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“Osas built her hair business from the ground up even before marriage. She was independent, and focused. But after she got married, everything changed. Her husband relocated her to Abuja and began to isolate her. He wouldn’t allow her to rent a shop. He wouldn’t let her stay connected with her family. He controlled her movements and her growth. Despite all this, she kept pushing, continuing her business online, her hair business was doing so well online, her so-called horsband became jealous of her, the fight started when the so-called horsband told her the marriage will be 50/50 Osas refused stating that she was already carrying the weight of the home, taking care of her children, including his child from before their marriage. That alone says everything about the kind of woman she was. And now… this man has beaten her to death. A whole life. A bright future. Gone. What is even more heartbreaking is hearing that there are attempts to release him because of his influence. Influence? Over justice? Over a human life? And then to make matters worse, some people are online saying she was wrong for not agreeing to 50/50. How did we get here? How did basic humanity become so twisted? This is not just a story. This is Osas. Someone’s daughter. Someone’s friend. Someone who deserved to live. We cannot stay silent. Dear parents stop encouraging your daughters to stay patient in an abusive marriage” Credit:Nancy Johnson

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What cravings can N7,500 satisfy? 👀

STOP KILLING CHRISTIANS‼️‼️‼️

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@feyiszn Oh I am... As long as there's what to eat and read without going out.

Serious question, do people actually exist who genuinely enjoy staying home all day, completely alone, without seeing anyone?

@paulakingbola Happy birthday 🎉

+1 🎉 Sooo grateful 🙏

If you have a strong faith of buying your first car this year, repost.

This is the first time I am publicly recommending a Nigerian movie. It's not the usual mumu love stories and indecent dressings. You will almost cry. I don't think Bimbo has any bad movie because she is very intentional.

You cannot make more money than your level of information. The more you know, the more you earn.

CHRIST IS KING, NOW AND FOREVER

This poor girl was raped in her vagina and butthole continuously for up to 5 years before her body gave up and she died Her abusers are walking the earth freely. #justiceforOchanya

@Toribabieegirl @PenTitan I don't think so

Be brutally honest. In your next life, would you choose your dad to be your dad again?

PLEASE HELP! 🙏🏾 Due to ongoing road construction at lekki road, Lagos. the affected route was reduced to a single lane for both directions, resulting in severe traffic congestion and compromised safety for both motorists and pedestrians. Victor Sike was operating a motorcycle along this corridor when a pedestrian reportedly crossed the road unexpectedly. The pedestrian collided with Sike, causing him to fall from the motorcycle onto the roadway. While Sike was incapacitated on the road, a heavy-duty truck approached the scene. According to witness accounts, the driver had a clear opportunity to brake and avoid the victim. However, the driver deliberately ran over Sike’s leg, crushing it, and subsequently fled the scene without stopping to render aid or report the collision. Following the hit-and-run, Victor Sike lay unconscious on the roadway. No emergency services or first responders were noted to have arrived at the scene during the subsequent period. He remained unattended under harsh environmental conditions (scorching sun) for over four hours. After this interval, a group of individuals arrived at the location under the guise of Good Samaritans. Instead of transporting Sike to a medical facility, they: Tied his legs, ·Transported him to an undisclosed location described as a shrine, Are alleged to have intended to kill him for the purpose of harvesting and selling his body parts. The aunt of Victor Sike, acting independently upon receiving information about his whereabouts, located the facility, described as a shrine where he was being held. She successfully extracted him from the location and transported him to a medical facility for emergency evaluation and care. No law enforcement involvement in the rescue has been documented at this time. Upon presentation at a medical facility, Victor Sike was found to have sustained severe injuries to his leg, originally incurred during the hit-and-run incident involving a heavy-duty truck. According to the attending medical team, the condition of the limb has been critically complicated by external factors introduced during his captivity. Medical reports indicate that the suspected organ harvesters deliberately applied chemical substances to Victor Sike’s injured leg. Medical professionals have determined that these chemicals were introduced with the apparent intent to facilitate rapid surgical removal of tissue or to accelerate deterioration for operational convenience. The application of these agents has resulted in extensive tissue damage, necrosis, and secondary complications. As of the most recent medical evaluation: · The leg remains in a critically compromised state. · A total of 1,800,000 NGN has already been expended on preliminary treatments aimed at salvaging the limb and rejuvenating damaged tissue. These interventions have proven unsuccessful. · Wound infestation: The affected leg is now infested with maggots, indicating advanced tissue decay and the presence of open, necrotic wounds. · Risk of systemic infection: There is a significant and imminent risk that the infection will spread beyond the limb, potentially leading to sepsis, systemic organ failure, or fatality. Medical practitioners have advised that surgical intervention is required to prevent the spread of infection and to determine the extent of necessary amputation or salvage efforts. The procedure is time-sensitive. Requirement Details Time Window 7 days from the date of this report Purpose Surgical intervention to halt infection spread; likely amputation or extensive debridement. Please let's save Victor Account number: 2120500556 Bank: Uba Account Name: Victor Sike Okituneng

