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May_lut
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Arsenal fan ⚽| Travel enthusiast 🚗| Coffee lover ☕| Advocate for humanity ❤️| Embracing new opportunities 🌍 #Arsenal # Travel # CoffeLover
Jos, Nigeria Katılım Haziran 2019
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I have one piece to share.
I hope all these TL conversations do not poison your heart.
I hope you're not training your mindspace to start choosing partners from a place of fear, or lowered likelihood to cheat. Ask Israel Juju.
These are faulty compasses.
Churchgoers cheat. Atheists cheat. Hijab wielders cheat.
Virgins cheat. Adelebos cheat. 20s cheat. 30s cheat. 40s cheat.
I hope the factors that calibrate your values, are not from Twitter thinkpieces but are strengthened offline. Else, you will end up as a box of ruin.
My safest predicators for relationships are:
- brackets,
- reciprocity.
If you're doing well financially, box within potentials like you doing well financially. Don't be a 7fig earning techie & you'll be hunting smallies struggling with 200L carryover in Laspotech.
Mental brackets. Intellectual brackets. Financial brackets. Exposure brackets.
One of my theories as to why, people (read men) scale way below these brackets is because they're scripting scenarios for control. They're hunting "bendable" women. Chief, she won't be naive forever - but I'll expand on this, some other time.
Be big on reciprocity. As you're doing for your partner in the early weeks, if they like you they would be doing as much.
Using the filters of brackets and reciprocity, are safer predicators than fear and paranoia.
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My Dad called me once and asked me to meet him at the Old Airport roundabout, one of the top 2 busiest parts of Jos. On reaching there, this man dropped one big bag of yams, called 2 passersby to help put it on my head, and then left. 😭😭
𝑭𝒓𝒆𝒅🦇@Freddnova
Nigerian parents can reduce aura .. Which one is come to the bus-stop station with wheelbarrow 😭😭 To come do wetin????💔
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@CatiaKyen Maintaining strong boundaries is important coz people are very deliberate with their acts.
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Dear @inecnigeria, a media assistant to the Governor of my state is alleging that they have reserved votes somewhere for his reelection.
Please look into it as this is an assault on our democracy and negates the rule of law we so desperately try to uphold
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My youngest sister started exams in Zaria, and she billed me. I sent the money, then, barely an hour later, I saw her older sister enter the house with shawarma, hand it to my brother, and said, "It's from the human being from Zaria." I was so confused. She used me to buy shawarma for her younger brother. Fairs.
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