A man of spirit has an unconditional loving
characteristic, where he lives to do good, yet is fully integrated with the most animalistic, destructive parts of himself. Not in avoidance of it, but with the courage to face it, and then to embrace it.
What we keep up with that isn’t us doesn't serve us. When you realize that you are the one with the spoon, feeding yourself the love you never got, you will seek to deconstruct all the false aims that made you look elsewhere. You are the only one loving yourself the way you need.
You won’t allow yourself to feel emotions for someone you don’t feel safe with. Doesn't mean your emotions for that person don’t exist. Heartbreak is painful because you love them.
You must be a very feminine woman to contend with a very masculine man. if you can create that in your life, to have a loving relationship that realizes both individuals, then you can have a love that translates and is passed down to your children.
If you begin to punish the people you like by withdrawing from them, you are asking to be around people who mistreat you, and by default, will mistreat the people you are connected with.
Conveniently moving in with someone, conveniently having someone cater to your unhealthy lifestyle, conveniently timed after a breakup — these relationships are the most destructive.
There is a responsibility for the feminine to follow the masculine and support his life.
That is the vulnerability of the feminine and her strength to grow and evolve.
The sooner you begin to question that, you might find the quality of the man you’re with will follow.