@Zeezah221 1 and 3....but I'd really love 5 Sha...I'd honestly like to read people's mind and smile at them when I know exactly what their thoughts are like.....

You can only pick 2: 1: Marry the perfect partner 2. Unlimited skincare 3. $20k every month 4. Unlimited free food 5. Read people’s minds

Twas a good long read. It is less about IVF and more about financial illiteracy and risk. A 30% monthly interest loan is a guaranteed collapse, not a gamble. The real takeaway is that hope without structure destroys families. Also, relationships built primarily on provision will always be fragile when provision disappears. It is a harsh truth, but one many people avoid confronting until it is too late. I still feel for those seeking children. It our society. I have family members that had suffered cos of the lack of children

I got a call from the Chief Security Officer of my former office He said he needed a loan of ten million Naira I asked him what he needed the loan for He said his wife had recently clocked 50 and she had never had a child, so he wanted to use the money to pay for IVF so that she could become a mother I knew he had children because while we were working together, he would often complain to other staff members who had children about school fees, the conduct of one of his daughters, and so on. So I said, "Papa T, I know you have three children, so your request is a bit confusing." He said after ten years of marriage without children, he got another lady pregnant and married her as his second wife. This lady was the one who bore him his three children. He said he eventually told his first wife about it, and she accepted the younger wife and children, but she still wanted to have children of her own. I asked him if they had been to the doctor and if the doctor had recommended IVF treatment for his wife. He said the doctor gave them options, including surrogacy, IVF, and some others He was earning a hundred thousand Naira a month at the church where he was working as CSO While he was working with an oil company, when he was younger, he had built a modest house at Alakuko in Lagos It was this house that he wanted to use as collateral to get the loan he needed for the IVF treatment. I applauded him for his steadfast support towards his first wife, but I told him getting a loan to do IVF when you don't have a means to repay the loan is a bad idea. I have sponsored the IVF of many people, and I can categorically say that IVF is not an exact science. I have seen it fail more times than it succeeded. I know those who did it nineteen times, only for the last one to produce children. I know those who did it fourteen times, ten times, five times, etc I counselled him to encourage his first wife to accept the children of the second wife as her own or to adopt a child either officially or from a relative to raise as her own. I am a parent, and I was once a child. The irony of being desperate to have children has always stayed with me. A couple starts life together, they have children who take everything from them without giving anything tangible in return most times. The children grow up and leave the house. The couple goes back to being without children in a sense. That is the cycle of life. When I see wives who are desperate to have children to the point of falling into depression, becoming suicidal, and languishing in deep sorrow for their inability to conceive, I consider such women to be very dangerous and selfish. To define yourself by something so fleeting and consider your life a waste without having it is not only ridiculous, it is a wanton display of foolishness. It proves you are not in the marriage to love and be loved by your husband. To you, he is only a means to an end. The end being your child or children. After such women become mothers, their marriages suffer a lot. They also overcompensate towards the children and do not raise them very well. At the end of the day, they play a significant role in their children's lives until they die. Often blackmailing the children emotionally and ruining their other love attachments, especially relationships and marriages. The husband they were supposed to bond with and grow old with, they would have bashed and treated with scorn, only to latch on to the children as their support system in their old age. I told Mr. CSO and His wife all this when I had the opportunity to counsel them. I believe in Miracle Babies, either through IVF or by Supernatural conception or natural conception, all children are the same, and they are a blessing of the Lord in my sight. I celebrate all the miracle babies born in GSWMI