until the Holy Spirit opened my eyes to see that this was warfare.
And nobody goes into battle unequipped.
So I started equipping myself before the urges and temptations came.
I became intentional about prayer.
Intentional about the Word.
Intentional about guarding my eyes and mind.
And somewhere in that process, I genuinely fell in love with spending time with God.
So when the devil eventually came, he didn’t meet me unprepared.
You must be willing to flee from every appearance of evil.
Otherwise, the addiction will continue to feel like an endless cycle.
~ex fornicator now saved
confidence.

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@Prezain_LJ Omo, I realize that there are things I'm now too old for. One of them is trying to get a girl to be more involved in convos.
If it didn't dey it didn't dey.
I just move on.
Abundance full everywhere
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When I meet a new woman, I usually give it one week for everything to click. If it doesn’t seem like it’s heading in that direction, I walk away. From the very first time I meet you, I either give you my number and expect you to text me, or I tell you clearly that if you know you won’t be texting with enthusiasm, then decide right there not to give me your number.
I’ve outgrown double texting a woman or trying to force conversations with someone who is clearly giving me the cold shoulder. I really don’t care how attractive you are, the moment you show signs of a lack of interest, I’ll delete your number immediately.
Oluwafunmilayo🌸@funksbabyy
There’s a New breed of Nigerian men that don’t stress if you’re not giving the vibe they want. Small shakara dem don move asap😂
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@globalconfy Every ones path to freedom is peculiar to them.
What works for the goose will not work for the gander
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Whoever said — or is saying — that going on very long dry fasts can conquer sexual addiction is not telling the truth.
After the fasting, what next?
For many people, it’s relapse.
Yes, fasting is good. But we also need to tell people the truth:
deliverance and healing are found in God, and the journey is often gradual.
Tell them to fast, yes.
But also tell them to block their triggers.
Tell them to stay devoted to daily prayer and devotion.
Tell them to stop feeding the addiction in secret.
And if they fall again, tell them not to drown in shame, but to hold on to the grace of God and keep fighting.
The issue of sexual addiction is sensitive and should not be handled carelessly.
Don’t just direct people to any random church worker.
Don’t just pray once and declare “it is over.”
Some people genuinely need guidance.
They need accountability.
They need wise counseling.
They need compassion.
And they need people who understand that healing is often a process, not a one-night event.
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@ojfancyTv @Olami_deeEbony You had to fly in with propaganda. You leave story begin make fabrications.
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That guy wasn’t genuine, if he could engage another girl so quick it means he had been cheating since their talking stage, he only did those things for her cause he had enough money to go round not cause he actually cared, she didn’t mention where he did something for her that money couldn’t buy. But asides that I feel helping him with his dress sense was something she could have equally contributed to his life, and the excuse of not marrying someone cause of their height is now becoming extinct. Ladies we need to do better!
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There’s this guy that likes my cousin. Bro has been chasing her for over a year now, and I’m not even exaggerating when I say the guy is serious serious.
He sends her lunch at work every day. He even paid her rent earlier this year. At some point, we all started begging her to just give him a chance because from everything we can see, the guy genuinely likes her.
But my cousin refused.
Her reason was that she’s a bit taller than him and, according to her, he doesn’t know how to dress well.
Yesterday was her birthday, and she was lowkey expecting him to shut down Lagos for her.
Omo, uncle posted engagement pictures on his status. He proposed to someone else 😭
Now my cousin has been crying since morning, saying she’s starting to develop feelings for him and that he should have tried harder.
Women, our wahala is too much. 😂
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