Macken
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Macken
@MackenMurphy
Oxford grad studying mating. "Macken Murphy is able to condense vast chunks of information into engaging and digestible episodes." — The New York Times







We assume that cultural modesty norms have sexualised breasts, however, in societies where exposed female breasts are the norm, they can still be regarded as sexy. Single study on a single group below. Maybe someone like @Evolving_Moloch knows more about this stuff.














People who cheat are generally more physically attracted to their affair partners—but see their primary partners as better parents—suggesting infidelity serves a dual-mating strategy. No evidence for the mate-switching hypothesis. New from the Evolution Lab. (1/13)

being with my husband feels similar to being alone. our relationship is v secure, established, collaborative. we've noticed a couple relevant dynamics here 1) spending time with *other people* can shake us into a more cheery mood during bad times 2) it feels more important to "look good" to people who don't know you as well 3) time with others is scheduled. time with spouse is default. usually this means we get a ton of quality time, but sometimes it means not enough, if we planned too much elsewhere see also: when poly, married primary partner could end up as the housework/childcare partner; secondary partner could become the fun sexy one you make effort for doesn't feel too hard to combat, but seems worth watching out for















