syafiq

Alhamdulilah after 6 years been together, now you're my wife and bestie forever 🫶🏻🥰🤍

Ya Allah jadikanlah aku kaya supaya aku boleh shopping banyak, belanja parents & support peniaga lokal.

My parents selalu pesan; Kalau Allah uji kita, lepas satu satu ujian berat datang. Percayalah ada benda baik Allah nak ganti/bagi lepas ni.

Salam. Beli je lah kalau nak beli apa apa pun. Duit boleh cari, kebahagiaan tak boleh beli. Self reward is a must. Menyesal kemudian.

Sometime sekadar minta maaf je tak cukup ya. Do something that can change someone mood. Kalau rasa dah buat salah, minta maaf and buat la something. Buat dia gelak ke, buat dia happy. Spoil them with anything. Jangan minta maaf je, lepastu diam and buat macam takde apa.

I selalu bagitahu diri i yang everything is going to be okay. But the fact is, there are days where things are gonna get worse. Penat sebenarnya nak jadi positive ni. Begitu lah hidup. Kejap stress. Kejap happy. Lepastu stress balik.

You're not sensitive. You're not overreacting. If it hurts you, it hurts you. Terlalu meng‘okay’kan hal yang tak okay. Sampai bila you kena jadi the person with the bigger heart? Isn’t it tiring? Your feelings matter too.

"Aku tahu je tapi taknak cerita." Tak suka orang jenis macam ni. Kalau nak cerita, bagi cerita penuh. Cerita habis habis. Kalau taknak cerita, diam terus. Jangan lah bagi orang lain buat spekulasi bukan bukan & overthinking. Sometime things are better to be kept to yourself je.

Please start saving your money from now eventho tak jumpa lagi jodoh or tak decide lagi bila nak kahwin. Because once dah countdown nak kahwin, tak boleh nak saving dah. 5 months before dah start spend duit beli itu ini.

I think redha is a hard thing to do. Kadang benda yang berlaku semalam, 3 tahun lepas or 7 tahun lepas pun belum tentu kita boleh redha sepenuhnya. Tapi bila kita dah betul betul move on and redha dengan benda tu, rasa dia macam alhamdullilah lega sangat sangat.

Orang dari broken family ni lain tau. Kalau kawan kau luahkan masalah family dia, kau jangan cakap dia aibkan family dia. Jangan jadi judgemental pulak. Belajar memahami, belajar jadi pendengar yang baik. Toxic family is real and exist. Stop judge.

Satu je nak cakap. If you know someone past, please don't ever ungkit balik or cakap balik. You don't know how some people struggle to erase all the memories. If you know that people doesn't mean you know everything about them. Watch your mouth.

Entah lah. Lately ni rasa macam demotivated betul. Rasa macam tak tahu dah achieve apa dalam hidup ni. Feel like nak disappear and start all over again.

Idk why selalu pesan dekat orang kalau sedih jangan pendam sorang. Cari orang yang you percaya & share. But bila diri sendiri yang sedih, takut nak share sebab rasa macam membebankan. Betul lah, bila kita nak nasihat orang senang tapi nak ikut nasihat kita sendiri tu yang susah.

Semua orang ada minat masing masing. Don't cross someone else's border, just sit in your area. Kita duduk dalam kawasan kita, dia duduk dalam kawasan dia. So tak perlu judge minat orang lain. Lain orang, lain struggle. Stop compare.

Pernah tak? Rasa macam taknak buat apa apa. Rasa taknak reply text, taknak buat kerja, taknak interact dengan orang, rasa malas seharian macam nak baring je and tengok dinding lama lama. Rasa macam social energy dah habis.

Satu yang i belajar kalau kita tengah sedih, apa yang kita rasa ni temporary. It's not going to last & it will only get better than this. Allow ourselves to be sad. Just cry. Maybe can't solve anything, at least you rasa lega. Tears actually make you stronger. Trust the process.

"Takkan sebab tu pun nak menangis." What hurts me, hurts me. Maybe pada kau benda tu nampak normal. But not for me. Nobody has the right to validate what I feel unless they're me. Please don't test me.

Penat juga pendam sebenarnya. But lagi penat let it out, bercerita. Last last orang yang dengar cerita kita tu pun menghilang. They know what hurt us and use that against us or even better. They pull up with a remix and hurt us with the same thing but their way. Pendam je lah.

Kalau rasa social energy dah habis, rehat lah. Rasa terlalu burnout dengan life/work, pergi bercuti & etc. Your mental health must be priority. Please take good care of your body, your mind & heart. If you need to take a rest just do it. Give yourself break, don't force yourself.

I miss the old me. The tough me, the happy me, the crazy one. Yang tak ambil kisah pasal benda kecil. Yang takkan terkesan sikit pun dengan manusia. Always being the positive one, tak overthink benda kecil. yang tahu hargai diri sendiri. Entah lah, betul lah aku rindu.