Unproblematic Gemini♊️🦋

I have an aunt that was a total baddie, total Free Love Boomer into her early 30s, got loads of abortions, then completed her PhD and settled down with a lawyer. Divorced him, another lawyer. Divorced him, third lawyer. Separated from him, tried to make it work for years, had an affair with a guy that owned a contracting firm, got a quick divorce and was at the altar two weeks after it was finalized. Same deal, it turned sour after a while, they both found Jesus, got church counseling, it didn't work out, started dating the tallest and wealthiest retired lawyer at her church, just married him last year. So she's on marriage number five, in her 60s, never had kids of her own, and has absolutely no issue whatsoever finding educated, wealthy, good looking men with all their hair interested in her. There is no wall. There never was a wall. Men want wives and female companionship. If you're an extroverted, nice, happy, and take reasonably good care of yourself, you can find love at any age.

I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy. I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode. my nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood and now I’m choosing peace and stability.

@ijanedoll Thank you and I’m sorry you went through that. It gets easier to carry with time.

big fan of sex after argument, sooo intimate if done right and not just a “fucking so you forget” but an “i’m so sorry my love, let me show you how much you mean to me”

Having to beg someone to do something with you and then seeing them do it with others willingly is a different kind of hurt.

"I will not lose the 2027 Presidential election. This election is between the Nigerian people and the government" - Peter Obi Video Credit : DW

I’m really rooting for Peter Obi. How can you not see he’s the better candidate amongst them all? How could we allow ethnic differences, tribalism and religious beliefs, rob us of a shot at a better life? How could we all want to fail ourselves a second time?

You attract abundance when you feel abundant

rape is literally the only crime where society spends more time digging into the victim’s past than the rapist’s behavior

“Thou preparest a table before me, in the presence of my enemies; thou anointest my head with oil, my cup runneth over.”

I am the people’s princess. Everyone I meet wants to care for me, both men and women. I attract love because I have chosen to only give out love. To the people I may have disappointed at some point, hope you forgive me, I’m sorry. I just learned to find myself again.

You begin to see the actual things you needed, I call them ‘the tools you will use in putting things in place for you’ and things in its natural occurrence, begins to fall in place.

If you can hold through the fear stage, the brain becomes clearer, during the fear stage the brain is foggy, too clouded because you’re scared of not knowing what to do, but if you hold past that stage, your brain becomes clearer and you begin to get clarity… -—

I’m going to make it. I know it, I believe in myself, I believe in my fears and still willing to do it scared. Do it scared, I’m scared but I’m doing it, do you know why? It is because I have come to the realization that the only way to the other side is through. Through the fear

I write the way that I write sometimes, because I can feel the development of my frontal lobe in real time.

My looks and higher awareness, are both my blessings and my curse for which I have accepted to carry gracefully through it all… It’s a gift, a gift with thorns but a beautiful one.

An older man said to me “I’m going to be very honest with you, it’s going to be hard for you to find your kind of man, because you’re very beautiful and he’ll never believe you’ll be just for him.” My heart yearns but I must suffer for it because of my looks…

i cannot get close to people neither romantically or platonically because then i feel possessive and unreasonably entitled towards their time and who they speak to

To anyone finding their fire again, may it come back steady, unshakable, and impossible to lose.

i am being punished for getting too attached