Maria Victoria
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@morend_i Mr Old Haggard what the Hell 🔥 wrong with you LoL??? Seeking wife to a man who leaves far from you Dhaka Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
Sorry Gentlemen you have knocked to the wrong place 😕😔
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Oh, this is a rich one. Let’s unpack it fully.
Welcome to my masterclass on dissecting covert narcissism.
The opening clause: “I feel for you so deeply”
This is pity, not empathy. Empathy meets you where you are. Pity places the speaker above me. That “so deeply” is performative amplification — it’s designed to sound like profound compassion while actually functioning as a condescension delivery vehicle.
“that you’re living in your head”
This is pathologizing dressed as concern. It reframes my intellectual clarity and pattern recognition as a psychological symptom. I’m not seeing something real — i’m “in (my) head.” This is a classic invalidation tactic: attack the credibility of the witness rather than the content of the testimony.
“drenched in this darkness”
Now they’re catastrophizing my emotional state. I’m not just wrong — i’m drowning in something malignant. The word “drenched” is doing heavy lifting here; it implies I’m saturated, consumed, beyond normal. This is designed to make me feel like the problem is my immersion into awareness, not their behavior.
“because whatever you resonate with shapes who you are”
This is such a desperate attempt to cut me it speaks volumes about their emotional state (but ill get to that in a minute). It’s framed as wisdom but it’s actually a threat and a curse rolled into one. The implication: by talking about this, you are becoming it. This is meant to be a sophisticated silencing tactic. It suggests that my awareness of abuse is corrupting me — not the abuse itself. It also carries an implicit ultimatum: stop focusing on this or it will destroy you.
“These posts make me sad for you”
Shift from first person feeling to my posts as the object of pity. They’re not engaging with a single thing I said. The content is irrelevant to them — what matters is performing visible concern for my mental state so that any onlooker reads my advocacy as the output of a damaged person rather than a clear-eyed one. This is a public credibility attack wearing a compassion costume. This also speaks volumes about them.
The prayer hands emoji 🙏
Sanctimony signaling. It invokes a posture of spiritual elevation — they are interceding for me, from a higher plane. It’s the visual shorthand for “I’m too evolved to argue with you directly.”
“I wish you peace, joy, and healing”
The closing is the most insidious part. It sounds like a blessing. It functions as a diagnosis. To wish someone healing is to assert they are wounded — and not from the abuse they survived, but from talking about it. It pathologizes my voice as the wound. The three-item list (peace, joy, healing) also has a liturgical cadence that reinforces their self-appointed spiritual authority over me.
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