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Author, Love others & animals as you love yourself.👼🏻are real. My posts are©️protected. Be kind to all animals I’m a REALIST! INFJ-A 🚫DMs!
In the clouds Katılım Kasım 2015
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One of the cruelest and most insidious layers of narcissistic abuse is the weaponization of your trauma response as proof of your “instability,” rather than as evidence of what was done to you.
When you experience severe trauma from prolonged psychological or narcissistic abuse—when it leads to CPTSD, a mental collapse, a nervous breakdown, or even hospitalization—your abusers will use that.
They will try to freeze you in that state, forever.
They will point to your trauma response and say, “See? That’s who they are.”
Not what happened to you—but you. As if the very injuries they inflicted prove you were broken all along.
They won’t offer compassion or understanding. They won’t take responsibility.
Instead, they’ll exploit it as a reason to discredit anything you say from now on.
To them, your pain is useful. Your collapse is ammunition to use against you.
And that’s what makes recovery so hard. Because not only do we have to heal from the abuse—we have to push back against the story they’re still trying to write about us.
They want to make your trauma your identity, so they can walk away clean.
But you are not their story.
You are not your trauma.
Your trauma defines what they did to you, and that’s what they’re terrified of people figuring out.
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Oversharing as a trauma response is very common among survivors of narcissistic abuse — especially for those who were the scapegoat or subject to constant emotional invalidation, gaslighting, or character assassination. This is a trauma-born strategy for self-protection, especially when you've been falsely labeled as “the bad one,” or “the manipulator.” Often stemming from an internalized belief that you're inherently suspect or guilty. Transparency became a form of armor: -"If I’m fully open, no one can accuse me of secret motives." -“If I tell them everything, I won’t be misunderstood." -“If I explain myself thoroughly, I won’t be scapegoated again." The intent is noble — you wanted honesty, clarity, fairness. But the tragic part? Narcissistic people weaponize transparency. They: -Use your openness to control or take advantage of you -Pretend you’re “confessing” to wrongdoing -Store your truths and vulnerabilities to later shame or punish you So your transparency, instead of protecting you, often reinforces the abuse. 🧵
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@Mr_Husky1 I’m with you! You don’t accidentally have an affair!
My fiancé says, very crudely(it’s the truth) “when it slapped out she put it back in repeatedly! Multiple time w/many men! She likes snatch chat for her hookups!”
I never forgive the skank! Some things you have 2give it 2
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My wife had a months-long affair with someone from work. I found out by accident, not through honesty.
Yesterday I decided not to forgive her. I asked for a divorce without negotiation. Her family says I should try, that “we all make mistakes.”
What they don't say is that some mistakes are repeated for months with full awareness.
I'm not going to rebuild something that was broken by long-standing decisions. Love also has dignity.
Am I radical for leaving, or am I the only one who understands that not everything can be forgiven?
I prefer the pain of starting over to the constant doubt of staying.
Cc - @/AngelporrasXx
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@NarcissistBox Yes, Karma will dish up are your evil. The truth is coming with a vengeance! My name is KARMA! Here we go bitch …..!!
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@Ryan_Daigler That’s what my POs sister has done to me my entire life! But to ALL THE LOSERS that believed & paricipated (A HUGE FU to you ALL)! bc I’m going to deal the whores ass a dose of major KARMA! Parents just died. So it’s over 4her ugly ass! I will never deal with/it in my life EVER!
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As soon as the covert narcissist suspects someone can see them for who they really are, that person will be viewed as the “bad guy“ and a smear campaign against them will begin. The narcissist wants everyone else to feel as threatened by this individual as much as the narcissist feels. They will be labeled “crazy”, dishonest, abusive; anything negative the narcissist thinks they can paint them out to be.
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@Ryan_Daigler This is very true! I am leaving since my parents just died. I am getting married. But I will completely destroy this evil, narcissistic pedo. I am going 4jugular 4all the trama& evil 4all this pig did& does! I won’t stop like she never stopped her EVIL 2me! &the sick💩2 our bros!
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@CatLover56577 Be slow, loving, patient. If in shelter needs2have time 2decompress. In this situation you are the one who needs to take time to adjust. Patented is the biggest part of all! I take in strays. Shelters, adoptions whatever they need. I don’t let them leave me bc no abuse18 cats.
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