Remember that when you get pegged you can’t just expect it to feel good immediately for the first few times. It’s also very mental just as women who get penetrated. You have to feel comfy and safe and try different positions and dildos. It requires effort and patience.
@dominatrixem Professional Domination is not the same as it was 10 years ago. Blessed with having some incredible experiences with some incredible epic Professional Dommes in my experience. I dont want to be a slave today's Professional Domme. My focus is lifestyle
Why Dommes don’t keep most subs:
Because most men want the title
Not the discipline.
1. They become emotional labor.
Constant reassurance. Constant pings.
A Domme isn’t keeping a dependent.
2. They don’t follow instructions.
They “interpret.” They freestyle.
If you can’t follow words, you can’t follow her.
3. They’re inconsistent.
Intense for 3 days gone for 2 weeks. Devotion is routine, not mood.
4. They negotiate standards.
Discounts. Loopholes.
“Can we do it my way?”
Bargaining kills authority.
5. They bring fantasy energy.
Porn scripts. Quick highs.
No structure.
Real dynamics require trust & behavior.
6. They take more than they give.
They want attention, access, comfort
without adding value.
7. They can’t take correction.
Excuses. Defensiveness. Dramatic apologies.
Dommes keep trainable men.
What gets kept: quiet discipline, consistency, contribution.
Be easy to lead or be replaced