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Zara Larsson defends her story saying she loves criminals while condemning ICE: “People in my DM are like "aahhhh criminals?!?!?!?" Girl YES, heavy on that 😛😛 shit, the reason why my sweet, loving, kind, caring, compassionate, smart, generous, talented, thoughtful man can't come to the US - AT ALL - to visit me ever since we got together almost 6 years ago is because he has a criminal record. Guess for what! Weed! Hahahahaha like?? Who gives a fucking fuck?!? Actually, correction! He USED to have a record. It's been so long since he smoked that spliff that it's officially gone from his name and yet he still can't get in. We spend months and months apart every year because of a little spliff over 6 years ago. I'm not saying it should be legal... wait... yes I am - but that's another conversation. I'm just saying there's thousands and thousands of people who go to jail and prison over none violent crimes like drugs, mostly black and brown people because of Ronald Reagan being racist in the 80s and fucking up communities. Idk about yall but l'd rather have someone smoking crack on my couch than a fucking ICE agent ewwwwwwwww. They're criminals too. Killing, kidnapping, violent, hateful ones.”

My wife stopped saying "thank you" when I did the dishes. I noticed. I was offended. "I'm helping," I thought. "Where's the gratitude?" One night I said it out loud. "I did the dishes. Again." She looked at me like I'd asked for a medal. "You live here too." That's when it hit me. I wasn't "helping." I was living in my own house and acting like a guest who occasionally tidied up. She didn't need help. She needed a partner who stopped waiting to be thanked for what he should've been doing anyway. Your wife doesn't need a helper. She needs a man who stops keeping score.