Opening Gateways - Exxxotica Chicago 2026

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Kink of the Day: Mantras #BDSM #kink #SexTalk #OGchat #KinkoftheDay

Definitions - Questioning: the process of exploring one's own gender identity, gender expression, and/or sexual orientation. via @AdultLanguageX

Kink of the Day: Kneeling #BDSM #kink #SexTalk #OGchat #KinkoftheDay

Prophylactic: an old-fashioned word for condom. #sextalk

"People looking for a dildo closer than many to an average cock size will enjoy the Shiloh from @NYToyCollective. Plus, the ability to put it into many different shapes and angles is fantastic." The review: bit.ly/theNYTCshiloh

Always keep learning new and updated terms! Gender Expansive: an umbrella term for individuals who broaden their commonly held definitions of gender in their culture, include expectations for its expression, identities, roles, and/or other perceived gender norms. #OGchat

"Real potential is in the emergence of machine/human interfacing, any device or software that augments and enhances your sexual pleasure. Sen is essentially that." tis.xxx/Zveotec1 Read this interview about Sen! #sextoys #fetish #sextoy #strapons #sextalk

Kink of the Day: Communication #BDSM #kink #SexTalk #OGchat #KinkoftheDay

Fellatio: the sexual activity of sucking or moving the tongue across a penis or strap-on in order to give excitement and pleasure. #blowjobs

"Since that far-off day of naivete and embarrassingly bad communication skills, I’ve heard rumors that the The Ethical Slut is not universally praised, even in #poly circles. tis.xxx/EthicalSlut Am I afflicted with a serious case of rose-colored glasses?" #dating #polyamory

Kink of the Day: Business Suits #BDSM #kink #SexTalk #OGchat #KinkoftheDay

Definitions - Doggy Style: a sexual position where one person is kneeling on all fours and another person enters them from behind.

Took this shot over two years ago. Who's going to be in front of my camera next!? #fetish #kink #hairypussy #cosplay

Do you communicate needs, wants, and desires differently with people depending on if you are planning to do kink things with them versus if you aren't and are having other types of sex? How so or why not? #OGchat @TheOGchat @TheMeowU @Organotoy @AgreeableAgony @kinkdotcom

@CarterLazarra Even out here in the Detroit area there have been some ups and downs. Hope Columbus moves towards having more in-person educational opportunities! Is that one of the goals behind what you're starting up out there?

@OpeningGateways I am *always* thirsting for more in-person education. Columbus used to have a great educational scene as recently as 2024, we didn't know how good we had it. Now we're regularly driving 3+ hours to Indy, Detroit, Chicago, etc.

Flashback Friday! "Let's talk in-person BDSM classes! Have you taken them? If so, do you recommend them?" #OGchat #kink #fetish #sextalk

What do you think sexual self care is? Do you think most people practice it? #OGchat @TheOGchat

Excited to have more sex toy reviews coming soon! Take a look at the full review of the Sabre S from @Organotoy, pictured below: bit.ly/3Xnixcn #roleplay #sextoys We're loving this old fashioned movie style pic we took, too!

Been online & doing sw for 25 years & I just wanna take a minute of gratitude for how we as a group have dramatically increased our own political education.

Normalise having sex with your friends