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@R_Daygame 10/10 forearm

D1 with Austrian girl 4 hours with few venue change. it was nice but unfortunately she needs to meet her friends tonight somehow we had to end early. no lays somehow i feel scared about holding her hands, felt like ive lost my mojo. meeting her again tomorrow. 🤞

@juliusfishes @CrownDaygame Being suspicious is normal. But if you have high self-esteem: just start talking with her. Ask questions why she approached you. Ask questions to see if it is indeed a scam /robbery I’m sure if she didn’t reveal the truth, these guys would have felt bad later declining the offer

@NaturalDaygame @CrownDaygame That's nice. (here's the critical thinking part) What makes you think guys don't think guys are suspicious about this encounter in the video because of their self esteem and not because, well, it's so suspicious it's actually a hidden cam....

youtube.com/watch?v=5JJFBt… This illustrates why technique matters. She is attractive. Besides the clearly weird cases (an old man, a couple, a dad and daugther) which of course we shouldn't be approaching, my guess is all of the guys (or nearly all) would say yes. But they didn't. Because, well, she was weird -- she had "anti-game". If she just behaved more normally, my hunch is she'd convert much higher. Note: I am not saying if she were more charismatic. I am simply saying if she abided by normal social conventions as much as one can while approaching a stranger (which itself is somewhat against convention). The idea isn't her charisma or "game" would win the guys over, it's that these guys are already attracted, but her poor technique is turning them off. Pretty illustrative analog.

@CrownDaygame @juliusfishes It’s 100% true because he also told us extreme simp stories about himself. He was extremely suspicious. But it was a Dutch Gym girl that had a lot of testosterone and wanted to dominate him because he was Asian.

@NaturalDaygame @juliusfishes Good for him if that's true. I bet he felt suspicious though

@juliusfishes @CrownDaygame 2 years ago a friend, very average and not experienced with women, got approached in the gym by a girl. He was very shy but she bluntly asked to come home with her to have sex. He did. Not as blunt as in the video. But pretty similar.

@juliusfishes @CrownDaygame I’ve literally stories like this from close friends. It’s very rare, but it happens.

@CrownDaygame @juliusfishes That guy won’t gain anything by giving me (a stranger) money. So it’s not comparable.

@NaturalDaygame @juliusfishes Think of this: someone walks up to you in the street with a briefcase, opens it and says "take as much money as you like." Wouldn't you be suspicious?

@juliusfishes @CrownDaygame But why should you think so bad about yourself that an offer like that couldn’t apply to you? The actor example is of course an hyperbole.

@NaturalDaygame @CrownDaygame ...because it's not an offer that's too good to be true for a famous actor

@CrownDaygame @juliusfishes Who says she wants to have sex with as many guys as possible. Maybe she just wants to have sex with that specific guy. Just thinking that proves my point tbh. If she approached a famous rapper asking this, it wouldn’t be viewed as insincere at all.

Are you kidding? It's because the offer is too good to be true. If she actually wanted to sleep with as many guys as possible she'd work in porn/use an app/go to a bar/generally be extremely agreeable. Guys know this. Being approached by a girl offering sex is WEIRD and not to be trusted.

Deep down we all have the same core issues. It just outs differently in each individual.

And it’s really bad. I could now find the perfect GF on an app. But I still wouldn’t be happy because I haven’t ‘fixed’ these two things.

I got a decent amount of lays / girlfriends in my youth. However only through apps and social circle (friend groups / classes). I never kissed a complete stranger at a party. I never made a random girl fall in love with me during daytime. And these things bother me immensely.

However most of my approaches gave positive responses. But it still won’t rewrite the negative thought pattern.

I haven’t approached a lot of women in my life. Around 70 in total. It’s very difficult for me to normalise it in my brain. I keep getting demons who tell me I’m going to annoy her. And that I will trigger nasty reactions.

Starting an X account. To share my journey in ‘approaching’ women.