Brettley Miller
608 posts

Brettley Miller
@LongIslandPlay
I am what I am. I'm into what I am into.
Long Island, NY Katılım Nisan 2014
363 Takip Edilen69 Takipçiler

@SaltyGoat17 who in the hell believes anything coming out of this Justice Dept... this is buffoonery at its best.
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@SaltyGoat17 oh.. i guess that makes you a tough guy ehh?
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@DouglasForsdick @SaltyGoat17 you are just an idiot if you have no respect for someone based on a personal decision that they made for themselves. you. are. an. idiot! Clear? !!
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@LongIslandPlay @SaltyGoat17 Yeah I got no respect for you or any of those mentioned.
Clear?
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@SaltyGoat17 Gas spiked under Biden because of the war in Ukraine. Remember the very same war that Trump said he'd end on day one of his presidency... Gas prices have spiked under Trump because he kept into war with Iran.
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@SaltyGoat17 Who the fuck said that we should make policy based on the pope's theology? The point in this whole mess that our idiotically thin skinned president stepped into is, grow a spine you ass. Popes have been speaking out against WAR forever. Stay out of his lane.
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First day shooting with @samuelhodecker back in 2022 — guy was a total pro, didn’t bitch about anything, and even dropped some killer ideas to spice up the scenes.
Since then? He’s been unstoppable. Worked with the biggest, hottest studios out there.
We’ve got 10+ exclusive BDSM scenes with him on the site. Go get your fix. 😈🔥 bondageman.us
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@SaltyGoat17 Gas prices spiked during the Biden administration because of the war in Ukraine... A war that Biden warned the world was about to happen but a war that he did not start. Trump started this needless war in Iran. UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE!
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@DouglasForsdick @SaltyGoat17 Of coarse I did... So did Trump and everyone in his cabinet and everyone in his family... And everyone at FoxNews I could go on and on
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@RomanVogue Roman.. you look amazing. Hope you have as good a time as you look, mate.
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@Sir_Garnet13 That was a gem. Powerful and thought provoking message. I read it 2X. Thank you kindly for taking the time to share your wisdom with me. I think for those of us who really take the time to absorb these words, our relationships will benefit and we might just grow. Good man. Sir.
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This is not intended to put anyone down, but somewhere along the way, the community has lost sight of or at least let the lines get crossed between D/s dynamics and D/s or Top/bottom play. There isn’t anything wrong with either, but it’s important to understand the distinction.
The community is currently flooded with "performative dominance” and “performative submission” Everywhere you look, the focus is on the aesthetic, the transaction, or the ego. We see an endless cycle of degradation, humiliation, and financial gain, but we are missing the most vital ingredient of a true power exchange: The capacity for genuine care and stewardship. Many who call themselves Dominants are frustrated, claiming they can’t find authentically devoted submissives. The truth? They aren’t vetting for them.
The lines have been blurred because we’ve stopped gatekeeping. We are confusing bottoms with submissives.
Bottoms are kink seekers. They are here for the rush, the impact, and the orgasm. They want to know what you can do to them.
Authentic Submissives are here for the "lead." They seek the psychological peace of structure and the growth that comes from your guidance. They want to know how they can serve the vision.
Now, I’m sure I’m not the only one to notice the countless profiles that all have the same feel, the same tone, and the same theme with regard to content and messaging. But what kind of person are they attracting? The reason many Dominants sound the same is that they are chasing compliance rather than devotion. And again, there is nothing wrong with that, but you need to understand you attract what you put out into the universe.
Please consider these points if you wish to break away from sheer compliance, or performative submission in hopes to gain authentically devoted submission.
- Many rely on "BDSM 101" phrases and generic rules. (Or they just simply copy a peer) An authentically devoted submissive isn't looking for a drill sergeant or a cookie cutter, they are looking for a leader who sees them specifically, and can help them grow in a dynamic.
- Often, the community focuses on what the Dominant gets (service, ego strokes, and power). A devoted submissive is looking for what the Dominant provides (stewardship, growth, and direction).
- Authentic devotion is built on trust, which requires a high level of emotional intelligence. Many Dominants skip the "building" phase and jump straight to the "demanding" phase.
If you don't vet for character and the "why" behind the submission, you aren't building a dynamic, you’re just providing a service. (And that’s ok, so long as everyone understands the difference and the expectations are mutually understood)
To attract a truly devoted heart, you must move beyond being a service provider for kinks. A standout Dominant is a shepherd, not a drill sergeant. Some of these factors are what I personally use to make the distinction between performative dominance, and dynamic based dominance.
-Radical Intentionality: Every rule must have a purpose. If your leadership doesn't make your submissive a better version of themselves, you aren't leading—you’re just bossing someone around.
-EQ (emotional intelligence) over Ego: True power is calm. It’s the ability to read your submissive’s vulnerabilities and handle them with care. Showing concern isn't "breaking character"—it’s the foundation of the trust required for total surrender.
-Consistency: Devotion is a response to safety. Be the rock. Be the person whose word is absolute and whose presence is grounding.
If you treat submission as a commodity or a tool for your own ego, you will only ever attract tourists. If you want a submissive who is irreplaceable, you must become a leader who is irreplaceable. To do this, you must also be authentic.
Stop looking for compliance and start inspiring devotion. True dominance is responsibility not a trophy.
-Sir Garnet
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@DouglasForsdick @SaltyGoat17 wait so, let me get this straight... you have NO RESPECT for anyone who made a decision foir rhemselves that was different than the decision you made for yourself. You are an idiot!
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@SaltyGoat17 Only side effect is I have no respect for anyone that got the jab. zero.
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@Broken_Rebel_ @JamesBondageSX and a little about the humiliation too... ;)
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@SaltyGoat17 Boebert is an idiot. No one is paying 37% if their income to the IRS. I mean she is truly an idiot.
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@SaltyGoat17 Sort of a trick question. Tens of thousands, maybe hundreds of thousands really regretted it....but they can't tweet right now because they're dead
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@HomnickMark @SaltyGoat17 you mean like Donald Trump and every member of his administration! they were all FIRST IN LINE to get vaccinated!
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@SaltyGoat17 Sadly, I still see those fool enough to take an experimental drug dying tragically.
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@TreeHornTaped you. in the dress. diapered underneath it. pretty matching powder blue duct tape sealing a pair of panties in your mouth. her behind you holding your skirt up while I piss inside the back of your nappie.
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