🦇Mommabat🦇

Baby's first fanfict post archiveofourown.org/works/31520495

@xeanfern cutting my hair short always feels like rebirth.. I find the discomfort of not being able to hide is like a purging. also hugs

@brienneOtart sorry friend .. it's not a good time

heck yes you do! chills

@brienneOtart finding a house is very very stressful... owning one is too. so take your time and pause if you can when you are feeling overwhelmed

@kcbirdgirl ❤️

I also logged onto FetLife and read people experiences from a returned local kink party... I am so nervous to reenter public spaces now and esp in kink since it's often so close and lots of personal experiences happening.. like the pandemic has made me really pull away from

@CatieOsaurus all my kink is non sexual as I am married to a vanilla person and monogamous.. we exist and we don't even have to be asexual...just let people kink however they want people!

you walk back into a space with strangers and just be that vulnerable.. and how did i do that biweekly for a while...and what does it mean to be in a room with strangers.... I know the pandemic has fuct me up in many ways... but losing my social expression and connections...😔

shared emotional experiences and even shared air.. like sharing air is not scary... and personal expression has been so shut down with the lack of social spaces... I don't kink at home... so for me it has also meant literal YEARS without expressing that part of myself... how do

we fostered 2 puppies, and threw a super successful birthday party for an often not confident 9 year old this weekend which included 26+ kids and tie dying.. I feel like this is success in many ways

@xeanfern exist.

@NavyPrism @aaronhoyland Same we are always masked

@aaronhoyland We are still almost always the only masked family when we go out. That's okay tho were used to being stared at. Between my son's autism and my wheelchair there's always someone sending glances our way. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

@aaronhoyland My kids are like the 1% masking in scho :(

Needed to hear this

@kim_amerie 💔

@the_debijackson 🤬

The kind and gentle folks who call themselves Kiwi Farmers decided that I was a groomer pedophile and that Avery would only be "safe" if they exposed our full names, addresses, cell phone numbers, places of work, etc. "to protect the children" dontchaknow.

Crazy story: My 9yo trans child was so proud and confident that they ended up on the cover of National Geographic Magazine (see my cover pic). It was the "Gender Revolution"! But within days, we were doxxed on KiwiFarms.

@AkilahObviously Lololol I miss you on WAD

Okay so I still haven’t had Covid. This past week I went to Disneyland, had several dinners and lunches with friends and done big group karaoke. Am I the final girl?

@HeyBenMcLean @foofighters I was thinking the same.. like 10 years of therapy in one song

@DallasKink Yeah I think it was inevitable but ... Still confusing and uncomfortable at best

@MsMommabat Things are...different. Nearly everywhere, it seems.

Finally getting the little legs to look at the Philly kink community post pandemic era fear and isolation.. and I'm not sure what is left... And I def took for granted the safety I felt before in that community and the joy it brought me and I miss it and that part of me...