The_Narc_Decoder

Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realise how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards the narcissist that harmed, misled, took advantage, and abused you!

Narcissists gaslight themselves into thinking they are good people. All the evil stuff they do to you and other people they convince themselves you deserve it! And that's how they can act so normal, getting on with there day to day emotionally non affected by the problems they have created.

@SeychellesZoo They become whoever they are dating! Always mirroring.

@NarcDecoder They adopt whichever personality suits them at that specific moment.

Never forget this: If you hadn't discovered the truth, they'd still be lying and cheating today.

Which means the relationship you thought you had never actually existed. You were grieving a version of them that was never real 😢

This is so deep, but true 😢

He doesn't think he's the issue because his mother continues to support him and enables his abuse rather than holding him accountable.

@Tsemach0923 Amem 🙏🏽 🫂 ❤️

@NarcDecoder Effected, but never destroyed. I have God to thank for that. 🙂‍↕️

Narcissists tell the story from the part where you reached your emotional breaking point; they never start the story from where they destroyed you spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.

@NorweigLatina @616thewatcher Behave!

@616thewatcher @NarcDecoder Far too complicated to do on this platform. Theres plenty of resources to help ya get your Ph.D. Anyone who survives a real narc deserves one.

A narcissist will rewrite the entire story to avoid one simple sentence: I was wrong. They would rather lose you than lose control.

Why are covert narcissists so dangerous? Because their words and true feelings often do not match. They may say everything is fine, claim to support you, and act like a trusted friend—while quietly holding resentment or contempt. The danger is that you let your guard down before you realize the relationship was never as safe or genuine as it appeared.

@JustJu27927 The emotional pain at that time literally reached the pits of my stomach 😪

@NarcDecoder true. It hurts more.

A cheating man is bad enough. But you know what's even worse? A man who acts like he's good, but in reality is a pathological liar, a calculated manipulator, and an expert at playing the victim role 💯

@NormalityAI Pride and Ego along with zero empathy for how their actions effect other people

@NarcDecoder Yes they do! Always they do!

@DiamonDie No I'm talking about Narcissists in particular. My own experience

@NarcDecoder Which would be obvious if you admitted that what you call "narcissism" is actually dissociation. Narcissism is an extremely common dissociative trauma response.

@WitnessSiloed True!

@NarcDecoder Polygraph works.