
October dump, but make it your small wins
Mayorles
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October dump, but make it your small wins



I no sabi explore food. just give me my basics 🙏 no, I don't want to eat octopus 😭

There is literally a reason why every religious book acknowledges Jesus. While Jesus only acknowledged Himself😂 THE BIGGEST✝️

This is arguably the best way to live as a man .

this is arguably one of the most dangerous ways to live as a man even if it looks strong on the surface. i started working in mining straight out of school, remote sites, long rotations and harsh conditions and out there, weakness gets exposed fast, you carry your own weight, you fix your own gear, you eat what you cook, no one babysits you underground... that environment trains you to rely on yourself or get crushed, literally. after a few years, that mindset followed me home. i paid my bills early, handled repairs, made my own food, kept my emotions locked up tight and independence became identity. if something broke, i fixed it. if something hurt, i buried it. i didn’t need anyone and i wore that like armor. but here’s the part nobody tells you: when you build a life where no one is needed, you also build one where no one fits. relationships started feeling inefficient, emotional conversations felt unnecessary, vulnerability felt like handing someone a pickaxe and hoping they wouldn’t swing. self sufficiency and independence is powerful, yes it makes you competent, steady and hard to shake but if your not careful as a man, it turns into emotional isolation disguised as strength... and unlearning that, learning to let someone stand beside you instead of always proving you can stand alone is harder than any shift underground.

His brother came to spend some days with him and he caught him unaware vibing to Asake’s song Joha while washing clothes 😂😂 See as the guy dey tear step like say e dey competition, I never see guy wey fit dance like this with so much energy and no leg work😳🔥



I have a big brother, anytime I go to the supermarket with his card, I don't check his balance, I just pick things based on what we need in the house. One day he asked, "What if my card declines?" "Egbon, e no fit decline" I said with confidence. He smiled and just went back to what he was doing. Later he told me how happy I made him feel with the response, so proud of himself to have worked hard to earn that comment, and said "It will never decline IJN name" My guy, can your siblings use your card like that too?