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Lucifer Bob 🐀

@LuciferBob

Proud Cat Dad | Cosplayer | Disneybounder | Slinger of labels and ink. Just a Hakuna Matata kind of guy

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Lucifer Bob 🐀@LuciferBob·
@Chizitere_xyz I tried explaining that to my ex fiancee. For context, I had caught her cheating on me with multiple individuals she met at Neotropolis and I decided to take her back after she had promised to fix things. She was taking relationship advice from people that were being toxic about
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Asanwa.sol@Chizitere_xyz·
I read a story one time that completely changed my perspective on what it actually means for a woman to protect her relationship. It wasn’t about checking his phone or fighting off other women; it was about protecting her relationship from the toxic advice of her own inner circle. The story was about a woman who had been with her partner for a few years. They had a healthy, peaceful, and solid relationship. But the woman had a close female friend, someone who was perpetually single and constantly unhappy with her own dating life, who slowly started dropping little seeds of poison into the mix. It was never outright hostility. It was that sneaky, subtle manipulation masked as "just looking out for you" and "knowing your worth." It was the little comments. "Are you really staying in to cook for him again? You're acting like a married woman while still a girlfriend's" or "I'm just saying, if he really wanted to, he would have taken you to Dubai for your birthday like Sarah’s man did." It was a slow, calculated drip of negativity designed to make the woman feel like her peaceful relationship was actually a cage of mediocrity, purely because the friend was miserable and wanted a partner in her misery. One weekend, they were all out at a brunch. The boyfriend stepped away to take a phone call, and the friend finally got a little too comfortable. She leaned over, rolled her eyes, and said, "I seriously don't know how you deal with him being so incredibly average. You are way too pretty to be with a guy who isn't fully funding your entire lifestyle. You're settling." The author of the post said the girlfriend didn't laugh or gently change the subject to avoid making it awkward. She looked her friend dead in the eye and said, "The man you are talking about is my peace, my biggest supporter, and my family. He treats me with absolute respect, and we are building a life together. The only reason you think I'm 'settling' is because your entire concept of love is transactional, which is exactly why you're constantly exhausted and alone. You will never disrespect my man in front of me again. If you have a problem with him, we can end this friendship right now." The friend was completely stunned. She immediately tried to backpedal, saying it was just a joke and she was "just being a girl's girl," but the damage was done. The girlfriend paid her half of the tab, waited for her boyfriend to walk back inside, and they left. The most beautiful part of the story? The girlfriend never even told her man what happened at the table. She didn't run to him to brag about defending his honor to get points. She just quietly, permanently cut the friend off. He only found out months later when a mutual friend mentioned how fiercely she had defended his name. It hits so hard because it highlights a brutal truth: A massive percentage of good relationships don't fail because of what happens inside the house; they fail because they are poisoned by the people outside of it. Misery loves company, and deeply unhappy friends will actively try to sabotage your peace under the guise of "empowerment."
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unpopular relationships opinions that would get you in this position???

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Lucifer Bob 🐀@LuciferBob·
@seattleiminyou My son Boötes has been the reason for me to get out of bed on some of my toughest mental health days. I hope he knows how much I truly love him
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Avelia🦢@LittleSelfArt·
hug me like the world could wait 🤍
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Avelia🦢@LittleSelfArt·
maybe fairytales are just moments that feel like this ✨
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Lucifer Bob 🐀@LuciferBob·
Left to right: Zaheer, P'Li, Ghazan, and Ming-Hua of the Red Lotus, anarchist organization in The Last Airbender: Legend of Korra. Cosplay from WonderCon 2016 😁
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🍉 Hanari (Rex's Wife)@Hanari502·
Wow who knew that being insane about clones would net me like 200 followers, holy hell.
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Beau Ramos@TheBeauRamos·
Happy Birthday Mom. Miss you every single day.
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🍉 Hanari (Rex's Wife)@Hanari502·
She refuses to sleep on anything other than my clothes so unfortunately I must leave dirty clothes on my bed or she becomes disgruntled
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Asanwa.sol
Asanwa.sol@Chizitere_xyz·
People have exactly a two-week limit on their sympathy. When you first break down, everyone is supportive. But if your depression lasts longer than a fortnight, they get incredibly annoyed. ​You are not allowed to have long-term struggles. Society expects you to have a quick, cinematic breakdown, cry it out over the weekend, and bounce back to being productive by Monday. ​The exact second they realize your depression isn't just a temporary mood swing but a constant struggle, the "take all the time you need" energy completely vanishes. ​They stop checking in and start treating your mental state like a deliberate character flaw. You aren't struggling anymore; you are just "not trying hard enough" or "choosing to be miserable."
Asanwa.sol@Chizitere_xyz

unpopular opinion about mental health that will put you in this position??

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Lucifer Bob 🐀@LuciferBob·
@megannn_lynne Boötes is the reason I get out of bed most days when the world feels incredibly heavy. I hope he knows how often he has saved me
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Meg@megannn_lynne·
everything can be so bad & you can feel so hopeless but you cannot give up if your little kitty cat comes over & curls up on your chest. giving up is illegal, in that case
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Lucifer Bob 🐀@LuciferBob·
Earlier this week I took my chunky monkey to the vet He got tested once more for FeLV as he had tested positive back in October *Professor Farnsworth voice* Good news everyone!!! He tested negative and got a kitty gogurt and many hugs and kisses 💕
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