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@OSSYACHIEVAS It tells me dat smtimes gr8tnes is discovrd b4 d world catches on. U dnt wait 4 perfectn,U recognizd raw energy & blievd in it. Am an artist wit a sound & story of my own, jst bcomin d 1st me. Here’s my work if U get a momnt 2 listen. Would mean a lot: li.sten.to/larvaeep

A lot of people don’t know how my journey into artist management really started as CEO of Achievas Entertainment. Before music management, as far back as the late 90’s, I was already managing dancers across Lagos nightlife, from Wazobia in Apapa, to Terry’s Bar in Surulere to the Colusium in Ikeja and also Lords night club in Maryland several other hotspots. I organized movement, bookings, payments, and made sure everybody got their share after every performance. That hustle taught me early lessons about people, talent, and entertainment business. Around 2004 myself and my fellow directors, mostly my brothers, started pushing upcoming artists seriously. The first artist we tried signing was an artist named F9. I honestly believed the name wouldn’t scale commercially and advised him to rebrand to “Famous” or something more marketable. But he stood his ground. We argued several times and eventually never signed him because he wasn’t willing to adapt. Then came the turning point. While planning an event in Apapa with my friend G daddy Mack where comedian Dauda was supposed to headline, I went to Ajegunle to pick up speakers from the legendary DJ ADC. While there, I heard a song blasting from the speakers. Immediately I asked: “Whose song is this?” I loved the voice. I loved the flow. The energy was different. They pointed at a young guy standing nearby and said: “That’s him right there.” That young man was @Solidstarisoko Right there on the spot, I told him: “Hop into my car.” I drove him straight to Little Johnny’s studio and told Little Johnny, “This is my boy. I just met him and I want to push him.” The rest, as they say, is history. And trust me… this is only the beginning of the story. I’ll still share how the journey with Solidstar really unfolded, the struggles, the breakthrough moments, and how we created the very first hit together.

@jon_d_doe Marriage should be partnership, not a rescue mission or a power struggle. Two people should come together because they genuinely value each other, not because one is trying to escape poverty or control the other financially.

Leave women in their poverty & allow poor men like them to marry them. Marry a woman that is of the same class as yourself. A woman shouldn't get married to you because she wants to survive. Let her get married to her type, & they both fight their way out of poverty. End.

@NY_amankwaa Amen

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Beautiful. Painful. Honest. Still proud of every lyric. Still connected to every emotion inside it. Reposting it today because good music doesn’t expire 🌑 If you have a favorite track from the EP, tell me below 🖤 Listen to Larvae Ep li.sten.to/larvaeep

Some songs are made for trends. Some are made for seasons of your life. Larvae EP was one of those for me. I recorded it during a period where I was becoming someone new mentally, emotionally & creatively. Listening to it now feels like reading old journal entries.

Patience and support only feel beautiful when they are appreciated, respected, and not used against someone later. A supportive partner can either become your peace or your pain depending on the kind of person you married. God bless your home sir.

Some get called lazy, jobless, or treated like a burden after giving years to the family. The difference is appreciation. A woman can sacrifice for the family and be loved for it… or be insulted for the very same sacrifice. Not every supportive wife gets valued unfortunately.

This post is beautiful because support and sacrifice were appreciated, not weaponized. Some women stay home, raise children, teach them, sacrifice careers, and support their husbands with the hope that they’re building together. Sadly,not every woman gets appreciation in return.

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@JapaCode @gamerwalt Exactly. Emotional accountability shldn’t be one sided. Men are constantly tld 2b strong, carry pressure silently,but they’re still human beings wit emotions,stress, fears & limits too. A healthy relatnship shld allow both partners 2b emotionally safe, self-aware & accountable.

@gamerwalt @Melllbinary I feel they just want to be unnecessarily unaccountable especially when it comes to their emotions, yet they expect men to always be in their best always even when he's observably under great pressure, they'd expect him to 'be a man' as if men too aren't creatures wt emotions

There’s a famous saying that a mother's love has two parts... milk and honey. The "milk" is the basics... cooking, cleaning, paying school fees, keeping everyone alive. Most of the women do that just fine. But the "honey" is the sweetness of life. It's the genuine joy of just being alive. Your family survives on the milk, but they thrive on the honey. When you wake up happy and at peace with yourself, your husband and your kids feel it. You don't even have to say a word. If you are miserable inside, no amount of "welcome home, darling" will fix it. No amount of butt smacking or carrying or winking at you will fix it. That energy changes the whole house. And some of you wear it everyday. You have to love your life first. Your husband CANNOT make you happy. But pray tell, what should husbands do in such a scenario to get out of the way and let you find it (happiness)? I won't guess... y'all don't know either.

@gamerwalt @gloriagyong Not all toxic behavior looks aggressive, violent, or obvious. Sometimes the damage is done quietly through manipulation, emotional punishment, constant criticism, silent treatment, guilt trips, or making someone feel emotionally unsafe.

