Madison Stargate 💙🎶🐾🛩

A lot of woman overgive, tolerate disrespect, and try to love a man into healing. Sometimes what looks like resentment is really just him taking advantage bc he know you won’t leave.

Imagine hurting the girl God sent to heal you. Enjoy that loss.

you realized how much disrespect you tolerated just because you wanted love.

This is going to offend a lot of narcissistic people. But it's time you start admitting that you mistreated people and acted out of line, instead of being delusional and acting like you were the victim. In reality, your actions put you in a position where you lost everything and everyone who genuinely cared for you. Then you go and find cheerleaders who support your foolishness and believe everything you say, instead of finding people who will be honest and tell you that you're wrong and need help. Healing doesn't come from attention. It comes from accountability. And that's exactly what narcissists run from.

Ain't no apology strong enough to fix betrayal. Once you crossed that line, that was a choice. Choices come w/ consequences. You knew what it would do and still did it anyway. That's what make it hit different. Once I see who you really are, that's locked in. Ain't no spinning the block, no second round, no redo. FOH

No one talks enough about the heavy regret you feel when you’ve been vulnerable with some one because you thought it was a safe place only to figure out it wasn’t

Narcissists really be like "I drained you, disrespected you, and manipulated you... but you walked away? Unforgivable......................

Ignoring your partner when they're hurting isn't space. It's abandonment. It teaches them they're alone, and that their emotions don't matter. Real space is saying “I need a minute to process so I can show up better for you.” Abandonment is going silent and letting them sit in their pain wondering if you even care. Love doesn’t vanish when things get hard. It leans in. When you shut down, you’re telling them their feelings are a burden, and that being vulnerable with you is unsafe. People don’t forget that lesson. They stop reaching out. They stop trusting you with the parts of them that hurt. And one day you’ll wonder why they feel distant, not realizing you taught them distance was the only safe option.

The saddest part about betrayal is realizing the person who destroyed your mental health still expects you to see them as a good person.

The cruelest form of cheating is making your partner feel paranoid, insecure, and crazy for correctly noticing what you were doing behind their back.

Dudes be like I need to make this extremely beautiful woman my gf so I can ignore her needs and not even be that nice to her

A lot of your problems come from not putting people in their place the first time they try you

No man ever thinks he is abusing women. They all think they are treating women exactly how they deserve.

People without empathy are dangerous. If you can see someone in pain and still add to it, that’s not just indifference- it’s cruelty.

It’s exhausting dealing with someone that treat accountability like it’s disrespect, every time you express yourself, they instantly get defensive instead of listening. You leave the conversation confused, unheard, and emotionally tired. That ain’t communication, that’s manipulation with extra steps.