Onexadi

@CringedCyanide @ImoutoCunny85 What if I did try and work on myself already and it didn't work

@ImoutoCunny85 It’s a case to case thing I guess Some people just need to actually try Some need to work on themselves Some are just gay Some just need to not look desperate A general thing though is just stop calling yourself an incel to begin with

I used to pity incels but I just don’t anymore

@pierodesukedo @discordspies Biggest larper of all time

@discordspies you would love to have a conversation with someone who is grounded in reality?

I would really love to have a real conversation with a woman who thinks guys like this are remotely common I will grant that they are more insufferable than actual incels tho

@pimnobody @pierodesukedo Anecdotal and they were likely neurotypical and/or had dark triad traits so it literally doesn't apply to me but okay

@Onexadi @pierodesukedo Oh shut up dude I had and still have so many friends who like the ugliest nastiest men ever legit nazis and rapists and they all ugly as shit. And those are like regular chicks or pooners

“incels” trying to ignore the hundreds of thousands of foids that fetishize and want them

@burgerbabe2000 False

BECAUSE THEY REALLY REALLY REALLY HATE WOMEN!!!!!!!!!

@i303922 And I'm not desired enough for either so now what

@Onexadi if lack of love is what is keeping you celibate then its not involuntary, you only need to be desired enough for sex

Undoubtedly the most insufferable thing about femcels is that they'll flip the hypergamy argument around and claim that incels would never date ugly women or that they reject women that aren't stacies. I know they aren't talking about literally every incel, but

@pierodesukedo It's just like a femcel to project her experiences with chad onto every man. Even if some girls want incels it's the idealized and sanitized version of one, just like how guys say they like "femcels" but they're talking about shy women with big boobs.

@Onexadi if they didn’t want incels there wouldn’t be anything like this keep being stacy only and seething in a truecel’s replies manwhore

@hangedmale And unfortunately since I live in southern U.S. alt people, let alone alt women, aren't all too common. I wouldn't say it's impossible but the point is my odds are just really slim overall. Plus even if I happen to find the one in a billion, they may just find me ugly lol.

@Onexadi Hm. maybe not a bnwo fetishist but a " Snowbunny " instead ? The only consistent attention i've seen average or below average black men is from like nerdmaxxing and finding some alt girl... Quite a troubling situation here.

@hangedmale I'm black so my only hope would hypothetically be finding a white girl with a thing for BBC but the problem is I'm only average sized and they only fetishize tyrone anyway, average/below average black guys don't fit the idealized image so they basically don't exist to them lmao

@Onexadi i guess it depends on how dark you are and what type of ethnic group... but yes i have noticed a lot of brown women think they deserve hot kpop boys or chad white guys. Which i'm not sure where that came from. Maybe go for a white girl with a raceplay fetish.

@hangedmale Well I'm glad you see the problem at least lmao. White men can't be incels but I'm not white, so there's not really much I can do unfortunately. Even the most accepting femcels only wanna date white or asian men. I've tried dating my own and got rejected everytime so it's over.

@Onexadi Well unfortunately there is nothing much you can do about being a deathnic. Except date your own kind i guess but even then the beauty standard is eurocentric so she'd probably want Chad's BWC Still, if you managed to make incel synonymous with loserboys instead of misogynists..

@MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain Better chance maybe, but never a guarantee. Some people can genuinely try their whole lives, even after getting help, and still never receive genuine love. I don't think it's fair to expect them to just feel normal about it. That doesn't justify violence or anything, but still...

@Onexadi @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain therapy has a much better chance of making you lovable than removing someone's autonomy does.

1) don't be a rapist monster and this movie isn't about you. that simple. 2) if you think taking away someone's autonomy and forcing yourself on them is fine, yes you deserve to be miserable and alone at the very least. 3) you know nothing of the female gaze. sooo many women would be attracted to someone who looks like Bear. in fact, in the movie there is another woman who has a huge crush on him. that's kinda the point. what women aren't attracted to is rapists or bitter little incel manchildren.

@KIPHIsMe @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain Okay well if you're consistent with that at least then I won't really hold it against you, sorry for calling you a hypocrite. I understand where you're coming from to be honest but I understand where he is too and I just think it's nuanced and it's better to try to understand.

@Onexadi @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain You're assuming I'm a hypocrite when I never even responded to that point you made? I believe all bad thoughts, when powerful enough, lead to action. I don't like the term "all ____" and any obsessive thoughts of violence I believe are harmful.

@KIPHIsMe @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain Will they? Tell that to all the women who say kill all men on this site every day. I don't even personally care about them or think they're harmful, I just dislike hypocrites, like you. There's no basis to believe he'll act on these thoughts, people have intrusive thoughts often.

@Onexadi @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain You can empathise with the fact he feels miserable but you cannot allow him to carry these thoughts because they will turn to action. Most cases like this people abandon their humanity or rationale for their own satisfaction. You cannot defend these thoughts they will get worse

@MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain You're still choosing to not understand, he never even said anything about rape, you just assumed it. People like you always assume it's about sex sex sex, when it's more about the lack of any romantic validation. Therapy won't make people magically love you.

@Onexadi @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain nobody gets driven to rape. that's a choice people make, one that's easily avoidable. talk to a therapist, take medication, find other things that give you fulfillment. all of these things will help someone feel better, and they'll probably even help them get laid.

@KIPHIsMe @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain He never actually said he was gonna rape anyone? That's like if a woman says "kill all men" you start crying and saying that their trauma or whatever isn't an excuse to want to kill men. She obviously would never actually do it, and people are inherently irrational.

@Onexadi @MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain Mother fucker everyone is completely normal until they get beaten down? The reason its a moral failing is because YOU CAVE IN to SELFISH NEEDS and hurt someone FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIFE. If your life sucks that much GO GET THERAPY don't result to being a RAPIST?

@MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain You have no idea what drove him to that point. For all you know he could've been completely normal until he was beaten down by the world over and over again and now he's at his wits end. Not everyone has the mental fortitude to withstand that. Have some empathy.

@Onexadi @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain guy is talking about considering sexual assault to feel like he has some kind of connection to a woman, and you think there's no moral failing.

@hangedmale @pierodesukedo You say that as if it's just something you can do on a whim lmao Women don't like incels, that's why we're incels, we can't do anything about it. It's involuntary for a reason. The only "incels" women like are scrawny white boys with dark hair, ethnic guys are still hated lmao.

@pierodesukedo like if they were smart they'd try to get women to have incels as a type but theyre so low iq that they cant even figure that out

@MaliciousOnion @Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain Why do you people always assume lack of romance indicates a moral failing? Not a single person could ever be unlucky and feel frustrated due to that. If anything, your "advice" only makes it worse by assuming he must be doing something wrong.

@Zerocross013XV @spookygirlrain you should scrutinize your own actions to understand why nothing is working for you. i guarantee there's a reason there.

@nyansterchan Because they wouldn't date me? Duh. You act like choosing someone to date is a one way street

why don’t incels date these girls?

@Edel_wweiss Exactly

@Onexadi I don't even know why i said that