daily, and I thank the Lord Jesus for them. I will not, however, counsel any couple to sell their properties or take huge financial loans in order to fund an IVF treatment. They thanked me and left with the wife promising to stop nagging her husband and wait on the Lord. This morning at 2:35 AM, my phone started buzzing persistently. I ignored it. I picked up the phone at 4:30 AM and saw videos, voice notes, and chat messages from Mr. CSO. He said he needed help urgently He collected a loan of 20 million Naira from a company three years ago to fund the IVF treatment of his wife. They had done six sessions and exhausted the fund without any result. He took the loan at 30% interest rate per month and now owes them 236,000,000 Naira. He had been taken to court, and his properties had been forfeited to the loan company. The company came to enforce the court order last Friday, and he and his family had been scattered to the wind. The second wife and the last child had gone back to her parents' house at Ijegun. The first two children are in the University. The first wife had also gone to stay with her younger sister's family somewhere in Ibadan. He is currently sleeping in the security house at the pastor's house while still working as the CSO of the pastor's church. He said the value of his house was about 45 million, and as things stand, he is still owing the company almost two hundred million. He had been declared wanted by the police after he escaped being charged in court for a deficiency balance on the loan. He said he believes he must either leave Nigeria or end up in jail. He had sold his car, the grinding machine of his wife, and other things that they could sell. He said he is in danger of losing his job because he couldn't go to the office so as not to get arrested, but he is currently on leave while he sorts out his affairs. He said he needed whatever help I could give him. I asked him if he had gotten any help or support from either of his wives or their family members. He said his second wife hates him at the moment, and her children have refused to take his calls. He said his first wife has two plots of land in her name somewhere in Ikorodu. He said he begged her to sell the land and send him the money so he could leave Nigeria with it, even if it would only take him as far as Ghana. He said she told him that was everything she had to show for all the years of sacrifices she spent with him, and refused to entertain the thought. The wise thing for me to do would be to say "I told you so". But it wouldn't have been the humane thing to do. I assured him of my love and support in this trying time. We prayed together, and I ended the call. PS: When men forget that their value to those in their lives is intrinsically linked to the benefit they offer in terms of shelter, food, clothing, and finances. They gamble with it and discover that they are nothing to their loved ones when the gamble fails. -GSW-

@DrealTobi_ @OAeoleon Yes o

@Olubukuns @OAeoleon Best decision you made!

Corporate Greed vs Everyday workers: Life of a contract staff in Nigeria My father worked at Zenith Manufacturing Ltd in Apapa for 28 years. Never missed a day. Won Best Staff twice at their annual dinner. Last Monday, the HR manager called him on WhatsApp. 4 minutes. That was it. Retired early. No severance. Nothing. The same month, the MD flew to Dubai for the company’s “executive retreat.” Dubai. My father left Ikorodu at 5am every morning to beat third mainland bridge traffic. Every single day for 28 years. He turned down a government job in 2009 because he believed in that company. They let go of 280 staff that week. 280 families. The disengagement letter came via email. They spelled his surname wrong. After 28 years, they couldn’t spell ADEYEMI correctly. He sat in the parlour that evening and just stared at the wall. My mother kept bringing him tea he never touched. We didn’t know what to say. He’s 56. No pension processed. NSITF contributions? Unaccounted for. NHF? Nobody is picking up. This is happening in companies all over Lagos, Abuja, PH. Everyday Nigerians sacrificing everything while oga at the top is chilling. Make una repost. Make this reach.

@DrealTobi_ @OAeoleon Honestly. I had to resign from a job because of this. I wasn't growing, they barely increase salary, nothing, everybody was just there.. I couldn't stay. I was putting my all, my time, everything and my business was suffering I had to advise myself to build my business.

@OAeoleon You don’t put all your effort in another man’s growth. Instead prioritize yourself first. Your father should have known this.