A founder shared this story on the timeline today:
He hired a team member during the early startup days. That employee colluded with staff, pulled dirty deals, and quit once he stole enough. The betrayal forced the founder to shut down his company.
3 years later, that same ex-employee slid into his DMs begging for help.
- If someone intentionally destroyed your livelihood and comes back years later in need, do you ignore them, call them out, or forgive?
“I am a 33 year old man who has been dating a woman for about three months.
Our relationship is still very new, yet we are already facing serious challenges that are breaking my heart.
A month ago, another man approached her, and she told him she was single even though I was right there in her life. When I found out, we argued bitterly, but because I love her deeply, I chose to forgive her and move forward.
Yesterday, however, I discovered that the same guy is still in her WhatsApp. Their chat was locked. When I asked for the password, she claimed she had forgotten it. I know in my heart she was lying. They have been talking secretly for a whole month now.
My head is spinning. I feel completely torn apart. Part of me wants to walk away and protect my peace, but my heart is aching for her so badly that I can barely breathe. I don’t know what to do.
What should I do?”
NYSC new reforms
- Orientation now set to be six (6) weeks to train corp members on digital, leadership and entrepreneurial skills
- Uniform to be changed
- Now to be led by a civilian
- Every form of parade and paramilitary orientation to be scrapped
- Passing out Parade to be replaced by a graduation ceremony