We hear a lot about toxic masculinity, but let'ms talk about something that often gets swept under the rug... feminine toxicity in marriage. Toxic behavior doesn't have a gender, and guys, if you're constantly walking on eggshells in your own home, it's time to address the reality of your situation. ​What does feminine toxicity actually look like? It's more subtle than aggression. It's the silent treatment used as a weapon to punish you. It's weaponized guilt, where you're somehow to blame for everything, including her bad moods. It's constant, nagging criticism that slowly chips away at your confidence, or using intimacy as a bargaining chip to get her way. It's the constant shifting of goalposts... no matter how hard you try or what you do, it is never enough. Something else go dey. ​If you're dealing with this, how do you maneuver? ​Stop playing the game. When the silent treatment starts or the guilt trips roll in, don't chase her or apologize just to keep the peace. Stay calm and grounded. Reacting emotionally or getting defensive just feeds the toxic cycle. ​Set firm boundaries. You can be a loving husband without being a doormat. Calmly state what you will and will not tolerate. Try saying, "I want to resolve this with you, but I won't engage in a conversation where I'm being spoken to disrespectfully." Then, walk away if you have to. ​Trust yourself. Toxic dynamics often involve a bit of gaslighting. Trust your gut and keep your grip on the facts. Don't let your memory or your reality be rewritten to suit a narrative where you are always the bad guy. ​Never isolate yourself. Unhealthy behaviors thrive in the dark. Talk to a trusted friend, a mentor. It often takes a neutral third party to point out these unhealthy patterns and help you both course correct. ​Guys... you deserve peace, respect, and support in your own home. Remember that respect is a two way street, and it is perfectly okay to demand it.

@gamerwalt You said it all.. you took the words from my mouth. Well said 😊

I'll give married guys some free advice... ​Chase your wife around the house. You turn something on in her. You guys become children for just that 4 minutes running around. 😉 ​Lift her off the ground. It says something to her mind. 😉 ​But if you want to keep the spark alive in the middle of a busy life, add these to the list: ​Take over the dinner chaos. When she is staring down the pot trying to figure out how to feed everyone, stepping in and saying, "I've got this," or just ordering the Friday night pizza or food so she doesn't have to cook, speaks directly to her soul. ​Handle the unsexy logistics. ​Give her the gift of absolute silence. Sometimes taking the kids out of the house for two hours so she can just exist in a quiet room without anyone needing anything from her. ​Flirt with her during the ordinary moments. A wink across the room while you are both cleaning up the kitchen reminds her that underneath the heavy titles of "Mom" and "Dad," you are still just two people crazy about each other. ​Notice the invisible labor. Thank her for remembering the scheduling, the grocery, and all the behind the scenes magic that keeps the house running. It bridges the gap and silently says, "I see exactly how hard you work for us." ​The movie romance is great, but the trenches of everyday life are where the real connection happens. Show up for her there.

@devNEJ Ask yourself what do I want, am I in for the long run? Do I have the stomach for it? If yes, try and fix it and if its No, my best advice.. Empower yourself financially, heal and take care of your baby.

“My husband married me as a v!rg!n. It was after our wedding i found out how much he loves s3x. At first, it was enjoyable. But after I gave birth to our child, I totally lost interest in s3x. A month after childbirth, I got pregnant again. I had to ab0rt it. After that, I took IUCD family planning. There were side effects. I wanted to endure it, hoping the complications would stop. But it did not. I bl3d every day for 3months until my mum f0rced me to remove it. All through these, he was still having s3x with me. I decided not to have s3x with him again until I'm totally fine. Then I found out he's having an affair, and he placed the girl on a weekly allowance. I told my mother-in-law but she said it was my fault that he had an affair and that I'm not the first to marry as a v!rg!n. She married as a v!rg!n, too, and she never for once deprived my father-in-law of s3x because it is our duty, regardless of how our body feels. She even quoted a bible verse for it. I moved out with my baby and went back to my mum's house. But my mum pleaded that she doesn't want my life to end up like hers and I should go back to my husband's house” W0man shares a deeply personal account of her marriage, highlighting challenges she faced after childbirth and how it affected her relationship

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@piquancyfx @dorathyJNnah It's ai generated image of herself, you'll know with the fingers. They look awkward..

DO NOT DATE PEOPLE YOU HAVE NOT MET 🚨☠️⚠️ I saw this beautiful damsel on social media, and I immediately fell in love. She gave me her number and her voice was very sweet sonorous. I asked for video calls, but she ignored - always busy. So, I made a request, "Please, update your cover photo with your natural picture, no makeups, no flashy clothes, just natural," and she obeyed. The next thing I saw was a totally different photo of her, with some resemblances of the edited picture, but the difference was wild. Till now, I don't know what to do or tell her. She's been messaging and calling, but I'm yet to reply her. Check for the real picture in the comment section 👇

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